3 Questions You Must Ask Before Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

In this episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha, we dissect the seemingly simple but quintessential questions that can save you from potential heartache - three questions you must ask before marriage. Sharing our personal journey of 24 years of marital bliss (and occasional chaos), we offer you pearls of wisdom on managing change, setting expectations right, and the art of loving when you're not quite 'liking.'

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[venuslin]

1. Can you handle me changing?
2. Can you handle me NOT changing?
3. Will you love me when you don’t like me?

[samueltshabalala]

How i got your podcast, I was mumuring to God that i don't know where to begin with marriage. There is this amazing woman I like and i had no idea where to begin, so i said God teach me. and immediately when i got home, suddenly you podcast came up, and i have maybe 7 to 10 podcast, and i am learning. I can't believe i am learning even after so many episodes i am leanging new things that i never learned before. Its awesome

[Richgirlshana]

Love this ❤ I’m 29 and single and taking notes I desire marriage and hopefully one day I’ll meet my husband

[patiencemtisi]

It often comes across like Pastor Ken feels he has to put up with his wife's "flaws", more than she does his. But this can not be the truth. He has plenty flaws too, more obvious than hers for us who follow the couple, however Pastor Tabatha always extends so much grace to him.

[christellen]

Pastor Ken ... ! Take example.on your wife in regards of the ability to give grace and to cover the other by not reproaching, and admitting your wrongs. At times I often sense that you are talking about her wrongs, but yours not really.

And when she says how she says what she does well, you bring faults.

You should be covering your wife. Because she does all the things you do not.

You bring up what you feel is not perfect on what she does to many times. And in too many episodes.


Pastor. She never insist on having the last word, and never really shows your flaws. But you are always dissatisfied. You are not


Be thankful, honor, give grace, HONOR your wife more.

Most of the viewers are women. And as a woman it is not comfortable to watch. And it takes away the value of the podcast at time.

May God bless you couple in Jesus Name. Which is the priority over any ministry ❤

[waModimoTT]

🤯 "premarital counselling is not for you to say 'I do' it's for you to say 'do I?'"

[dejanaemorris]

“If they don’t change their circle of friends, can you still be with them for the rest of their lives?” Very retable and important question, that one hit home! 💭

[johnsugg]

I've been married and divorced twice. I have tons of wisdom learned and yalls videos are still taking me to school. Those watching pay attention. Solid Godly advice here. Marriage requires constant growth and full determined commitment in your walk with God and each other. Pray separately and together everyday.

[keavonta]

I just want to thank yall. I just turned 26 & although I am single, i have began preparing for marriage. i love your podcast, thank y’all for being authentic and sticking to the word 🤍

[patiencemtisi]

I agree with Tabatha, I feel like Ken expects her to be more like him. I don't mean to be rude but I often feel that Ken criticizes Tabatha a bit too much. I wonder why that is? You are an amazing couple but there is an issue there somewhere. However, I really love your ministry and am learning a lot

[bobbiemichaelsNyc]

He's in trouble after this podcast 🤭😅 But I definitely think this one's is my favorite out of them all 💭🙏☕🙌

[dablackkitten]

Love how authentic and real yall are! Glad you popped up on my feed :)

[righteousmasculine]

GOD bless your marriage I’m 36 and I always ask GOD to put me in the right place at the right time to meet my spouse. I’m preparing myself with GODLY wisdom in my singleness. I always said I want to raise a child in a Structured two parent home

[christianqueen]

I'm sorry, but I feel like this husband is continually insulting his wife. Every video that I looked at so far he starts off by saying that the first 2 years of their marriage was horrible, until he got her together and helped her get her credit straight. To me, those kind of comments are not loving and supportive. Covering your spouse includes that you do not expose them, over and over and over again for the entire world to see. Just look at Tabatha's face every time Ken makes these types of comments. 😔

[shannonwhite]

I like this podcast. However, he's always pointing things out about her that's wrong or the way she use to be. What about him. Can she handle him changing or not changing.? I like how she admits she has grown, improved over the years.

[shellyshantel]

one was toooo funny! Love Tabatha getting offended, felt like I was watching myself🤣

[rennieshawellington]

The rawness in this though! I absolutely love this as a single woman looking forward to being a wife. This add so much value because to be honest sometimes I we try our very best to try and change people into who we want them to be rather than accepting people as they are. We want everyone to be who we are and forget that we were all created uniquely. ❤ thank u for this

[brittanydiggins]

I love this podcast and I love how we can see you guys be real ❤❤❤😂

[elisabethlourens]

What an awesome cool couple. This lady is my hero. So humble. So positive and kind towards her husband.

[suzzetteturnbull]

This was outstanding!! As someone twice divorced, I co-sign everything said in this podcast. Please take it seriously whether you’re single dating or not dating or if you’re married. This context and wisdom is priceless.