How to talk to shy girls

[TheRedtaz]

i hate arguing with a shy girl, she always says i'm right!

[thebuddahmain]

I agree, one of my personal character traits is to bring everyone up to realize their own potential. I am well liked, respected, and loved by almost everyone I meet. Those who are jealous of me, still appreciate my presence and giving nature. A neg is akin to a crutch. If you have to bring someone else down then you are automatically showing insecurity and (in my eyes) affirming that they have a higher value as opposed to equal.

[dreddythedragon]

I don't like negs because when you are totally unaffected by mean or rude people it allows them to feel comfortable and safe around you. Negs are only attractive to girls who want drama, not the girls who are worth it. Having the confidence to take the conversation from her shielding to playful is far more attractive. Then that playful feeling simmers just below the surface of the entire interaction. These video's really do help.

[notaras]

no you should. cause its true. and the ones that are shy you should look for the reasons of her shyness. they usually arent the most noble ones either...

[videosforbruce]

Hi Hadassa, I enjoyed how you speak and present the details =)

[Rescue]

(1) Use complimentary assumptions (assume she is a model or dancer) over questions.  (2) Have opinions (3) A little challenge.

[JL.]

I don't understand how some shy girls get boyfriends, yet when you talk to them they act as if they are impossible to communicate with. None of it makes sense anymore.

[darrelllong]

I like your presentation, clear and precise.

[pinz]

I think the takeaway here is to understand the difference between "challenging" and "negging."
       Negging is just being nasty and insulting.  Challenging is showing that you have your own opinions and attitudes and that you're not about to make a fool of yourself or pretend to be someone you're not just to get a shot at poon tang.
       Like she says, women can sense fakery.

[Hon_cbkr]

Especially if you know she finds you attractive do not neg if anything poke fun of yourself to make her more at ease.

[weirdo]

@WhiteCamry92 If you are truly serious and don't know, LOL, Hadassa is Kezia's younger sister. I am Asian and also appreciate that she has yellow fever :-)

[mexicanfrusciante]

are you a ballerina?   this girl is probably fired by now. man I got tears I laughed so hard.

[thebuddahmain]

And yet you are watching her videos. I recommend a healthy dose of love, and if that doesn't work for you, a big ass glass of shut the fuck up. Haters gon' hate.

[imustacheyouaquestion]

I live with a woman who is very quiet and shy. I don't know why
she's this way. I do most of the talking but I'm pretty much
like her. I have to say silly things to her, to get her to laugh.
Sometimes I don't think it should be this way.

[visaman]

Heavy blankets, heavy blankets, heavy blankets cover lonely girls...

[ZAAA]

There aren't "shy girls".
The "shy ones" are usually the best bia^^s.

[CDixon]

I have fallen into a deep depression over the woman I am in love with and she just thinks of me as a friend.

[Smallgot]

I notice the Nobles talk badly about negging alot. I don't think they know what negging truly is, I think they assume it is what most AFC's assume it is.

[imustacheyouaquestion]

I shouldn't have said that. I haven't walked around the world and
asked people what girls are shy. It's pure speculation just like
when people say a song or an artist is underrated and overrated.
Overrated and underrated by who, is what I ask them? LOL

[Theanimatedcow]

what gives you that notion? Kezia is beautiful, there's no denying that, even if a guy isn't attracted to her particularly, she certainly isn't unnatractive. Stuck up? No, then again i don't know her personally, so how the hell would you even know. Idiotic? Absolutely not, Kezia knows what she's talking about, she writes books and teaches others about pick up technique. She's made a career for herself that she enjoys, and the last time i checked, it takes some intelligence to pull that off.