8 Revealing Questions You Can Ask Him on a Date

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Dating is tough. The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition?

The #1 way to separate ourselves is through great conversation. And yet most of us spend all of our time trying to look hot without ever thinking about what we’re going to say when we get there.

I’m sure you already have the “looking great” part taken care of. But in today’s video, I cover the “what to say” part—specifically, how to stand out by asking one of 8 tried-and-tested questions I’ve put together for you.

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[karlbriancruzrce]

I need a "How To Get A Date" video first.

[nayr.]

(0:55) 1. Who is someone you really admire?
(1:50) 2. What kind of vacations do you love the most?
(2:14) 2.5. If you had to spend a year in a different country, where would you choose?
(2:30) 3. What book do you think everybody should read?
(3:05) 4. What do you love most about what you do?
(4:12) 5. What's something you love doing but don't do enough?
(4:40) 6. What do you suck at?
(5:52) 7. What is a film you are embarrassed you like so much?
(6:26) 7.5 If I looked at your top 25 most played songs, what's the most embarrassing one?
(6:47) 8. How would your closest friends describe you?

[alisoncurran]

* goes on a date, forgets immediately * 🤣

[DancingMermaid]

1. Who is someone you really admire?
2. What kind of vacation do you like?
3. What book do you think everybody should read?
4. What do you love the most about what you do?
5. What is something you love doing but you do not do it enough?
6. What do you suck at?
7. Which movie are you embarrassed of liking?
8. How would your closest friends describe you?

You're welcome ✌.

[andreagarciafernandez]

I love he mention the responsibility to have our answers to the question we ask for the other person. The date also need to know us.

[amandapirot]

Good open ended questions. Another question (along with "how would your closest friends describe you") is "how would your siblings and parents describe your role in the family"? This question allows you to see who you are in interpersonal dynamic, ie someone is a caretaker, mediator, the spoiled one, the responsible one, etc... Another... "in past relationships, how did you know you were loved?" Speaks to potential love languages and what someone values in a loving relationship. These questions might be for dates 2, 3, 4, 5.

[literallyheather]

I love how much latitude you give to people. It isn't this person is boring or a loser, it is they don't have the same standard of passion that I do. So gracious. Lovely. 💙

[TheAttractionTriggers]

*Going beyond surface-level conversations and asking meaningful questions can help establish a deeper connection.*

[DomCOuano]

these are also great for catching up with friends and family you haven't seen in a while or maybe a distant relative you haven't met yet. these are great ways to just connect with people and get to know each other too

[wildberries]

For question number one my answer would be Matthew Hussey! Why? He inspires, guides, opens new worlds of possibilities, his kindness, shares stimulating information, he's charismatic, helps others discover their full potential and introduces his listeners to many other wonderful people. I have a great appreciation for your work obviously. lol! Thank you! 🙏🥰😇

[JR-sxgl]

When you ask those don't go from one to the other, because it would seem you are drilling this person while you came prepared for the test. Some of the questions are better for introverts and others for extraverts. You can either ask a question that the person would probably already have the answer to or challenge the person out of their comfort zone. It depends if you want to break the ice and maybe make that person comfortable to open up about other things or if you want to challenge the person to give you an answer they'd need to think about a bit. The risk is the person might get anxious about not being perceived as either interesting enough or intelligent enough.

[stephh_nz]

This is great - also gave me a bit of anxiety because I realised how much I don’t have in my life outside of running a business and being a full time solo parent. I will use this to work on myself first

[KatieKirkLoves]

I love these kind of practical tips I can use on a date, thank you! It’s good to have things in mind especially when you’re nervous. Keep them coming.

[jessicacarron]

I love these.
I have often had light hearted “20 questions” on dates.
I like books/movies/historical figures + why kinds of back and forth questions. A night will pass so quickly, and many tangent conversations can be had.
It’s a great litmus test of compatibility too.
❤️❤️

[MariyaTerzieva]

Great questions ideas, Matt! I am all covered for a date now. Loved that you responded to all of the questions! Lots of love to Audrey!

[claudiapurcell]

I can't believe I'm the first person writing a comment on my favorite coach!!!.
I am a fresh broken heart...and I feel like I'm melting off pain...
Mathew's videos helped me to go through a crucial pain. I do not know...his talk sounds so grounded, healthy... equilibrated. It makes more sense.... without sliding in so much drama...

[Alex-dkum]

“It would have been if it should have been” helped me get back on my feet. Thank you for all your help ♥️☺️

[kimmiel]

I love these questions! They help to dive deeper and find out more about a person by their responses. I’d love to see more of these kinds of videos. Thank you!

[lisaverbosky]

Love each question Matt. Thanks for the inspiration.

[valeriadelfina]

Finally a video which suggests TRULY revealing questions <3 so helpful!