If He DOESN'T VALUE YOU, Do This To Get Him To CHANGE! | Matthew Hussey

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This really bothers me, so maybe you can help…

Why do so many women allow guys to get away with treating them so carelessly??

Is it because she’s scared of losing him? Or she’s worried he’ll get annoyed if she’s too honest about her feelings?

If you’ve ever been one of those women who is always waiting for him to change his behavior, this video will transform your relationships with men forever...

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[soccerchick]

“Why does he treat you casually”
“Because you are allowing them”

Damn this hit home

[KayDinelli]

Someone one told me "if you have a feeling that something is wrong... then something probably is". Trust your gut ladies— quit justifying things that you shouldn't.

[mpeppermint]

Don't ever try to change a man, you will only make yourself miserable. When he says who he is, believe him the first time.

[justhuman]

"Love shouldn't be painful."

Remember that. Always.

[deeprollingriver]

Quit trying to figure out why a man is treating you badly and start trying to out why you tolerate that crap.

[so-so]

It’s sad how you could love somebody so much that you allow almost everything that they say or do. You sacrifice so much of your own happiness just for them to disrespect you..

[makeitcount]

Leaving isn't scary, staying with someone who does not deserve you is scary

[nicolejamieson]

How can you be with someone yet feel so alone 😐

[mimma]

I am worth more. I just walked away. It's killing me but I value myself too much to put myself through this anymore.

[l.aposdif]

When you are emotionally dependent you're trapped, it's the worst mental prison in my opinion
Losing your mind over someone that doesn't care about losing you

[Spiral.Dynamics]

He’s not valuing you? You aren’t valuing you, darling. It’s an inside job. Most of the misery in this world is caused by not being there for yourself.

[angelavarious]

Mature love also means letting go if it's not your place to stay... however it hurts so bad 😔

[MaxivanJoy]

YOU teach people HOW to treat YOU.period (YOU decide what YOU will accept or tolerate)

[anni]

Is anybody else scared that we leave the guy and he absolutely doesn’t care ?

[estutimishra]

I was hospitalized and he didn't even call me. And when my mother asked him to call me, the guy misbehaved.
I left. Period.

[supernovax]

The Love Paradox: If you want them they don’t want you, if you don’t want them they want you. In other words no matter what you do you can’t even have them.

[angelkirkland]

Sitting in my bfs bathroom bailing my eyes out thinking, yes I need to leave I can’t do this anymore, do this for urself.

[ellesasabasaje]

Matthew, you've really changed my life. My baby's father abandoned me and our baby at the hospital a few days before I gave birth prematurely. After our baby died, he wasn't there. He's continued to insult and lie to me. Despite all that, I never could bring myself to cut off ties. I knew something was off. I used to be a level-headed, strong woman. Maybe there was a part of me that was waiting for him to change. Waiting for that apology that deep down inside, I know will never come.

"Never test your pain threshold at the expense of your self-worth." My new mantra.

He came back a few more times and just a couple of days ago, he came back for a booty call. I'm glad I found this video right before I was about to get out the front door to meet him for another "session." This video brought me to tears. For the first time, since I met him, I said no. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I love what you do for women around the world. You're like the big brother I wish I had. :)

[MsArheaful]

I actually tell my partner how I feel everytime he takes me for granted. But he has this freaking skill of making me feel like it's my fault that our arguments started. Or I'm just overreacting. Or that he shows like he understands me but does the same mistake again.

I know I have to leave him. I know it hurts. I just need the strength I need to tell him that it's over.

[Revolution-tlwo]

Learning about attachment theory, healing my own attachment style, and recognizing the other insecure attachment styles at a distance has saved me from ever putting up with someone not valuing me again. Don't try to fix it. Don't wait on them to do better. Don't try to "work on it" with them. It's not worth it. Heal yourself and the right person will show up for you. Women are not rehabilitation centers for broken men. <3