3 CLEAR Signs It's Time to Cut Someone Out of Your Life

3 CLEAR Signs It's Time to Cut Someone Out of Your Life
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3 Signs You Need to Kick Someone Out Of Your Life (For Good This Time)

In this video I wanted to talk about - when do you know it's time to cut someone out of your life? For me, there are 3 clear signals to pay attention to in your relationships - whether they are extremely toxic abusive, manipulative, untrustworthy and make you feel not good, OR
their habits or lifestyle are not in line with your values, or your highest good.

Ask yourself, what does your most optimal ascension look like? Who do you need to be around to fan your flames? If being around them makes you regress (based on your goals & standards) then you need to release yourself from these relationships so you can move further forwards.

Let me know what you think in the comments below. I'd really love to hear from you personally :)

TIMESTAMPS IF YOU'RE IN A HURRY:

0:00 - What this video is about
0:54 - Sign number one - The major red flag you should watch out for
3:39 - Sign number two - The highest good principle
7:40 - Sign number three - You can't do epic things, with basic people...

- Keshav

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(last updated: March 2019)

[keshavbx]

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If you're struggling & want help, I highly recommend BetterHelp online therapy, especially if you've been affected by a toxic person/relationship.

[kclords]

Cutting toxic people out of your life doesn't mean you hate them. It means you LOVE YOURSELF enough to not go through the misery of their crap. I really needed this today.

[davidpiedra]

Glad I got rid of the majority of my friends. Kinda lonely but much healthier mentally and physically

[vangiekuparlyngdoh]

Never in my life was I expecting me to search this 💔

[AstroMartine]

It's hard to cut the toxic people out when those are the only ones around you.

[marvmoney]

Love when people who are toxic also cut themselves out of my life, it’s like thanks for doing the job without me doing it for you

[LetsHangOutWithPrarthi]

I am going to cut out all the toxic people from my life, and I won't tolerate abusive behavior from anyone.

[destinysparks]

It’s really hard when it’s family and they always look at you like you owe them something.

[Byzantios]

For those living with toxic people/family: its next to impossible to remove them from you mind and for them to influence you. They won't respect your boundaries. They will recruit other family members and friends against you. The slander and gossip will be relentless. There is no choice, you have to get out and get away.

[legitKwit]

Constant negativity, feeling drained they repeat the same mistakes regardless of your advice.... cutting her off. Also, when I say I can’t hang out they guilt trip me. I guess I will just have to stop replying to their texts. That’s their only way in. I have been lying saying I’m out of town because I don’t want to hang out. My God....it’s going grey walk

[fightermx]

I recently cut out some toxic friends out of my life but what still bothers me about it is i’ve been nearly friends with the wrong friends for nearly a decade and im kinda disappointed about myself for not realizing it before and i feel like i wasted good years with them. But now i feel more lonely but inleast i feel more healthy mentally and physically:)

[warriora]

bro ive never really had a friend that stuck around in a true and genuine manor, most people i allow myself to be surrounded by basically try to control me and my feelings/thoughts. Its to a point where i almost became submitted to living that way: being told what to do in the smallest ways. But recently i cut off all of those types of relationships and im feeling much better, like i did almost 3 years ago and its WEIRD. But just wanted to say thank you for this ENTIRE video, the more i watched this the more i realized that ive allowed myself to become exactly what your describing. Its an ugly realization, but one that frees you to not only make healthy relationships again, but believe in yourself because the parasite is gone.

[jennysheets]

I've cut friends out when they've gossiped, not been through major health issues, there was no reciprocity.

[jordanmitchell]

It’s ashame it can be the very people who have been watching you for years that lowkey don’t want to see you do good. They can lie all they want but energy does NOT LIE. Remember that.

[taralangton]

I'm going through this now. I already started stepping away weeks ago and standing up for myself. The person is noticing. I will keep moving forward. Great things ahead. Anybody going through this, keeping moving forward for yourself. Love yourself enough to walk away from
toxicity.

[vadamadsen]

I needed to hear something like this. I just recently cut someone out. It hurt like hell cause I believed they were really there for me and I opened up to her about things I’ve never explained to anyone, things that barely come out with out tears or pain. I feel like she she was listening and she gave me a different vibe from everybody else. We did everything together even though she would bring me down about my body, the things I like, the way I talked, Etc. But I was so blinded by the thought of someone understanding me, who would also have fun with me, I couldn’t see the harm her words were doing to me, I just thought she was joking and would never do anything to hurt me because she was someone I was so vulnerable towards. They broke me down little by little. I never thought too hard into it till the people around me pointed it out and I realized they were right. I was hurt by so many things she said pointing out my insecurities And when I was at my lowest she was thriving off me being less than. And when I started to get to my highest place in life I’ve ever been, suddenly everything I did was wrong and wasn’t okay with her. I couldn’t not understand what was going through her head cause I was happy and it felt like she didn’t want me to be. I tried everything I thought of to fix things, and see what was going on. I got so tired of it one day I even asked her if she had a problem. I decided I was done feeling put down and taken advantage of. I’m not living my life by her rules or what’s not perfect about me. We all have flaws and I’ve just came to a place in my life where I am okay with not being perfect and not doing everything by the book. And I never want to hit rock bottom like that again so I will do anything I can to help myself keep going up and keep a clear head. And if that toxic relationship was something that was holding me back from that, then I was gonna have to let it go. It was so hard for me and it hurt me so much to have lost the one person I could tell everything to without feeling judged or ashamed, the one who I thought really wanted the best for me but I didn’t need the little things she said anymore, the things she would blame me for, or her making me feel bad about my mistakes. We learn from the past, not let it beat up our future. And I would tell her and let her know how it made me feel. She acted like she was sorry but then it would happen again. Eventually a person hits there limits and I decided ima fill my life with people who bring me up, who I can have fun with and make me be a better me. I am starting to love myself and like who I am. When u like yourself it makes it easier to like everyone else and have more good days. I have to be nicer to myself and not beat myself about everything she pointed out about me. It’s okay to not be Barbie or be everyone’s favorite person, cause everyone has already see that. Be something new and something you are proud of and hope everyone else can love it just as much. With out all the toxic words and comments flooding into your mind. The fog was lifted and everything got clearer when I put this person outside of my box. Even though it hurts, Sometimes that’s just what it takes to be in a good okay place in life and get the toxic out of your life so that you can grow into the best version of whoever you wanna be and reach everything you are looking for to make your life successful and meaningful. Hardest thing I’ve learned so far.

[jackistrang]

I needed this video. I have finally decided to let go of old time friend. Toxicity holds no place in my life :) im smiling and happy whilst typing this. Releif and weight off my shoulders.

[dpsphil]

It felt so good cutting a negative person out.

[emiliamariaturnescu]

I wanted to cut a relative from my life a long time ago, the most toxic, manipulative, always wanted to make me feel like garbage , but i kept giving her chances, there where a lot of them, too much, i gave her too much credit, trusted her, and she always kept braking it, until yesterday when i finally decided to block her forever and in real life too, if i am obliged to see her i'll just pretend i dont know who she is .

[xavieramador]

“You are the average of the 5 people you hang around with”
That part right there really hit hard. I needed that.