LOVE EXPERT ON: When A Man TRULY LOVES You, He Will DO THIS! | Stephan Speaks & Jay Shetty

Today, I sit down with Stephan Labossiere to talk about breakups and relationship building. We exchange thoughts on the importance of emotional maturity and how it greatly helps couples resolve misunderstandings, the reasons most relationships are dubbed challenging and difficult, understanding what a love cycle is and how emotionally damaging it is, and healing your trauma and working on yourself first are the first steps to attracting the right partner.

Stephan Labossiere a.k.a Stephan Speaks is a man on a mission, and that mission is to make relationships happier and more fulfilling. As a certified relationship coach, a speaker and author, Stephan seizes every opportunity to help both men and women overcome the challenges that hinder their relationships. Some of his most popular books are Love After Heartbreak, He's Lying Sis: Uncover the Truth Behind His Words and Actions, and The Man God Has For You: 7 Traits To Help You Determine Your Life Partner.

What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:40 What are the signs that someone deeply loves you?
04:01 Both partners need to be emotionally ready to grow love
08:56 Compatibility is about two people co-existing in harmony
13:10 How do you differentiate connection and chemistry, and what stage are you in?
16:51 Is anything that is not sustainable not healthy for any relationship?
21:15 Allowing children to discover themselves and their interests helps them become more self-aware
24:16 Why are most relationships difficult and become a continuous struggle?
29:13 The love advice you’ve probably heard but shouldn’t practice
34:07 Why do you need to nurture both of your masculine and feminine energy?
43:23 This is how you test the compatibility you have with your partner
46:42 Learn about the unhealthy love cycle that often causes relationships to fail
55:14 Aim to become the best you and you start to attract the right person
58:16 Focus on the healing from everything that you’ve been through, not just from your breakup
01:05:42 Stephan on Final Five

[countrygospel]

So amazing, You are not reading this by accident. This is the confirmation You've been waiting for. God is saying to You, You are going to make it. No matter what the situation looks like right now. I am going to send a positive change Your way. With blessings, solutions, healing and love. So be strong, hold on, and don't give up. You're next in line for Your miracle and blessings. Amen !!!

[SheilaSookram]

"Being your best self for the wrong person will bring out the worst version of you. "

[mattsheezy]

Always be careful of what you say to her when you’re arguing. You can say you’re sorry, they can say they forgive you, but they CAN’t forget, & emotional pain creates deep resentment.

[bartholetbay]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[iamDeej]

“The safe choice is usually the wrong choice.” That was a hard lesson to learn

[raeanneegan]

It’s true, as women we know. If we would honour our inner voice we would have saved ourselves a lot of heartache, tragedy and pain

[GenshinQuizo]

These two men are the dads we didn't know we needed. I'm a girl and I think they're speaking pure wisdom.

[Liv-dbso]

„Sometimes you‘re not missing the person, you’re missing the feeling.“ 🙌

[Sweetheart_Sessions]

When a man truly loves you, there' no space to second guess. He will make sacrifices, be honest and straightforward, listen and act in ways that dictate so.

[jaquelinegutierrez]

“Walking around unhealed is like walking around with broken glasses. Can’t see straight no matter how hard you try!” Wow did I need to hear this!!

[ReaSoRea]

That was me.. “losing myself because I was scared I was going to lose the other person”. It started to make me stressed and anxious, questioning my own worth even. Lessened learned, if you’re not a good fit it’s ok. Don’t take it personal or your’ll face the consequences within yourself and your own value

[nicksterp]

I honestly believe so many ppl are in terrible, unhappy relationships because they are so scared of change and being alone. It is not easy being alone and facing dark times. It is not easy healing. I've been single most of my life but I absolutely don't put up with crappy, emotionally unavailable ppl in my life anymore or narcissists that drain my energy and don't give me anything back

[nicolemaltese]

"You're not really missing the person you are missing the feeling." So true ❤

[PaulaJaneWNBFPro]

“Being your best for the wrong person”. That resonates.

[yasminhoyle]

Such a raw and intelligent podcast. No blaming other sides, just promoting self awareness which is hugely lacked these days!

[sandrar]

So true about masculine energy. A man that does not walk in his masculinity sends cues to a woman that she will always have to carry him. Leaving her thinking, that she can never be carried, that she has to constantly protect him and he never protecting her. Part of masculinity is protection. If a woman doesn't feel you can protect her, how can she truly trust you?

[maurapryor-ross]

“Walking around unhealed is like walking around with broken glasses. You can’t see straight ” ❤❤❤❤ THATS A WORD RIGHT THERE

[ShrimpPerr]

It’s so refreshing to see two men who can talk about feelings and vulnerabilities. We need more of this in this world.

[funone]

Relationships are hard because as a young person most of us didn’t have support, someone to talk to, explain things etc. Good Luck to everyone.

[gabbylewis]

this whole video taught me more in a hour than i’ve learned in 21 years