5 Ways Narcissistic Abuse Makes You Stronger

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chapters
00:00 introduction
00:31 Inspires you to learn more about yourself
01:33 It helps you to know how resilient you are.
02:37 It helps you to recognize your boundaries
03:47 You become a better observer
05:04 It makes you more compassionate

[edgreen]

You learn how to look at people. You see shallowness and selfishness, entitlement so you go away from these types. Kinda like switching and walking on the other side of the street to avoid toxicity.

[braveheart]

I survived something that nearly unalived me.
But I am still...very damaged physically and emotionally. Once your eyes have been opened you cannot unsee their darkness and evil. Truely frightening that these people walk amongst us.
Thank you Danish🙏

[mandyf]

I am gonna be 59 very soon..had lots of therapy etc,
But, I can truly say I now know Who I am, What I deserve, and How to spot a Narc quickly, and dismiss them.

[popmonika]

It's made me concentrate on things in my life I always felt insecure about and realize I am more than capable of solving them by myself.

[nicj]

I did a 14 year sentence with a covert narcissist, then later did another 14 year term with a malignant narcissist. The second taught me what the first had done, and once I was released I came out with the wisdom to never have to return. They make you pay for their crimes (until you realize it's not yours to bear).

[danmcdonald]

Danish. You are helping countless people with your knowledge and insight. You have an amazing ability to analyze and simplify the narc behavior. Keep coaching and explaining how these creatures torture their victims. Normal people have no idea what it's like to deal with the narc. God bless.

[dyoung]

💯All of the following are true:
1. Inspires you2learn more about yourself
2. Helps you2truly understand how strong/resilient you are
3. Helps you2recognize your vulnerabilities
4. You become a better observer of people & their behavior
5. Makes you more compassionate
A relationship with a narcissist will help me appreciate being in a healthy relationship

[Missysum]

Since my last romantic trauma with a narcissist, I haven’t been in a romantic relationship for years. I really was shocked when the dots started connecting with this person’s behavior and words. It was a person I went to high school with and very respected in his profession. I considered him a friend for years or at least a great acquaintance but after the initial marriage proposal..within 1 week of saying yes to him, the discarding happened. The cycle went on for a few years since the first discard. Make up, break up with who I believe to be a covert narcissist. A very hard experience and it did open my eyes to how many people I’ve been dealing with that seem to be the same way. Narcissistic abuse is absolutely horrible.

[Talisharoy]

What that relationship taught me, no one could otherwise. I am proud of the person I have become. I fell in love with myself. I started keeping myself first before anyone. I learned self care and strangely it helped me heal the wounds that I didn’t know existed. I rose from ashes and still going stronger everyday. I stopped looking for answers was the closure as it was within me all this whilw. I feel free, I feel pity for him for losing someone like me. I feel pity that in the process of breaking me, he made me stronger than ever. I pray for his healing. I pray he gets enough strengths to work on his trauma.

I am proud of who I have become.

To my past self : Thank you for staying strong. You deserve all the happiness the world and

[chitramarathe]

have realised I m really much more stronger than others

[SophieBird]

Yes let’s try to focus on the positive. Life is for learning. The trick is to learn from our experiences both good and terrible!

[jamest]

Spotting behaviors in people infected by the same demon. Same person-different face. You do not give the benefit of the doubt to these people. If your parent was narcissistic. That is what you will attract because your parent groomed you to be supply. There are so many of these people out there. I used to think my dad was one in a million. The older I got I realized he is 1 in 5.

[khoango]

The biggest lesson is to identify toxic people and environments from the beginning so you don't get too involved and committed. And that you get away immediately or at least soon and you stay away. Robert Greene, the Author of 48 laws of power and human nature said this one of the most important life lessons . Identify toxic people and environments early on and then make sure you get away and stay away. Getting involved and staying for money is not worth your emotional and mental health in the long run, not at all . As a person who's been with toxic people and environments I have to agree 100 percent with him . Its sad tho, you have to experience this hardship personally yourself to truly understand, you won't really understand by just reading about it .

[F_Mac]

I left my covert NPD girlfriend this spring and my head has been through hell. When I left her I had no idea of what was happening - I just knew I had to be somewhere else. One book I read was like a script of our relationship. Understanding the disorder was half the battle - the pain has changed from acute and sharp to more of a dull throb. Just like Danish explains, I can feel myself coming to terms with many of my qualities that allowed this awful relationship to occur. I will be a different person after this. Can't wait to feel better! Thanks Danish - I recognize many of the things you mention.

[chitra]

The more you get to understand a narcissist, the more you will pity them for their damaged past, lack of love and estranged relations.
All the healing from narcissistic abuse leads one to attain depth, maturity and greater understanding of human psyche, whereas a narcissist would only continue to get more n more exposed.
Dealing with a narcissist, gives us an opportunity to tame our emotions, better self-regulation and control.
While our self-esteem may still be low as compared to a narcissist, you will realize how balanced and resilient you are which is an equally valuable trait.

[HonestyIsAVirtue]

It has helped me to have a closer relationship with God. God is the only reason that I'm still here. Without the Father, I would not have survived. He gets all of the glory. Praise be to Him 🙌

[princess_sapphire]

I dont trust anyone anymore and I dont take people at face value. IM suspicious everyone has an ulterior motive and will take advantage of my kindness

[andersdottir]

I’m getting better at setting boundaries and staying away from abusive people.
I’ve also reduced people-pleasing and over giving- now I watch that I stick to the 50/50 rule; giving %50 is ok.

[umaadhish]

You become better person
1. You become observer not more deceived by outside look and charm.
2. You see what is the outcome / what you get to continue with this relationship.
3. You know about your flaws. as other than narcissist no one put fingers on your flaws. and start working on it.
4. You become calm cool and composed with the outside environment.
5. You gain internal friendship within yourself and needed no more company desperately as before.
6. You are much more confident and peaceful than before.

[maryharris]

I was forced to self reflect
.also I didn't understand why no one else were ever meeting these people- just me🤔?The study of Narcas
sism opens your 3rd eye in three dimensional form vs one track mind. My religious, communical upbringings caused me to be a magnet- help everyone. We're a community. Today
, my viewpoint are drastically different (due to studying Narcassism).