How Narcissistic Abuse Creates Emotional Triggers That Ruin Relationships

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The reality is that emotional abuse, narcissistic abuse affects your subconscious. And if we don't bring it into our conscious awareness it will continue to affect your relationships. We will continue to act in ways that are in harmony with that subconscious programming whether the person that programmed it is in our life or not. And who wants that? I know in my life coaching I meet so many people who tell me they felt like they lost years of their life due to narcissistic abuse/narcissistic relationships or narcissistic family members that were emotional abusers and/or emotional manipulators. The last thing anyone wants is to be out of the relationship yet still suffering the consequences.

How Narcissistic Abuse Creates Emotional Triggers That Ruin Your Relationships
How narcissistic abuse infiltrates your subconscious mind, narcissistic relationships create emotional triggers, how emotional triggers can ruin your relationships even if narcissists are out of your life, narcissistic relationships keep you stuck in fight/flight and highly triggered, signs narcissistic victim syndrome, signs you were raised by a narcissistic parent, healing emotional wounds from narcissistic family, healing from emotional abuse, narcissistic abuse creates complex ptsd, ptsd from emotional abuse

[brianf]

Sounds like Michelle knows me personally.

[garycordle]

This is why you need to do the inner work before you get into another relationship. And just look out for the red flags 👍 up Michelle and survivors and thrivers 🙏

[ladennayoung]

Yep. And that's the reason why a relationship with Christ, and learning to truly love yourself, and counseling is very important before entering a relationship of any kind. We will not be perfect regardless. So, we shouldn't be to hard on ourselves. But we can overcome certain things in due time. We just have to fight through it, and unlearn some toxic things that we learned, heard, or saw growing up. And toxic relationships as a whole.

[handoverfist]

Don't be ashamed *Realize* that it has happened . Your awesome !! Push forward !! Don't look back !! The World loves you !! Get out of that shoe box and *Rise* Be the best you can be !!

[innerworthprojecthealingso]

Always be kind and patient with yourself - healing takes a lot of inner work and time, but I promise you will get there. x

[peterknyk]

So very true, Michele! Thank you for this video.... I spent most of my adult life with an abusive narcissistic marital partner....her constant abuse triggered wounds from childhood sexual abuse and that probably ruined my marriage....this video makes complete sense....thank you...💞

[chriskahlson]

Michele is the best in the business and unpacks triggers - thank you Michelle

[johnmcvicar]

Another important teaching session. Identifying one issue [trigger] and then describing it with an easy to understand example. It is important, because if a person doesn't know that they suffer from a problem, then they won't know that they can heal, and will continue to suffer.

[Amazingme]

We need more videos like this. So true. It's like we're going crazy all over again. And having to re-learn being human again.

[nadyssb]

Thank you Michelle sweetheart. I needed this. ❤️

[silverlining]

Michelle you just hit the spot with immaculate precision. This also comes right in time to focus on how to word to Her why our relationship finally came down like a giant riddled with shots. You are amazing as usual. Thanking you ❣️

[HaleyMary]

I find that I am sometimes emotionally triggered even when I haven't felt triggered for years. When I was at an open mic night in 2018, there was a guy who had asked me to a movie, then was always busy, so I just forgot about it for awhile because I thought he would ask me again when he had time. Then, there was this guy who was this guy's friend who made a comment at the open mic night that I knew about sexual stuff, implying I was experienced. I'm abstinent, so I'm not experienced at all. This triggered in me some fear because I had a bad experience with a subscriber in 2008 who tried to coerce me and had blackmailed another youtuber and it was totally subconscious for me to react in a freeze response. That experience in 2018 caused me to not want to date at all and I haven't even approached a man not out of a fear of them not liking me back, but out of a fear that they will pressure me to do something I don't want to do.

[izawaniek]

Thank you Michelle for such a helpful and informative video.

[Hafsa_Siddiqui_]

I think I have alot of triggers.. People call me angry bird even though I try so hard to not get angry at little things but I just can't. It hurts me in two ways one is that they don't like me and second is that sometimes I hurt others unwillingly and later regret it..

[leslieleslie]

Can you make a video about neglected children.

[soheilay]

I get triggered even by narcissistic characters in the movies

[TheBenzwanger]

My wife was abused terribly by a narcissist for 5 years. But she never worked through it from a young age. She thought since she escaped it she was healed. But the smallest of triggers turned her into her abuser for 8 years. She drew a linez you could tell she wasn't a full blown narcissist but she took on the person's of the abuser. Now that's we finally had a truth talk and got answers we realized she never even saw me for saw her ex-husband. Is this possible? Am I alone on this? How does someone just snap out of taking on their abusers persona? For years she would minimize the mist horrible things that he did to her and I never understood and then the triggers

[ladennayoung]

Thanks for sharing your knowledge, wisdom, experience, and insight on this subject matter. God bless you and yours in Jesus name. I pray that the Lord continue to bless and keep you in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.

[Fairytale]

Do you suggest talking about these triggers with a new (healthy) partner?