when you feel ugly around pretty girls, do this! #selfconfidence #selflove

There will always be someone who is prettier than you..this is what to do when you feel low self worth around a pretty girl!

[lesliegonzalez]

Notice she said “IN YOUR EYES” better than you. Because there’s no such thing as better or worse. End of the day we’re all human with are own magic !

[zergravity]

When people call u ugly it hurts..
When people say your sister looks wayy better than you. It stays deep inside your heart....

[kayyewil]

I have a friend that is so physically perfect, it lowkey used to make me insecure to go out with her. I loved and admired her, and was so happy for her, but I definitely always felt I was the least attractive one. She has the prettiest, longest, curliest hair, she was a few inches taller than me, perfect skin, perfect teeth, pretty smile & eyes, an hour glass figure that looked amazing in everything. Men would literally stop in there tracks every where we went, just to try to talk to her, as id awkwardly stand around lol. One day, a couple years ago I admitted how I felt.. I told her I didn’t think I was ugly, but she was so beautiful that I felt mentally small next to her. And her response was “no fuckin way… because I’m not gonna lie, I get jealous of you!! You’re so petite and angelic looking, I wish I could pull off all the clothes you wear, your hair is shiny and pretty, you have the prettiest shade of green/blue eyes, perfect lips, all my guy friends think you’re beautiful, adorable but also sexy” & then rambled off a list of her flaws, and telling me why she thinks I’m way prettier than she is.

My point is, that was a turning point for me. Everyone I’ve ever been jealous of, has probably felt the way I’ve felt at one point in their life. Everybody has insecurities, big or small. But hardly ANYBODY notices them, and is usually dealing with their own shit! I would never have looked at my friend as anything less than perfect, but she didn’t feel that way. I NEVER used to look at my self as perfect, but that’s how she saw me! Envy is a devil. It sounds cliche, but I swear everyone is so beautiful in their own way. If we all looked the same, the world would be boring. Differences is what makes us unique. Learning to recognize that someone else may be pretty, but SO ARE YOU, and learning to love every inch of yourself is the key to lifelong confidence.

[TheCosmicCinem]

Exactly! I used to be jealous of a lot of girls at school and ever since I started focusing on myself and feeling better physically and emotionally, I started to see them as normal human beings

[Brithanyvargas_]

It’s nice to hear someone talking about this because it’s so hurtful. In my case I start feeling down and jealous every time I see my boyfriend close to a pretty girl. I want to heal that part of me.

[kyleemeg]

EXACTLY!! Someone else’s beauty doesn’t take away from yours. Feminine energy is supportive and uplifting, not toxic and insecure

[OLatreil]

Exactly!!!! It feels so much better to be that way. This attitude also forges more sisterly energy instead of envy. Which in turn can create more and better friends.

[bubbledancetwinkledust]

Or you could practice non-attachment and realize that you have no flaws and cant be compared to anyone else and live by ur own volition and stop comparing ur ‘assets’ to others, instead enjoying the essence of life as it is and appreciate yourself as you are.

[keenu]

I usually keep my insecurity hidden around my (super pretty)friends but today i just broke down in front if them and told them how ugly i feel and all of them were super supportive and told me that i’m not, but when you’ve always believed that you are, it’s hard to even accept the support and compliments because they’ll seem fake to you even if those are super genuine. I’ll always feel they’re just saying that to make me feel better or out of pity and that doesn’t sit right with me.

[Heiogvelcommwn]

(Im a guy) I’ve struggled w this more than anyone of ever met, it’s always in the back of my head, I am completely obsessive. And it rly sucks when one person tells u ur a “pretty boy” or “cute” or “good looking” and then another person describes u as an ugly ass. Leaves me so confused abt my identity and feeling lost in who i am. It among other things has caused me to hate myself so freaking much. Idk how much more I can take of it.

Thx for listening

[mahammalik]

something that's helped me so much in not comparing my looks to others is knowing that your looks don't actually matter that much! as long as you take care of yourself/have good hygiene it's very much your vibe and energy that attracts people

[abigailelizabeth]

Yeah but trying to constantly be better isn’t going to fix the deepset issues that are making you feel like that in the first place. Trying to be as pretty as possible isn’t going to change that either. I know girls who are absolutely beautiful and still feel this way. It goes deeper then that.

[joditawhai]

This is called true inner beauty. Going deep within yourself and showing da best version of u...bcz u can only be u and no one else. People r attracted to those who exude beauty from inside out no outside in

[NvmStudios]

Please do not constantly change yourself or try to make yourself better then everyone. I had a entire spiral and went out of control, I spent so much money on skin care, clothes, makeup, I had a constant fear of everyone judging me. I’m scared of people and I still to this day have anxiety because I always wanted to be better then everyone In every way!! Please please just accept yourself and learn to accept you can’t always be the best❤❤❤

[MyKeturah]

I never feel like someone is more beautiful than me so I clicked to see why lol and yes I've been glowing up for years. This is true! I never feel threatened, jealous, or less than anyone. EXCEPT the one time I locked eyes with beyonce at a concert lollll I was at how powerful her energy is

[tspeakstlives]

Know your worth girls. Each of us should know our own worth. And work towards what makes one happy. You let yourself down by making unhealthy comparisons, remember that. Take from others ONLYY what YOU like and don't lose the essence of who you are, trying to be like someone else ♥️♥️♥️

[pepsicola]

I really just want to be able to better myself to a point where I don't put people more attractive than me on a pedestal.

[ShayMac]

It’s really about the mindset! Improve what you can, and loving yourself will become easier. Great message!💚

[iampretty]

I never looked at another woman as “prettier than me” ..If I seen another woman who was also extremely gorgeous I would look at her
“as pretty as me” but in a different way❤ always know who u are. I know I am a GODDESS✨ when u know u are a goddess there’s no woman on this planet that could take that from u. Woman need to tap in to that energy. Who u believe you are will be your outter reflection in a form of manifestation on how people view you.

[ayja]

That's right.... jealously is something to rise ABOVE. Honestly you don't know her> fact IS>>>> SHE isn't you. That's YOUR power.