A Narcissist Cant Love You Because of This

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Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.

Platforms I am on:

[PaulineMei-mh]

Yeap, it started from his narcissistic parents!

[fruitypopwhickle]

After 6 years, I can say I never met him. I never knew him. I only knew his ego. I was in a "relationship" with his ego for 6 years, and that was a horrible and tragic experience. He can keep his ego company now because I'm glad I'm free! Life has never been soooo good. I feel so happy, at peace and ease and good things are happening for me. Life without a narc is such a blessing.

[karlataylor]

I get all this. What l still have trouble understanding is why they can't just leave me alone. He has made it abundantly clear that he doesn't want to be with me. Repeatedly. For without fail....every single time he finds a new victima he comes back. It's emotionally exhausting. I don't want him either at this point l just want him to stop calling me and leave me in peace. To stop arriving here at all sorts of ungodly hours etc. He's beyond annoying. A bit like having a psychotic puppy or something. Driving me insane.

[MissReneeMichelle]

That's been the hardest truth to accept. My narcissist ex (and my narcissist father) are UNABLE to love me.

[Daniela-vcik]

This is so true because when I was telling him he’s cheating and he denied it, he said that he hated me bc I kept accusing him of cheating (he was)

[christinemunger]

My husband expressed gratitude, but it was only all about what I did for him

[TeresaCarol-kw]

Im much happier finishing the relationship i can start to heal everyday im getting better

[LjBrown-ff]

Egos walls - so sad !... they miss out on true love! he lost me never to get me back! I'm worth So much more!

[JesuisLord]

Be humble or be humbled, that spirit of pride will be brought down thank God, just do not wait around for it to happen and for their rock bottom

[rebekahjette]

Learning to respond instead of reacting in relationships is very important.⚠️ Protect your peace🕊️and remember that reciprocity is paramount! No reciprocity, no real relationship. Above all--Stay safe!!!

[nostoppingit]

Why don't narcs understand that if they would just be honest with themselves, they could become as great as they think they are?

[MajorieRoyal]

When you are so honest about yourself, those are the videos that help me the most. Thank you

[chilo]

Everthing you say made me cry because its the truth. I left after the beatings but it still hurts

[christopherstinebuck]

You are a beautiful person. Very wise and courageous to put yourself out there to spread real awareness. Keep up your good work. Do not stop doing what you are doing 🙂. You deserve much respect 👍

[nostoppingit]

What a tragedy that those with the greatest capacity to love, empaths, end up with those incapable of loving, narcissists. My narc never had a truly loving relationship growing up so it made no sense to me that he would just throw away the love I offered him.

[debbie]

This is your best video. Thank you for being so honest, putting it out there the way it really is. By accepting them, realizing that it’s their job to heal themselves and our job to heal ourselves. Hope is dope for the brain, we want a different ending for a childhood wound. Turn inward, you are the only one that can get to your inner child and heal them, no one else can get to them, only you. Your inner child only wants you. Debbie

[vickyjones]

This is an absolutely brilliant video Ben. The way you easily explain about the narcissist 'ego' in the way of loving someone, because the narcissist built his own wall, so not to be honest about himself. That the narcissist can't love you while the 'ego' is in the way! That he has this giant barrier 'ego' in the way to loving you. Only he constructed it, only he can tear it down.

Just such a fantastic video, explained beautifully.
Thank you so much Ben 💕

[ITSRAYANNNN]

Why does a controlling covert narcissist, call a submissive person controlling, and selfish and possessive for not wanting to get cheated on?

[disdainfu]

Anti-narcissism TRULY is gratitude!! I gave immense gratitude to my narc ex, sincerely too, despite IMMENSE emotional and physical pain after my first pregnancy and miscarriage, despite him showing TERRIBLE signs of infidelity. I thanked him for the gift of life and other reasons. We broke up as amicably as possible. The gratitude shut him down. He wasn't mean. If you are mature and treat them with maturity, maturity is hopefully what you will receive.

[nicholecornes]

Theres ALWAYS been a huge wall between my husband and i