The Love Experts: Why 99% of Relationships FAIL “It’s Because of 3 Reasons!”

Welcome back to another powerful episode of The School of Greatness! Today, we're diving deep into the world of love and relationships with four incredible experts who will share their wisdom on creating lasting, fulfilling connections. From healing past traumas to embracing vulnerability, get ready to embark on a journey towards deeper connections and genuine love. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this episode is packed with transformative insights that will help you cultivate healthier, more vibrant relationships. Let's unlock the secrets of lasting love together!

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0:00 Intro
00:03:07 - Authenticity in Relationships
00:06:06 - The Importance of Self-Healing in Relationships
00:09:04 - The Importance of Healing Trauma
00:12:14 - Attracting Based on Trauma
00:15:16 - Communicate Relationship Goals
00:18:11 - Priorities and Alignment in Relationships
00:21:05 - Priorities in Life
00:24:14 - Prioritizing Values in Relationships
00:27:16 - Feeling Free in a Relationship
00:30:23 - Choosing Acceptance and Love
00:33:05 - Building a Conscious Relationship - Part 1
00:36:12 - Understanding Love Languages and Alignment
00:39:10 - The Importance of Acceptance and Allowance
00:42:25 - Setting up a Strong Foundation for Relationships
00:45:25 - Calming Neurophysiology for Better Decision-Making
00:48:10 - Building Healthy Mental Habits
00:50:56 - Building Self-Worth in Relationships
00:53:49 - Overcoming Feelings of Unworthiness in Relationships
00:56:40 - The Effects of Childhood Conditioning
00:59:37 - The Cycle of Bullying and Abuse
01:02:19 - Creating Mind Management Spaces
01:04:56 - The Importance of Expressing Emotions Within Relationships
01:08:06 - The Impact of Traumatic Nervous Systems

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[lewishowes]

Join me and amazing guests like JOE DISPENZA & DAVID GOGGINS at Summit of Greatness 2024!

[stanleyalexsanon]

“You can never really love if being hurt is not an option.” 🙏🏽

[UltraGalacticSuperFantastic]

Lewis is so cool. He's so genuinely interested and respects the people he talks to. Honestly got a little crush on him, I hope I end up finding a guy who is that intentional and respectful and smart (pray for me lol)

[TheOakenwulf]

Segment 1: active patience.
Segment 2: love is all you need to work through whatever else comes your way. Be sure to do the work though.
Segment 3: B.A.L.A.N.C.E.
Segment 4: change your brain.

[robynbeach]

I love that "you feel more like first priority" i think that's true. You won't feel like first priority with a person that's suppressing their own needs.

[gabrielaraimondo]

Many people don't want to heal!😢 they are hurt and they hurt others!😢😢😢

[kavericornett]

So true about healing…I recently met someone that I felt some “chemistry@ with…aha…it was an old pattern that was triggered & I realized this & didn’t get involved. Instead, I took the opportunity to feel the feelings that came up without having to act out. I was so proud of the growth I’ve obtained by not jumping but, stopping, looking, listening & being aware

[Cricketchirps]

Relationships take a lot of time and attention if you want it to work it needs worked on. Know thyself is important. Know what you can accept and what you can't. Be genuine, be yourself. Thank you for the breathing 3/7 technique.

[hfox]

Preach it brother. Most people are attracting their insecurities

[hfox]

I totally agree with healing and self love and being authentic

[kumudinicabandugama]

Many people realize this on their death bed unfortunately. People think they can just move from person to person without thinking what went on starting from their first relationship if they didnt end up with the first person. Being self aware is not a practise people have of themselves. Once you write down your strengths and weaknesses on a piece of paper and look at it you start your journey to looking for a good partnership. Just thinking out loud here 🙏🇱🇰

[elenast]

Lewis and his guest are so warm and compassionate. They talk and act out of love, and kindness. And of course enrich us with so useful and amazing information and knowledge.

[Tara-ClaireMintakaL]

Martha and Lewis you 2 are a match made in heaven ! ❤

[AbuelitaPaloma]

11:40 a season of discipline will produce a lifetime of freedom

[snelson]

I agree wholeheartedly - love by itself is NOT enough. I believe we can have so much more if we have those qualities and ideals you’ve mentioned!

[Jesselopez]

*I'm glad you made this video, * it reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, $89k biweekly and a good daughter full of love..

[julesawesomestuff]

Yes! The hats why I broke up with my last boyfriend. I felt smothered and couldn’t be myself without getting criticized.

[jossfangirl]

Yes .. love is all you need. Self love. Taking care of your health. Tending to your purpose. All part of love of self.

[manjulaadappa]

My biggest takeaway from this podcast was when Dr.Caroline specified that the best part -of one's emotional development was during the adolescence got engaged when was 22 & was married when I was 23 ..had 2 kids by the time I was one one or two fleeting very good platonic relationships with boys before I settled down to marriage was widowed by I always thought I married too young & should have given myself more time before I settled down to marriage ...but Dr.Caroline has put my insecurities to podcast is a big takeaway in grooming my son & daughter to a better understanding on relationship dynamics!I have forwarded it to them...

[jazz_and_tea]

This episode has been so amazing and so deeply insightful! Love it!