How to Find Good People in Your Life — Follow These 4 Simple Steps

Everyone knows how important it is to have a good community around you, but no one really talks about how to find that good community. This video breaks down four simple steps that will teach you.

[Marvel_Adel]

"You must protect your mental space, you must treat it like your child you must treat it like it's the most precious, most innocent, most valuable thing that you possess because to be frank IT IS" <3

[saraa_drawsss]

This human don't know how much deep down he's helping me a lot. I just owe you a lot.

[FATIMA-rjfu]

hell 12 years of being constantly being betrayed, humiliated, and surrounded by all the negative energies. never in my life i thought my school phase would be like that. Thank you i really wanna do my best to be able to have better people in my life in my upcoming years. Its so tiring tbh surrounded by such negative hypocrates all the time...i really wanna end this now.

[cheeheeseng]

2:24 I’m proud of you Jun, you’re a strong man and I give you all my respect💪

[seignee]

1. Recognize the Negativity - assess your current circle and only keep those who motivate you to be a better person (directly or by inspiration) and protect your mental space from negativity
2. Remove yourself from the Negativity - distance yourself from those you've identified who are negatively affecting you
3. Learn the experience of being Alone - build your own competence and self-esteem. recognize that each second is a promise you keep to yourself to act like the person you want to be. r the only way to know if you're in a relationship with someone out of love or loneliness is to know if you can be happy alone.
4. Become the magnet - recognize that reinventing yourself means doing things that don't feel like you until they become you. provide value to other people, be the producer instead of the consumer.
5. Have a list of what you're looking for - know who youre looking for to include in your community. make sure to not give in to sunk cost fallacy, cut people who show their true colors if theyre bad for you.

[sitinuraulia]

I just want you to keep making the videos! Many people need this, many people need to hear this, many people deserve to hear this and ofc me too

[learning-ogto]

I've fallen in the trap of motivation every time I face a down and even despite knowing it doesn't hold long, things didn't change.

Now you remind me of what it means to be inspired. Gotta find myself people to be inspired from, or even more. Thanks

[natalieann]

Another great video! This really resonated with me. I recently got out of a long term relationship and it has been really eye opening reflecting on all the warning signs I ignored. All the times I told myself I must be the problem because no one else could be the issue. I am starting to see just how much this person affected me, made me into a negative person and drained me. Little by little I am starting to see my older self, removing the negativity and working on me. Thank you for your content, always inspires me to keep going and have faith that good people are out there.

[nipunkumar]

the 2nd problem of point 4 happened to me. Now it makes sense. biggest learning of today.

[CN_]

Protecting that mental space is so crucial for our lives. Keep people around you who will lift u up, & not people who put u down or discourage you. I know i've been working towards this for awhile, & have created positive relationships. Thank u for this, Jun, God Bless You ❤

[dina_kazakova]

Now I’m so happy to understand that I haven’t negative people around me, but for this I was alone for a long time and now I’ve met amazing friends. I feel that it’s so huge present from world! Thank you for useful video

[franciscorigamonti]

Thanks a lot. I am going through a moment in my life where there are a million things happening and I know what I want but just couldn't achieve it. This video gave me some clarity on to how I am going to achieve thanks again

[fxkmird]

umm...you just made me feel very precious abt myselff...you need a million of subscribers!!🎉me, your new subscriber❤

[assami_]

this video can be very helpful for so many people, you are doing good job, keep going <3 and i will suport you as i can

[divyasahu]

Thank you for another Great Video. And I am a College student who really needed this kind of video.

[FATIMA-rjfu]

okay i was looking for this type of guidance for long time, i wish i could have it earlier but its okay, i have you nowww

[ThatMostLovedMiddleChild]

Thank you for the efforts you are taking for these videos they are REALLY HELPFUL...

[kordeliabrown]

Thank you very much for this useful information, I will definitely keep this in mind and continue to be such a inspiration to everyone 😄😄😄😄😄

[julialaskar]

I have been study for a very difficult exam and I failed 3 times. how to deal with this situation? I'm at the place where I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO? I always feel like I give 100% but as a result I DON'T get 100% results.
make sure to make video on this!
you're always gonna be my personal devlopment coach. thank you for sharing this information.

[FATIMA-rjfu]

also i wanted to say if we can have something on burnout, like how to deal with it. i am so much exhausted by people, daily life that its hard to now even do things that i used to love before.