How people get the good jobs | Taylor Doe | TEDxOklahomaCity

In this paradigm shifting talk, Taylor Doe introduces original concepts that will change the way you hear success stories. Asking “How do people get the good jobs?” led him on a journey of qualitative research, interviewing people and analyzing stories about their paths to success. The most insightful and fascinating commonality in these interviews were found in the most unlikely place. The keys to success were hidden behind one recurring phrase in every story… How do people get to where they are in life?

Since graduating from the University of Oklahoma, Taylor Doe (aka TDoe) has lived between, what Martin Luther King Jr. called, the “Two Americas”. He has worked in corporate America at SandRidge Energy, founded a tech company with one of his brothers, and for the last decade has devoted himself to building relationships and community initiatives in Northeast Oklahoma City. He has done all this while straddling two economic classes, which has given Taylor unique insights on how opportunity is unlocked for some and remains locked for others.

His recent work invites listeners to unpack what he calls ‘And Then Moments’ – the seemingly overlooked moments in life that actually help people succeed. Taylor believes when people do the work of uncovering these moments, they are then challenged to unlock opportunity for those who have historically been left out. Only then can society begin to create more equitable communities and cities where more people thrive.

[CarlosPoncephoto]

That's why they say " it's not what you know, it's who you know" I'm just now realizing how true that is.

[ramhoves]

I thought this guy was going to say "you just have to work hard" I don't think I could have handled that sort of brain dead sentiment. I'm glad I watched the whole video. What a great honest guy.

[daphne]

Yes yes yes. THIS is a great TED Talk. It all boils down to relationships, and this honestly shows why some of the most hard working people will never move up.

[Loveit]

THIS IS WHY YOUR NETWORK IS YOUR NETWORTH!

[Urania]

Before going to sleep each night, I recall all the names of those who have helped me as well as the ones who are helping me now.

[patriciaadams]

OMG. THIS. The best, nicest, most honest video I've seen about how people really move up in America. This also jibes perfectly with an article I read about a study that showed that the richer and more powerful a person gets, the more likely they are to attribute that success only to their own inherent skills/intelligence/work- ignoring, forgetting or just downplaying the "keys" they've been given by others.

[zyronspeaks]

I’m truly honored and blessed to have had T-Doe helping me through doors. You’re definitely a continuous and then moment for me and a few of my other peers. This was awesome.

[jamiececilielange]

While connections can do a lot for you, taking initiative can do a lot too. Taking initiative can sometimes be scary and feel risky, but it can also lead to good jobs, good connections, and sometimes good education. It can be hard to do, but it is not impossible.

I started on a horticulture education, despite not knowing anyone in it, and I was offered an apprenticeship at a company where I didn't know anyone. It has to be said that in my country, education is free, so I'm not without help, but it is still up to me to take advantage of the opportunities I have.

Taking initiative can be many things: Meeting new people, applying for a better job, signing up for an education, applying for scholarships and so on. Some people call it risk-taking, since a lot of the initiatives that make a difference are scary.

[silverhoyden]

Taylor, you took something complex and broke it down so beautifully. This was one of the best Tedx Talks I’ve heard

[doris]

I´m glad to hear people trully honest like this guy who tells things as they really are instead of repeating the brainwash marketing tales we constantly hear; the story about "winners" who have worked "hard" to get MONEY!! that means the are "successfull" (are they really succssful for getting money?). These storyes made more harm than anything else. The majority of people I know really work hard without connections, end up feeling frustrated or depressed thinking they is something wrong with them, that they have not worked hard enough. And the reallity is very different. Our youngsters end up byuing those stories and since a very young age end up deprressed at the prospects they se ein life, specially when they do not have connections.
I encourage people to follow the advice given here. Share your keys with people who usually don´t have much opportunities. You´ll be trully surprised at the results!!!

[breannanorthrup]

This is also why we need to encourage shy introverted kids and people. I felt that I was too afraid to make relationships and connections when I was younger. And I think that really set me back. But it's good information now. I'm starting to work in a new company pretty low on the totem pole and I know I need to make connections and network all those things.

[nejcribic]

I have just realized the presence of locked opportunity inside of my company, and how important it is to enrich your friendship circle.

[MaithiliPhysio]

"And then moments" Me too have plenty of them. I feel grateful.

[dougphamtexas]

Taylor Doe showed the KEYS to the real opportunities in real BEST TED TALKS for me by

[emiliog.]

The “good jobs” usually go to friends and family first. Its who you know and not always about skill or intellect or work ethics. There is no longer an “American dream”. Hard work is no guarantee today. Sad.

[davetoms]

Far too often we hear "just work hard, I did" as if the poor are at fault for being poor. As if poverty is a choice. So thankful to hear the proof that hard work is often simply not enough. It helps. But it's not enough.

[ItsMe-sxck]

After watching this Ted talk, I just imagined my whole journey starting from my play school to my current job at an MNC.

Really, this guy just helped me figure out something I forgot to be grateful

Thank you

[xute]

This TED Talk made me cry for what entails and because it made grow intellectually.

[_pudu]

This reminds me of a saying I heard as a child “its not about what you know, its about who you know”

[fbysljc]

Taylor Doe reminded me why I love and credit teachers. Teachers are an inspiration to our children ❤🌹