The Divorce Expert: 86% Of People Who Divorce Remarry! Why Sex Is Causing Divorces!

James Sexton is America's top divorce lawyer, and bestselling author of romantic advice books 'How to Stay in Love' and 'If You're in My Office, It's Already Too Late'.

00:00 Intro
02:02 I Am A Divorce Lawyer
02:37 How Many People Divorce
08:51 The Dynamics Between Gold Diggers And Millionaires
12:33 What's Prenups? And The Legalities Behind Marriage!
17:14 The Perfect Prenup
18:56 Disagreements Over Prenups
26:48 Are Prenups Legal?
28:34 The Most Shocking Prenup (Don't Get Fat)
29:59 Appearance As A Measure Of Love In A Relationship
32:33 Prenups With Fidelity & Cheating Clauses
37:30 Are Prenups On The Rise?
39:39 Are People Fake Happy?
44:18 Stop Comparing Your Relationships To Others
50:44 How To Prevent Divorce
55:25 "Happy Wife, Happy Life"
01:02:59 Is Sex The Biggest Cause Of Divorce?
01:07:53 Fixing The Marriage
01:09:36 Who Cheats More?
01:10:02 Who Wants More Sex?
01:13:05 Most Shocking Deceit
01:14:18 Why Husbands Like To Sleep With The Nannies
01:16:36 Killing To Get Out Of A Relationship
01:22:17 Have You Ever Cried?
01:24:29 Love And Loss
01:37:01 Seeing Relationships As Chapters
01:40:55 Have We Been Sold An Idyllic Lie?
01:44:34 Is Money The Biggest Cause Of Divorce?
01:48:59 Can You Hide Money?
01:50:16 You Are Liable For Debts
01:51:49 Winning The Lottery And Keeping Quiet
01:53:20 LGBT Rights & Divorces
01:59:19 Are Open Relationships The Answer?
02:02:00 Is Cheating Okay?
02:05:44 Should We Get Married?
02:13:14 Last Guest Question

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[TheDiaryOfACEO]

Thank you all for watching, if you could do me a favour, hit the like button on the video if you liked this conversation! It’s a topic I’ve never covered so hoping you liked it ❤

[Chuck-ivqp]

My grandfather passed away last year after 78 years of marriage. Upon learning he had terminal cancer and no more than 3 months to live, he started crying and said “Who’s going to take care of my wife after I’m gone?”

That is the mindset of someone with a long-term successful marriage.

[hendrickmaheso]

For a divorce lawyer, dude is giving better relationship advice than relationship coaches. Great episode.🙌🏾

[danallford]

It’s rare to see such a jaw dropping mix of aching sentimentality and cynicism, all synthesised through deep philosophical insight. Awesome.

[shaguftayasmeen]

One thing that I like about your podcast is that you let your guests talk most of the time, during the entire course of your podcast. You yourself are knowledgeable in a lot of topics, have experiences of your own, yet you don’t interject or interfere while your guests share their response to your questions.
Thanks for such great podcasts!

[MrsMMB]

My husband leaves me notes on my computer before he leaves to work. I put notes in his lunch. His coworkers laugh but I can’t imagine my life without him

[chrisbossman]

This guy said something really profound. "The reason why I never wanted to be famous is because the praise of strangers never really appealed to me" Let that sink in

[JustTony]

For someone who spends his days seperating families this guy is incredibly sensitive and a romantic at heart. A very compelling speaker. Exceptionally engaging talk

[Matt-mhus]

I pity whomever has been against this man in court. What an interview! He is proof not all lawyers are blood suckers, this one has a heart!

[avaleen]

“It is so brave to love.” So many quotable moments…this conversation is one of my all time favorites.

[sigmondroland]

I clicked because he's a divorce lawyer. I stayed because he's an awesome human.

[trishlangford]

Here's the thing. I married young. It was so bad that I vowed never again. I stuck to that for Twenty Seven years. Had a couple of long term relationships in between but NO WAY was I going to risk marriage again. Then 15 years ago I met a man twelve years older than me. Not reallyy my type, not handsome but he had a kindly face. He turned out to be kind, loving, and just a nice man. I finally gave in and remarried. We had thirteen years together before he passed away.
There was a lot of laughter, and different though we were, we had fun. I look back with affection and warmth knowing that I saved the best for last. 😊😊😊❤❤

[CharlieWhiskey]

I don’t know that I have ever seen/heard a more profound, powerful, enlightening interview in my life. This man…his raw insights and ability to unravel the complexity of life blows my mind.

[tommymarshall]

"white teeth and rotting gums" is one of the best descriptions of social media I've ever heard

[sleepybabe]

“People who have true joy in their relationship really don’t feel like they have to advertise it.”

[stevefarrugia-dcqt]

Out of the million Youtubes i have seen, this is in a class of its own and I truly enjoyed it and is helpfully useful . It deserves an international prize.

[jerredblunt]

"Money talks, wealth whispers" - great quote

[Livixxxxxxxxx]

He got me with the “hug them and think about this being the last hug you are able to give them, then, remember they are still here…” I want to go give my mom a hug.

[MtuckerGoBlue]

Lawyers are better than therapist. Almost got a divorce about 7 years ago and a meeting with a lawyer taught me more than all the sessions of therapy we went to. Oddly enough, we stuck it out and have building strong once again.

[Joelina]

This guy is SO GOOD at talking, so smart and insightful, but also funny and really great rhetoric. I could listen to him all day. Huge respect.👌