How to Stay Calm Around Impossibly Annoying People – Susan Fee

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[honeybadgernasty]

"Your wounder will never be your healer." 🤔
Wow...That's some matrix shit!
Noted, bolded and highlighted!

[mikemikeson]

So: lose hope in all annoying people. I like this.

[Great_PatBingsoo]

This is some of the best advice I’ve received. Realizing that I can be part of the problem given my subjective perception of things made me realize that I should just accept that I won’t always like certain people, even family.

[feiwaan]

1. When people show u who they are, believe them and adjust your expectations
2. Stop trying to change them.
3. Stop trying to complain about them all the time.
4. Stop trying to get a difficult person to understand your pain...

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[inglesfree]

"dogs will be dogs"..my mantra from now on...Lol

[fabricioaf]

The problem is that the person is still around making weird noises as loud as possible, he'll never change, i accept that, but it's still passing through my earphones, i have no escape, what i want is to not feel annoyed, not learn how to react to it

[fjb]

"If you're not gonna get mad at a dog for doing what dogs do, why are you gonna get mad at a jerk for doing what jerks do?" MIC DROP!

[onyoutube]

People have to want to change, and that includes ourselves. I've had a few folks try to change me to fit their acceptance of what I should be (chiefly regarding health issues). All it did was create resentment, and annoyance within me. This was very well explained.

[JohnDoe-djkb]

Some people are so annoying til they don't even realize they're annoying. I avoid conversations with these types of people.

[vanqron]

If I'm annoyed at people i tell them DONT TALK TO ME RIGHT NOW my blood sugar is low

[alinathewarrior]

We all thought of someone when we saw shit with a smile on the screen.

[Elven.]

2:41 and if you actually get them to apologize, it's never satisfying on the deepest level

[lovequeen]

I needed this with my neighbor I will listen to this every morning

[digiverse]

Hi, I'm living/renting next door to an impossible, arrogant, loud and obnoxious tenant. She apparently works from home so she is speaking/laughing/singing loudly the entire day...everyday! I got so upset about this and told my landlord that he should speak to her but he refused so as not to cause something. Eventually I had to muster all the courage I could gather, walk up to her door and confront her, respectfully ofcourse.
She wasn't happy about this and denied she was loud, she then turned it around and accused me of being the loud one. She said that the shower makes so much noise when i am using it in the morning(like really???) After a lot of sarcasm and denial, she said that she would try to control her noise level if I did the same. I just agreed and said I would watch myself. It has been over a month and she is still loud, disrespectful and obnoxious from time to time. The "dog" is driving me

[johannamaisonave]

Thank you! This is exactly what I needed to hear! A game changer, totally enlightened.
Thanks from the bottom of my heart!

[ENFPerspectives]

This video should make us realize that we are all that person ... to someone else. Some people want us to change to fit their control mechanism. We don’t like it when they do it to us so we need to stop trying to do it to others. Don’t throw your pearls to the swine. If after try one and two, you haven’t come to some sort of agreement, you probably won’t, unless that person is still interested in engaging and thinking. Iron also sharpens iron. Don’t give up hope on the right people.

[itops_machine]

You don't how I needed this, thank you so much 😂

[verlena]

What a great presentation. Wow....more people need to hear it. Thanks so much.

[miyo]

As a person who don't usually get angry on someone
Is stuck with a impossibly annoying person
I get very angry with her and even after telling her what my boundaries are she keeps going out of the way.

[tanzilaleeya]

That was sooo awesomeee.. massive help.. thank u so much