How to beat a narcissist at their own game #narcissist

[carolp.]

The only way to win against a narcissist is to go no contact period.

[a.williams.scorpiopower]

Yes, absolutely! They crave YOUR REACTIONS to feed their ego. Give them NOTHING and keep away from them.

[elizabethbettencourt]

All truth! Rise above the emotional fog! Only took me two decades to understand and take back my personal agency! Thank you Danish! Bless you

[Freethnkr]

I lost all interest in playing any games with them, that's like playing with the devil and unless you think and act like them, it's not gonna work. I let God deal with them and let my absence be the lesson they needed to learn.

[ValerieRoberts-uvkf]

It took me a minute to realize that this is the truth . Controlling my emotions improved my situation greatly. Fighting back causes too much stress & it doesn't work anyway. Drop the drama and save your soul.

[lindarussell]

It is easier said then done when you have been their puppet for decades and they know what buttons to push

[ACollectionOfBookmarks]

Yes. I was told I was a narcissist when I would give no expression and stopped emotionally reacting. When I withdrew myself from their headgames they claimed I had no true feelings so they were justified in all the times they made me cry. If I encounter that behavior I go robotic and they don't want anything to do with me. Best gift I can be given by an emotional parasite is their absence.

[Shrin]

Very traumatized but I am healing and beginning to feel joy I am on the up went no contact and been working on myself best decision I ever made

[debishouse]

Yes it took almost 20 yrs to comeout from trauma .Thank you Danish to help us lot 🙏🙏🙏❤️🙏

[Hyderagean]

Just remember that no matter what you do, you will not change them. Even if their actions seem to get better, the moment that you drop your guard, they're going to be right back on their game. It's best to use this to get away from the person.

Don't bother trying to change them. People only change when they want to, and if it isn't the narcissist's idea, they're only going to give it as much effort as is needed to convince you that they're changing...without them actually investing that same amount of energy, time, and commitment into actually changing. That's their way of 'winning' when you beat them and show them that they're wrong. Their mind is just too egocentric and twisted to humor the thought of changing themselves to benefit someone else.

[tajwerkhan]

In addition to this, keep ur information hidden from them too.

[HT-sgpl]

I learned from a happy bubbly joyful person I am . When you are dealing with the Narcissist. You need to act like you are blind . Mute and deaf. And also you can’t smell . Because they will do everything to bait you to act .
, but if you get to this point . You will probably seeing doctors for your own health .

[rajnibhatia]

You are right Danish
But sometimes it's very painful 😢

[mic]

Yep so Tru .. dealing with narc is unreal lot of unpacking..

[peteywheatstraw]

I have always been a fighter. Since I was a "difficult child" bc I didn't just let their stupid shit fly & would call them out on their behaviors, I was challenging. Aggressive. My buttons were easy to find & push for anyone. Now I try to take a beat before I respond, if I even respond at all. Mostly just shrugging and walking away (instead of running) is how I deal now. Let's face it, these ppl are NOT going to change. I choose my battles carefully these days. If it's a hill I'll die on, I'm going to say what I think. Otherwise I'm just going to peace out.

[MR-lyxt]

You're right, but it's so hard when being verbally attacked not to snap back. I need to practice staying calm.

[brittanydavis-lete]

My body literally starts to fight him off my energy and my clear thinking goes out the door from the diabolical actions and faulse narritive he gives it makes me feel a way i cant explain and i go fight or flight.

[AnitaSharma-hcib]

Very nice guidance ❤thank you so much ❤

[RiF-ul]

My response after everything I've been through: never again, I'm not interested they dead or alive even if they in same room with me. I leave the room too for them to sit alone with themselves - that's horror for narcissist. I see his fear now.

[swagatamukherjee]

Well 2 mins back I was crying for the same reason...got emotional...missing that person, although I know the reality.