Is Your Ex Dating Someone New That's Actually Good News

Today we’re going to talk about if exes ever come back to you after dating someone new.

Like most things in the breakup industry there is a short answer and a long answer to this.

You have a better chance if your ex is an avoidant
Rebound relationship honeymoon period addiction
You probably will have needed to use some form of the being there method
Your ex will probably need to have painted you as a “phantom ex”
There’s a lot to talk about here.

Check out my blog post about this topic:

[therionkp]

Who wants to go back with someone who's been sleeping with another person after you? Not me... Love yourself.

[covidoff]

After someone dumps you and goes for someone else, they devalue everything you two had. If you were good to them and they took you for granted because of it, never take them back and let them face life without you, let them settle for your downgrades and you reinvent yourself back to that confident individual who isn't afraid of commitment. Relationships require sharing respect, dreams, understanding and empathy. Those that check out cause they're bored and lazy to ride out the everyday struggles, they're worth absolutely nothing to anyone including themselves. Only take an ex back if they make up for all the pain they've caused you and prove their worth, but do not count on it as they're unlikely to ever admit that they were the problem.

[Happy-Me.]

They come back after dating someone new because they realise that they can't replace you!

[arthurdane]

Just had this, girl i was seeing a few months ago. Found out shes seeing someone new. Felt really bummed out at first, but it actually made me feel better about the whole thing.
Now i wont spend my time looking for signs, looking for breadcrumbs etc.
I feel liberated

[missscarling]

Honestly, I think it's easier to move on and do stuff for yourself for a while. I had two break ups in a year. First one was a 4 year relationship i ended as I felt we were both settling. The second was a 5 month relationship with someone who I believe is a narcissist who did not treat me well. 6 months post breakup and 5 months of no contact later, I'm doing really well ALONE! Got a new job, starting a business....things are looking up 😊 Not ready to start dating again as I know I'm not quite over my ex and that would be unfair to me and the people I would be going on dates with. I think instead of trying to get your ex back, give it time and try to enjoy your life ....let them do whatever they want. At the end of the day it's YOUR life. I don't wanna waste any more time thinking about my ex, this is my time to live ☺️❤️

[jaybee]

Honestly, the only good and healthy way to reconnect with an ex is to get yourself into a state where it doesn’t matter if you get back with them or not. You need to take time away from them and let everything quiet down. Now would you say in that time you’re not dating them that you shouldn’t try things with someone new if you get the opportunity? Of course not. So why does it matter if they do? At the end of the day if that new person ends up marrying them then they were meant to be and you were not. But most of the time it’ll end just like your relationship. You shouldn’t worry about it, just enjoy your life and be someone your ex, or someone else, would want to get to know again.

[Spd]

Honestly the only reason I want her to come back is to smash her hopes into the ground. No one deserves to be a backup.

[lmfisher]

I don't fancy being my husbands rebound after he was with the rebound. I don't take sloppy seconds. The rebound can have mine!

[Kyle-pjvc]

The being there method can also make a controlling ex think she can walk all over you with some other partner if things get rough because she expects you to stick around no matter what. So it really depends on the situation, the type of girl, etc. Don't do that shit with people who cheated, found a rebound fast, or flirted with other people while you were together.

[nathannicholson]

My ex just left me two weeks ago and she's met someone new, she's planning on proposing to him on Christmas Day. I'm devastated. I can't eat, I can't sleep and when I do sleep I have nightmares about the breakup. I'm heartbroken. Thing is I still love her and I always will. I want her back so much. I'd do anything to win her back. We're trying to be friends, but I'm scared that if she does propose it's gonna tip me over the edge.

[mmosley]

I don't want her after she done been in these streets

[kondafitness]

Once they get intimate with someone else and want to come back, it's bye forever

[jessicamorales]

Smart as always, ...especially if we watch the video about why to take him back, and the other about how to move on. Life gives you surprises, but good luck has to find you working! ❤

[ITSRAYANNNN]

Why would anyone want someone back after they’ve been with someone else? That’s disgusting. They literally have lost all value at that point . Obviously they didn’t love, they were able to be with someone else . That’s not love .

And since they’ve done what they did, they can’t be trusted not to do it again .

[couldstrife]

Ex was dating someone new, they broke up two days ago and she’s heart broken, it hurt me that’s she’s feeling this way and she’s been reaching out to tell me about it. I’ve tried being supportive but also told her how she’s feeling now is how I’ve been since she left me

[shadowjfd]

of course it’s good news. now someone else will go through the same pain as I did

[Sevoflurane]

This goes completely against the no contact rule. Where they can't miss you

[leonardpadilla]

So im curious let's say the ex comes back. I haven't stop thinking about her I miss and love her but I can't get over the fact she didn't choose me. So should I even try because I feel like if she came back I would feel like I was a last resort. I don't even know if I could even trust their love anymore. Guess I should just continue working on myself and being more secure within myself. Maybe I'm just lonely and fantasize about her coming back idk lol.

[Facqk_]

She blocked me after a argue, now she has feelings for someone else and sees me in a negative light (as a manipulator, stalker, etc.). I think it's over, and she won't come back, even if she has an avoidant attachment style

[IsmynameDotcom]

Everything is based on maturity. If they move on term it a rebound or whatever, if they are matured enough and says, im done changing colours or chasing happiness, I'll stay here no matter what and I'll work on it