How To Turn Your Situationship Into A Relationship - Matthew Hussey

How To Turn Your Situationship Into A Relationship - Matthew Hussey

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[hannahalexie]

Yup. I did this for three months and it ended up destroying me emotionally in the end. Always ask questions, communicate how you’re feeling, and don’t let someone waste your time.

[Joyce-uwrv]

Thank you, 3 yrs! He wanted & needed companionship. Please listen, ladies, don't waste your heart or time. Be honest with yourself! Protect your heart!
Also, if you ask questions & they dismissed it or pulled away, theirs the truth. Accept truth!❤

[wangcheng]

Excellent video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[kathleenbrown]

Wow, this really makes sense. I was definitely afraid of the answer. I didn't realize by not asking I was causing my own insecurity. Not doing that anymore!!!!

[adrianavettorello]

I say that if the guy wants you as his girlfriend he does all the things he can possibly do to show you his commitment, because he wants to be sure you are sure of him. You know he is committed because he act as a committed person with you

[Sissy]

Okay I’m talking this - this weekend. Stop being fearful. ❤

[SimbaAliaye]

But I did ask all those questions very early on. He was intrigued by the transparency of it all. He agreed and made promises. All for naught. He still had his girlfriend of seven years in their house one state away.

[carolrucker]

So true! Have the conversation!! You have nothing to lose. Just do it!!!

[pino_de_vogel]

Exclusivity is from date/day one. I will not date someone who explores other options or even keeps them open. I won't and i expect the same from another. Show your full interest from day one or fk off. I don't have time to play around if i want to reach my life goals.

[sakutaromusik]

i asked the question early on he told me we are exclusiv and then started to stonewall and meet me less and less, also cheated on me. Doesn´t matter what someone says

[Tennis]

I really appreciate this video, and I definitely needed to hear this. It's going on 6 months of this, and I am terrified of the answer, but I need to have the courage to speak up and have these difficult conversations, even if I don't like the answer. Wishing everyone else out there in similiar situations to find the strength and courage to go for it and ask this question and know that even if it doesn't work out, you're still worthy of love and will find your person!

[HShravzP]

Exactly....I'm crying listening to this.

A boy I liked asked me for a casual/situationship type of thing. I did say yes to him but also knew somewhere deep down I'm not okay with it.
After 2-3 weeks, he didn't want to continue further (I am a virgin too and he was like " you might get attached to me if you have first time sex with me and I absolutely do not want to deal with / or put effort in dealing with your feelings/emotions/attachments from you so I'm out of this)
It did trigger a lot of anxiety and insecurities and emotional issues in me even though it was just a few weeks fling.

It's very important to know that what we are signing up for is something we really want to put effort in and spend time and invest our energy in.

[ElviraTay]

Yes exactly 💯 if don't have enough conversation every time no point be together.

[Rinithea]

Yeah, I asked him. He said that I have good times spend time with me and he said that he just wanted to be "friend"? He took me to his daughter birthday party and met all his family members. I give up now 😪 it's hurt but I don't want just his "friend ".

[Bangtan]

literally me rn lmao I just deleted snapchat from my phone bc we've been talking for a month and it feels like I'm falling in love and he just sees me as "homie" and "bro" even though he's playful and flirty. I can't go through this again, of falling hard and fast and being left to hit the ground alone as hard as gravity can bring me down

[mits]

If I don’t know there’s exclusivity… if I don’t know if it’s a fwb or bf/gf situation… I’m not doing it. I’m too old for fwb. Ive gone 40yrs of my life w/o stds, and I plan to go the next 40 without them. So I’m straight up from the beginning, either it is exclusive or he can count me out.

[Inatfromdenmark]

I just won’t do that. Then rather loose this person than selling parts of me. If someone don’t want to claim you then they don’t deserve your loyalty and dedication

[silviaganozamarroquin]

Your are the BEST! GRACIAS por hablar por nosotras. Love you!!!❤

[xoxjelloxox]

How do I know when to be
In a relationship with him? How do I know he won’t just use me for his ego

[dawnstonerock]

It should never hurt. That IS your answer.