Mixed Messages From Ex | Dealing With Cryptic Messages From Your Ex On Social Media

Mixed Messages From Ex | Dealing With Cryptic Messages From Your Ex On Social Media

Exes sometimes post cryptic messages on social media, and we can't help but wonder if they are talking about us or not. Are they trying to confuse us by dangling the proverbial carrot in front of us? Why are they egging us on after telling us they weren't interested?

If you find yourself in this position, one thing is certain: your ex is seeking your validation, but he or she is feeling insecure. They want the security of knowing they could still have you, but they are afraid they will be hurt again. When an ex is hot and cold, it is because their heart is telling them one thing, while their head is telling them another.

The key is to make sure that you stop focusing on their behavior and reacting to what your ex does on social media, and seek to set the tempo. It's all about where you choose to place your attention and your priorities.

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[MrPetertad]

Don’t fall for the trap, they will keep increasing the size of there bait to trap you. They need to come back and beg for you back. One hair of validation is enough to let them know they can have you back at anytime.

[timelesswords]

Ladies, we don't deserve mixed signals, we don't deserve a rude men, we deserve a constant and consistent partner in life that always be there for us.. think twice before giving a second chances in any men you like... Think 10x if they really deserve you and they deserve your trust and love. Put yourself first in pedestal! Your the prize! Don't beg for love! Don't lose yourself ladies 🙂

[vangca]

I know her post are geared at me. She doesnt type it out but she will post memes or pictures that are very close to my heart. Like my life experiences.

[Gillyx]

My ex literally text me last night to check up on how I’m doing. We’ve been in no contact for 2 weeks... she was friendly... then on social media she posted how “she act like the “old her” so that people don’t mess with the “new her”... 🤦‍♂️

[stuartadamsrailfanningvideos]

Yep. My ex-girlfriend does this all the time on Facebook!

[lauramci]

For sure it helps them wean off. It's actually helping you too. It makes you want less to do with them. After a while you're like screw off

[enamullatifsuzan]

I have been thinking this a while that every time he comes back its to validate himself that he made the right choice leaving while I think of it as chance to get back together and act the way he wants me to. I used to think true love is worth fighting for but after meditating I have come to value peace more. Like I am 21 already I don't need teenage drama.

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[blyssbarentsen]

My ex boyfriend broke up with me about over 2 months ago now. He said he lost love for me and that I deserve better and that we may or may not still have a chance one day in the future. He told me to move on and forget about him. I was heartbroken for a while, begged and pleaded at first, and texted him still after a while. Then started to go on no contact. About 2 or 3 weeks after the breakup, he contacted me for lust and I said yes. I was still in a bad state and didn't know better at the time. So by the end, I was emotional, crying, and he comforted me. After that, I went on no contact again. I let it go and started bettering and working on myself and felt so much better. About a month later, he contacted me again for the same reason. I was busy hanging out with a friend and having fun at the time. I waited before responding and delayed my responses before getting back to him. I told him no, that that wasn't what I wanted right now, and that I was busy. He said he was actually glad I rejected the offer and admitted it was a part test and part genuine offer and proud of me. A few days later he contacted me again to ask one more time and said it would be the last time. I decided that I was finally strong enough and it could be a good chance to rekindle as long as we had brunch a long with it and told him yes that time. He agreed to having brunch, I was strong, and we caught up a little. Then I went back into no contact, went on a family visit to California for a good week and had alot of fun and felt great. I posted about my trip the week after I got back. About a week after I got back and posted, he contacted me to see if I was back in California. I waited a few hours to respond and yes I'm back and he said ok. Hours later he asked about doing something lustful for the next day. I waited out my responses before I ever replied to him. I agreed again that time but that it had to be a particular time and based on what he had in mind. He said that we would be hanging out for some hours before he had to go to work. I agreed thinking it would be a good opportunity to rekindle and have some time with him as well. We caught up alot, he told me about all the things he's been doing and how work has been, and asked me how California was. He started subtly and intentionally teasing and messing with me every now and then and would try to make me laugh or cuddle up on me again. We were actually happy and laughing with each other again. It was the happiest I've ever been with him in a long time and felt sparks again. And I had a great time with another good friend of mine after spending time with him and had a great day overall. I stayed strong, didn't get emotional, was happy, and was more confident that I could tell he missed me and if I stayed my ground and continued being happy and working on myself, I was getting a little closer to getting him back. I've been in no contact again ever since and things have been going good so far. What do you think all of this may mean and what I should do from here?

[nancymedeiros]

True about him. Thank you for telling this advice about your ex giving some mixed singels. I am trying to change myself and moving on with my life.

[juanzapata]

Thank you for this information. What you explain here seems to ring true for my circumstances.

It's been frustrating expecting a clear answer. She clearly says she doesn't want a relationship with me anymore. When I sincerely acknowledge here statement and reciprocate kindly and sincerely, respectfully, she says shes confused because I'm honestly trying to give her what shes asking for. Feels unsettling.

Her and I haven't unbroken our social media. She said she would leave that to me. So, I'm not wanting to change that because we do use social media to communicate indirectly with each other. We are leaving the door open sort of.

I am looking. It does make me get emotional but I believe it's the process I need to go through. No matter the outcome. Her posts aren't negative or attempts at making me jealous. They are a little suggestive but I believe they are, like you said, a test. To get me to bite.

I'm not biting. I am posting positive things about my life with my pets. Shes posting about being out and about.

I don't want to make moves that feel emotionally childish. I'll regret it. I've learned from previous mistakes. I'm 52yrs and shes 26 btw.

I believe I'm ok. Your information was/is very encouraging.

[DeluxeMammoth]

I'm dealing with something like this, my ex comes back around every so often and leaves breadcrumbs and pretends she wants to get together and then just completely blows me off this is all while she is with someone else but doesn't think that I know.

[stinkfist]

I sometimes put sad rock music on my Instagram and she’s always on the top of the viewer list.

[swingerz]

This is a great video, hit the nail on the head !!!!
Currently in this situation at the moment.

[kevinwoolrich]

My ex girlfriend just changed my Amazon profile from my name to an inside joke between us. Super subtle…why did she do that? She told me to move on a few weeks ago and said we’re not trying again. I emailed recently telling her I love her and am happy she’s moving on, and that I’m doing the same thing. It’s driving me crazy.

[luisamanimtim]

This is true. I also got a mixed signal(not sure if that's a signal tho). I know my ex's profile accounts on social media are always private even while we were dating. (for 4 years). Then suddenly it turned as a public profile-which I guess was purposely intended maybe for me to stalk him and to react to his posts. BTW he is already in a rebound relationship 2 months after we broke up and until today, I never visited his socmed accounts. Why? Because I don't give fck anymore. He's a cheating narcissist. He's a low ego man who always seek validation from others. He cheated several times but I still gave him chances but this time, I can say I'm done.

[Brittaanaay]

My situation is kinda similar to this, the couple of times we've talked on social media (each time me initiating) he's always seemingly so happy to talk to me and replies in minutes and always keeps the conversation going but when I asked to meet up he said that "I honestly don't know. I don't think it's a good time for me to be completely honest" and how sorry he was. But he still likes just about every Instagram post I put up when I'm fairly certain he doesn't like any other girls posts and he always watches my stories in minutes when I know for a fact he doesn't really watch people's insta stories 😂 even his closest friend likes some of my posts too. He's never cold with me at all, it's just a bit of a weird situation we're in at the moment ya know and I feel a bit clueless 😂

[jeremymanick]

What if there are other guys in the picture? Getting validation then leaving, way more active on social media, saying she can talk to whomever she wants and its not my business but when you talk to other people she flips and says you cant.

[mllonr]

My ex wife (42) is constantly sending me WhatsApp messages and delete them often just a couple seconds or minutes after. I often times don’t even have time to read them. And if I ask what’s those messages were, she sometimes answers like: I thought you didn’t care what I was writing and telling you so I deleted them.
Once I told her, I was in a another room and hadn’t my phone by me or was working or something else.
What is she thinking? That i carry my phone 24/7 on me to check every moment she wrote to me???
I hate that if she does this.
We were married for 14 years.

[snowfirex]

My x posted a meme saying today i was thinking of sleeping next to bae but then i remember im single lol and she posts a lot of pics of her happy