Your Ex is TESTING You! WAKE UP!

An ex will always test you, and how you respond is key. Stop romanticizing the process of getting back with an ex. It is essential to be realistic and prepared for the challenges that come with this process. Show you have changed should be done for yourself, not just to please them. Stop Being needy and available should be avoided; being emotionally controlled and consistent in your actions is key.

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Elite coaching by Alex Cormont, the World’s #1 Breakup Recovery Coach

[MissMarjorie]

I will regain control by limiting my availability and expressing my joy over the new me.

[TJ_Watts_]

Quick update on my situation. Its not a get back together story but its not a negative story either and ultimately I am pleased and happy for ME.
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I ran into my ex yesterday (she broke it off with me and I was the one wanting to still fight). She left anyway, it’s been 6 weeks no contact but the initial break up was 1/26/23 :(.
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I took it as a sign that I was seeing her and I never planned to reach out because I was respecting her decision to leave and giving her space although I didn’t want it.
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I was always nervous to see her again and never knew how I would act but I’ve been doing the work, praying, manifesting, practicing affirmations, working on my mindset, hitting the gym and elevating myself through God! Ultimately, putting the energy all back into me instead of her and learning self love.
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And when I tell you, I was not going to reach out to her until she reached out to me because I needed/wanted to know that she desires me or wanted to reach out to me on her own terms and not because I did (aka no contact). Nonetheless, in this case I believe she was placed there, at that very moment in time for a reason, I wasn't going to overstep but I also wasn't going to ignore the fact that she's right in front of me so I walked up to her. I was shocked at how much strength I had to genuinely still tell her that I loved her, I missed her but I’m happy that she is doing her for her and that I’m still her biggest fan and that I forgive her (I have tears in my eyes typing this because its so hard and I love her so much).
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She broke down crying, she didn’t say much back (and I'm okay with that, we both were caught off guard) but I can tell that she is still emotional and my value, my presence and impact was strong enough to bring her to tears. And when she cried It was a friendly reminder to myself of how VALUABLE I was to her. I LOVE HARD, she gave up too early IMO but that's okay because I'm leveling up and God got me.
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She has not contacted me or anything still and I'm "kind of" okay with it (still working on not expecting the 3D to happen right way ;) but I want to tell you that I’m so proud of myself and thank God because I showed so much strength (strength that I didn't even know I had but I've been working so hard to be a better me during this break up and no contact) and pure LOVE because that was my baby girl and I was still able to walk away with my head held high and I think she noticed my strength too. I miss her but I’m proud of me.
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Idk what God and the universe has in store for me. He knows my “desires” and I believe he’s prepping me to realign with her or someone better. I pray that it’s her but only if it’s in Gods will. It was a sign, I’m not sure what the sign was for or about but I'm not going to question it, I'm just going to let things work out the way they are supposed to. I’m just so grateful and I’m walking in faith not by sight.
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I'm not sure if this happened from manifesting, prayer, working on ME for ME or a combination but the fact that I got to see her was a positive sign in my opinion. Not your ideal story when it comes to no contact, I personally don't think this will prolong things either and I still have hope for us so we shall see what happens. I just felt that I NEEDED to share this with you because your content brings so much value and I'm thankful for you.

All in all. I just want to tell people to DO THE WORK REGARDLESS because there IS a chance that they may not come back and if they do, you will have made he necessary changes or if they don't you'll be a better person for you and maybe someone else. I'm just excited and wanted to share, so cheers to see what happens next.

[peacemaker]

man, these advice are so valuable. but that is hard to DO

[olessyasmarsa]

Ex is acting hot and cold?! It’s not an ex yet then. Exes don’t talk, they disappear.

[nadinevanderpoorten]

Thank you Alex! Will do all the advice u said :)

[AlexieShaw]

Im glad my ex isnt re-attracted cause hes a souless monster

[dianerandall]

I have been changing and I got a makeover. He says that he doesn't want another woman. He's had bad relationships in his past. I'm nothing like his ex's. I'm faithful and blessed by God. We are both very spiritual people. How much do you charge, because I didn't see anything like Visa and MasterCard. I'm on social security and on a fixed income.

[dianerandall]

I love listening to what you're talking about.

[onehunned_]

Coach. I’m in no contact but my ex got very important legal mail to my house. What do I do?

[dianerandall]

You are so spot on. Hot and cold. But I can feel the LOVE in his heart and then when he leaves our home he does a 180 . He has spies on Facebook. He just told me. But he still pays the rental space and the homeowners insurance policy. What the hell.

[Everlasting]

Thank u ....such a very good advice ❤

[arantxagaweseb]

Coach Alex he told me its over he cant do this relationship anymore, when I said okay he asked me "are you saying okay" what does that mean?

[jackieguntzviller]

he tested me last week and i failed so badly...

[MichelleShellHolliday]

We still live together. My ex ended things 2 months ago. He works on an evening. So I only see him for 1 hour when I get home. He doesn't stay at home on the weekend.
He can be nice, asked if I want to go shopping, we watched tv together. What should I do?

[ezixezw]

I was w my long distance relationship ex boyfriend for 3 months. 4 weeks after now and I still love him very much and I want to get back together. But he’s making me very confused, in a way that idk if he loves me or doesn’t we still are in contact but we don’t text much like it’s me who texts him he only responds to my messages. He answers short and dry but also hot and cold i guess. I just want to know if he loves me or not even tho because of the distance it’s not easy at all.

[angelaponte]

My ex wife, like to say, ( you don't want to be with us ) she mean her kids, what should i do.

[albertomenezes]

my ex says that she need to see my personal grown. what now

[brianrochelle]

So what do you when you still live together and they make sexual references and say they aren’t flirting? Just ignore?

[majorychiwila]

I need your help my ex is so jealous of me

[nikosrosos]

Sorry but even if that it is completely true, why have a person back, that doesnt come back when she see that you want her, let her go you will find sonething better,