LOVE Expert: When A Man REALLY Loves You, He Will SHOW UP Like This! | Stephan Speaks

Relationship expert Stephan Speaks shares his wisdom and expertise on how to cultivate a thriving and healthy relationship. He delves into the nuances between love and infatuation, providing valuable insights on how to distinguish between these intense emotions and last after the honeymoon phase. He sheds light on the common blockages that keep people from falling in love - from courting while dating to co-dependancy. Stephan also reveals the 3 factors that determine if your relationship is going to work.
Cultivating healthy masculine and feminine dynamics within a partnership is crucial for sustainable and harmonious relationships. Stephan shares invaluable advice on fostering a balanced and supportive dynamic, allowing each partner to thrive authentically.
On the flip-side of falling in love, heartbreak can be one of our greatest teachers in life. Stephan and André discuss how to heal after a breakup and cultivate the courage to start dating again.

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Timecodes:
0:00 Intro
1:22 Exciting Update with Know Thyself
2:29 The Difference Between Love and Infatuation
4:27 Is it Trauma-Bonding or Genuine Attraction?
6:22 How to Heal Neediness & Co-dependancy
8:44 3 Factors that Determine If a Relationship Works (Chemistry, Compatibility, Connection)
12:54 Why Courting Ruins Relationships
16:11 Using Relationships as a Mirror for your Growth
20:44 Stephan’s Journey of Becoming His True Self
25:13 The Power of Authenticity
29:18 Cultivating the Courage to Fall in Love Again
36:01 When to Lean in vs. When to Let Go
41:02 How to Heal Through Heartbreak
46:53 Why Some Women Like Bad Boys
49:35 This is a HUGE Problem for Men...
52:38 Why He Has Commitment Issues
58:45 Spiritual Connection in relationship
1:01:58 Getting Clear on What You Want
1:05:50 Can They Change? Pattern vs Potential
1:10:04 “You Complete Me”
1:13:18 Navigating The Biological Pressure to Have Kids
1:19:20 Revering and Supporting the Feminine
1:25:55 Everybody Needs to Heal
1:27:49 Conclusion

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Stephan Labossiere is a man on a mission, and that mission is to make relationships happier and more fulfilling.
As a certified relationship coach, a speaker and author, Stephan seizes every opportunity to help both men and women overcome the challenges that hinder their relationships. From understanding the opposite sex, to navigating the paths and avoiding the pitfalls of relationships and self growth, Stephan’s relationship advice and insight helps countless individuals achieve an authentically amazing life. Stephan empowers millions to take charge of the difficult situations standing in the way of the life and love they seek and to make impactful changes on a daily basis.

Dedicated to helping, and devoted to keeping it real, Stephan’s straightforward, yet compassionate delivery style, attracts a versatile clientele including; notable celebrities, civic and social organizations, academic institutions, singles, and couples alike, who can and are ready to handle the truth!

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Know Thyself

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Meraki Media

[mypackofthree]

I was stuck in the trap of wanting my partner to change all of these different things - I wanted him to be more driven, determined, career-minded, ambitious, and it was leading to me giving him a total character assassination on a regular basis. I then did my own internal work and soul searching within me to ask myself whether I could love him exactly as he was - if nothing about him changed. As soon as I started loving him in this way, he stepped into everything that I wanted and more completely and utterly of his own accord and over the past few years has become so driven, so ambitious and empowered because he wanted it for himself.

[TheAttractionTriggers]

*A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.*

[Undefined]

As a woman I absolutely love his message and agree whole heartedly about all of. For years I was going for men that did not make me safe and that did not “provide” because I was so stuck in trying to find a man and not care about how much money he had. I was SO against being a gold digger. I thought it was noble but I suffered so much and I’ve finally come to a place and healed enough to realize that money, and security is important and it doesn’t make me a gold digger to want a man that can care for himself and that has ambition and goals. This is just one example but we all need to do the work because there are so many blocks that we don’t even realize! Thank you for sharing your message. I’m so happy to see more and more men and women doing the work.

[ramonaphillipsteach]

Healing is so important. Forgiving and self acceptance is crucial. Recovery, therapy, counseling, coaching, awareness. Willingness to look within.

[kathleenkaleookalanismith]

Okay, hear me out. When you love yourself, you love yourself up with people who love you too. And all love is a reflection of self love

[ramonaphillipsteach]

30 yrs ago I was in a toxic marriage, almost lost my life. It was trauma bonding. I was afraid to be alone and was not listening to my intuition, ignoring red flags. He had a drinking problem and other issues. I was so miserable and afraid. Getting help from childhood trauma changed my life. I didn’t know who I was, today I do although still evolving.

[elsavelaz]

So wise especially at the end for why a man needs to be a provider - frees her but also frees him because he has a space to feel like a man

[coolbreeze]

There were a lot of great gems in this episode. Knowing yourself and being true to that will draw in people who are on your same wavelength. Not being authentic will draw in the wrong people. I completely agree!

[enaalexis]

The title says it all “Know Thyself. To get to that level takes time and energy, you can’t be slothful in your approach to it 😊

[melissa]

“Alot of times a breakup is a blessing in disguise” couldn’t be more true for me. Ironically, the reason for my relationship with my ex shifting and going downhill all started because I got a tattoo (in memory of my grandpa who was my best friend). My ex was so upset about it that he didn’t speak to me for 2 days. Then, things began to just get worse and worse the emotional abuse began to start. I couldn’t quite grasp how he was letting an almost 4 year relationship go south just because I decided I wanted a tattoo. Now looking back, I realize him and I breaking up was one of the best things to ever happen to me because A) it showed me who he really was in the end & his true character came out and it was ugly, B) it felt as though my grandpa saved me from that relationship going further, and C) it woke me up and I got to focus on myself more and really become the best version of myself that I am today

[garettandjaymee]

Tired of the lessons, ready for the long lasting healthy one ❤

[Joyous]

Even having had a precious marriage for many years, I’ve learned and recognized precious jewels of wisdom from Stephan in this wonderful interview. Holding back for the man to make important change—
can be vital. Wish I’d known that.

[ginaritter]

So true! The one you love the most can hurt you the worst 😢

[fhtrzpl]

Buckle up
Seat back
Listen and learn about LOVE
Because Stephan speaks
Totally devine, straight up facts

[dcooper]

This was an EYE-OPENING episode! Informative from a man’s perspective. One thing that I heard and will remember is: ‘I will be hurt the most by the one I love the most’! GREAT INTERVIEW 🙏🏼

[geekns]

I listened to all of this and now I feel so much despair. I've tried so hard to figure out how to heal myself and I have no clue at this point. Everywhere I go, I love unconditionally and people abuse that and hurt me more. I'm almost 42 and so scared that I'll never have children and it's been the most important thing to me for longer than I can even remember, probably since my mother got pregnant with my little sister. Why does everyone just assume that I'm already a mother? Why does no one ever want me? Why am I always alone? I've been treated as undesirable my entire life and it is the last thing I would want anyone to have to feel, but you guys just amplified that with this. Like I'm delusional to even hope for a relationship or family.

[ashlyguerrier]

Stephan said a lot of great things. If you pour real, genuine love into a woman, shes 10× more likely to pour into you 10× as much. I agree completely. He also shed light on what it means to really look at why you attract the kinds of people you attract in life. Where I STRONGLY disagree with him is when he said "if a woman wants a man to be taller than her in heels, it's a want, not a need, and she should reassess." That's hypocrisy. If that's her NEED, that doesn't mean it's a want. It means, it's a NEED. You can't determine what a woman's needs are. It varies. Same way how having Oral Sex is not a NEED to me, its a want, but it's a need for you.

[sarasalem]

I think you guys did a great job …. Pointing out the issues in relationships. Also, don’t forget that every soul signs contracts with other souls. Either to correct their own issues or help others correct their own. It’s all about the journey and the growth of the soul, don’t look at the end result, look at what you gained in the process.

If everyone saw it this way, they would feel so much better and they would embrace change and growth. God bless❤.

[RhondaR]

Stephan always speaks to me and that I know GOD speaks through him. This video is right on time. PRAISE GOD. Thank you, Sir for doing this video with a wonderful Man of GOD! Blessings sent your way in JESUS' mighty name. Keep up the great work.🙏🏽❤️🌟

[mslove]

I honestly dont believe it is getting harder, people are getting anxious and wanting what they see (what I call the Aww Relationships) when in reality, it's a facade.
I see it as God weeding out what I/we dont need and moving us towards what we do. It may seem harder because of our perception however, nothing great comes easy. Change your perception people. God Bless All🙏🏼