DON’T Analyze Your Ex’s Mixed Signals - THIS Is Why They Send Them

Don’t Analyze Your Ex’s Mixed Signals... This Is Why They Send Them

Getting mixed signals is confusing and frustrating. If you're still in love with the ex who's sending them, it can even be depressing!

In this video, Clay Andrews talks about MIXED SIGNALS FROM YOUR EX - why they do it and why you shouldn't get caught in them.
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[danielbrown]

I've been riding the dragon. She's now officially on NO CONTACT. Tired of her games. She needs to want me.

[andremendoza]

Why your ex is sending mixed messages

Analizing her messages gets you on a roller coaster. You lose the main focus: emotional connection. The roller coaster makes you give up, unless you go with the flow, by not analizing it

[mrkeitt]

Great video. My ex gf and I broke up last month. But we exchanged gifts that we already had 2 days before Xmas. It was a good visit. We hugged and kissed passionately and a few days later she went back in her shell. She wants to reconcile under the right circumstances. Right now things are peaceful and I'm not really reaching out. Tbh at this point I'm so frustrated I'm gonna let her reach out. As far over analyzing, I've been definitely doing so and it's obviously the reason I'm irritated lol.

[lorderectus]

You can’t build an emotional connection if they are not interested and denying at date with you.

[janessah.]

GAH! @clayandrews WHERE was this video a year ago?! 🤦🏻‍♀️ learned the hard way! Great vid as always 😁👍🏻💖

[yzwoody]

She’s back. We do a lot of things together. But all I get is cheek kisses. I don’t want to just get back together right away. But cheek kisses aren’t cutting it.

[anilav]

Wish I had known this years ago, I could’ve gotten my ex husband back easily, but the smallest thing made me spiral and run. Have applied this kind of advice to a recent ex and we got back and closer than ever. He said it was the deepest connection of his life. Now it’s roller coaster time again but must remember not to get o because being chill like I was the first time works! Note: Getting into a sexual relationship doesn’t help the roller coaster effect.

[belshanae]

My ex and I are talking again after years…

We have been connecting emotionally after he had a break down recent.

I told him I loved him still.
We saw eachother the other day and he said he finds it hard to look at me cause it brings up feeelings for me…


What do I do? To make him want to love me?

I am happy to just be his friend if that’s what he needs from me ❤️

[leiahopkins]

Only in his dreams couldn't handle me then what gives him the authority to now

[epaliotisglx]

So I broke up with my ex for the second time. First time no contact lasted for a week, then we were so happy together for 5 more months, even staying strong a whole month of long distance because of her studies. I am in no contact right now for more than a month and my mind is so fucked up right now I just can't find hope.

[charlesfinley]

If you see this Clay, question for you. On average from the time you reconnected with your ex till the time they get back together. From the clients you helped, how long does it take?

[s.beccari]

"must be this tall to ride..." 😉

[anthonypeterson]

My ex reconnected when i suggested face to face meet for lunch. thats when i found out im the rebound. The bf, after she left me 3 yrs ago, is currently incarcerated for probation violation. Curious i reccord searched after our lunch meet his, the bf, sentence was day before our meet. Seems she was waiting for his trial outcome to determine whether to stay with him or give up on him. Now im the rebound? We were to go away for a few days for privacy. I cancelled bc i feel her intentions were to latch onto a rescue line, me, rather than to reconnect and possibly develop the relationship she initially expressed she wanted 7 yrs earlier but neva committed to. I want what we started, and what i believed where and what we were developing, BUT her past addiction took her places that made it difficult for her to redeem. I was always her voice of reason. Over lunch she admitted she had to grow up during her failings but always saw me as her super hero. Im NOT liking that label. I feel shes the only one that can rescue herself. Any thoughts on this situation???

[relaxingaura]

Clay what if you are in a long distance relationship and they send mixed signals. One week she is telling me to move on then the next she is saying she miss me and don't want me to move on

[Bluecloud]

hey clay! the situation with my ex and I is extremely confusing and I just feel I can’t find a clear answer anywhere. Long story short, I was the one at fault for the breakup (I shared a drunk kiss with another man and he found out) and my ex inevitably ended things with me. this happened about 2 months ago but my ex has remained in constant contact with me since. he texts me everyday almost all day, asks about my day and how i’m doing, what i’m up to, etc. he genuinely cares and puts in the effort to keep me in his life. we met for coffee last week (he initiated the meet up) and it was really great. he gave direct eye contact, body positioned towards me, smiled and laughed the entire time, kept inching towards me, just standard body language that indicates someone’s interested. at the end of coffee, he said it was great to see me and we should do it again sometime. He carries himself like he is interested but every time I bring the possibility of starting over up he completely shuts it down and says he is keeping in contact with me because i’m a “good friend.” he says he doesn’t see us being together in the future because he isn’t sure he can ever trust me. we were together for two years and shared A LOT of memories together so I just don’t know if he genuinely is done and JUST wants to remain friends or if he is still hurting from the circumstances of the breakup and wants to keep me close while he figures it out. he’s told me to “move on because i’m just going to hurt myself being stuck on him” but i’ve remained very serious in waiting and haven’t seen anyone despite his comments. is that just an emotional test or does he truly mean these things he is saying? sorry this is so long… I am just so confused! Any help would be appreciated… thanks!!

[trejonb]

What if I already gave my ex the idea I moved on? She texted me and told me she was thinking about me, to which I said "We'll both always have those good memories, " and I accidentally discouraged her from talking to me anymore about "us." (I would say I mistakenly did that because of the process I was going through at the time to heal from it all, so I naturally reacted that way). I realized to myself how much I still wanted her, so I kinda threaded the needle back in so-to-speak by telling her the day after how badly I still wanted her and reminding her about our emotional connection... I haven't heard anything back so I'm thinking it's time to just fully devote myself to working on myself. Is there any hope for her and I relationship?