This is why men are no longer approaching women; Top 10 reasons WHY

I list out 10 TOP reasons why men are no longer approaching women.

[beefninja]

Why on earth would I risk a sexual harassment charge just to spend more money ona date for an entitled woman.

[twilightroach]

As a blue collar worker, I have found that I am basically invisible, and I have been treated with distain and contempt.
I found out that I am a MGTOW before I even knew there was such a thing!
In my experience I found that getting involved in my work hobbies and interests was far more rewarding than continuously getting rejected .
So in my opinion if modern women want a guy, they are going to have to share the ones that are still willing to play their stupid games.

[americanidle]

An accusation of assault or sexual harassment is equivalent to a conviction. Even if he gets the opportunity to tell his side of the story, he won’t be believed. Reputation, career, liberty could all be taken from him. Best to be safe and stay away.

[charlesbradley]

I’m 51, and I am done with dating, never to return. Men are tired of being rejected, lied to, and taken advantage of.

[anthonygrimaldi]

"Women make it so hard that men conclude that life is just more peaceful and less problematic without women in their life " is my main take-away. Women make it too hard and are hypercritical ( hypocritical) and that repels most men. "It is just not worth it. " Brilliant on your part to say this. This is the number 1 reason. Men give up.

[Michael-gdop]

Being called a creep. I'm sure you could do a whole episode on the "Are we dating the same guy" fiasco.
Men are called abusive for a litany of indiscretions, as small as disagreeing with a woman, but a woman decides she doesn't like the guy she goes on one date with and she can publicly shame him all over the internet and it's considered fine.
Women typically don't have the physical strength to commit serious violence on men, (although it happens more than we talk about) so instead they take pleasure in social shaming and reputational damage.
They will bully men they don't like to destroy their lives instead. The difference in the forms of abuse is that men are repeatedly told throughout their life not to hit women. Women cheer on each other when it comes to shaming and destroying mens reputations. They'll publish books about it, they'll set up social media pages explicitly for it, and they so rarely see any consequence as a result.

[DavidSibley]

I have seen numerous videos of women claiming they were harassed merely because a guy showed her attention of some sort. Basically, almost anything can be deemed harassment by a woman.

[tess]

I’m a woman with 4 brothers. I appreciate your videos because I think men get the short end of the stick too often, and they suffer in silence. Your videos shine a light on that and the comment section gives men a forum to express themselves, which I imagine they appreciate.

[TheSkull]

It’s not temporary for most men who’ve removed themselves from dating, relationships and marriage. Most of your 10 reasons are very accurate but the “it’s not worth it” is the main reason. The common refrain these days from women is “I don’t need no man; I’m a boss babe.” Glad to oblige you ma’am. My bank account is growing at a tremendous rate and, most important, I have peace in my life.

[devilsadvocacy]

Women: “Go away you creep, and don’t ever talk to me again.” <posts video on Tick Tock so as to embarrass him and get those all-important ‘likes’ from her echo chamber>
Also women: “Why don’t men approach us anymore?”

[musicartguy]

I am 54, never married, no kids, plenty of relationships. I decided that it just isn't worth the risk. Divorce destroys a man financially, and women's expectations today are sky high. It's exhausting.

Cancel culture has destroyed flirting. Online dating is a hellscape, and dating at work is professional suicide. It is so much more relaxing just to do my own thing.

[stroke]

This video is spot on! The main reason that men don’t approach anymore is one that most people don’t acknowledge. Men have been listening to all of the harsh criticisms of men from feminists and feminist leaning ideologies. Contrary to popular belief, the vast majority of us want to be respectful. The woman who don’t want to be bothered have been much more vocal than the woman who do. Social media has made it clear to men that in order to be respectful to women, we need to pretend that all woman are invisible unless a woman makes it known that she wants to be seen. Unfortunately for woman, you will need to start approaching or making it blatantly clear that you want to be approached. Good men see women’s safety as paramount. We want women to be safe and feel safe. But, we aren’t mind readers. We don’t know if we should approach until the encounter is over and every male over the age of like 15 has been shot down brutally at least once by a girl that he really liked. For many men, the juice isn’t worth the squeeze. Non traditional woman who want a traditional experience is a paradox to men. Men are genuinely just trying to do what woman have been asking us to do; leave you alone.

[billywylie]

I’ve literally seen a cop walk into a gym following up on a complaint about a woman accusing a man of looking at her.The cop was a female.She literally told the woman this “Just because someone looks in your general direction, it doesn’t mean they are staring at you” The female cop walked out of the gym and the woman who made the call got enraged because the cop didn’t arrest the man who allegedly looked in her direction.I thought it was hilarious af! LMFAO

[davidgleeson]

I never experienced unconditional love until I got a dog.

[TwentytenSB]

As a man, why would I risk being accused of sexual harassment for asking a woman out on a date? Why would I risk losing everything I worked for? It's a known fact that only men who the woman does not find attractive are labeled creeps by them if these men approach them. At work, I keep my distance from females. When I'm out and about as in the grocery store, I also keep my distance. Not because I'm scared, but because I don't want the first couple things I mentioned. And lastly, I checked out of the dating pool many years ago because getting cheated on, treated like crap, made homeless, and slapped with child support payments while being deployed working for the Navy has left a bitter taste in my mouth. And I will tell you from experience, you as a man are automatically viewed as a piece of garbage in domestic court. The laws heavily favor women, and there is absolutely no incentive as a man to marry or have children, or even date, either financially, emotionally, or physically.

[tonysaelock]

My #1 fear of approaching modern women are false allegations of sexual abuse, sued, rejections, post date withrawn of consent, destroying my reputation, possible destroying my career, hot/cold attitudes (reject men with ease but can't handle rejections), fatal attractions, get offended easily, can dish jokes but can't take it, public humiliation, or crucifying me in public opinions. Modern women are strong and independent and do not need men so why would they expect men to help?

[CRD-hivk]

The reason “it’s not worth it” describes my situation 100%. There is literally zero benefit for me as a man to pursue a woman, date, or marry. I will bleed money constantly on dates, gasoline to drive her around, jewelry, etc etc in exchange for drama, ghosting/divorce and more. Honestly I have thought about just adopting a child so I don’t have to deal with the drama and don’t have to worry about losing the kid in family court. I want kids but don’t want the risk associated with the mom.

[oldtrkdrvr]

You missed a big one, sexual harrassment charges and lawsuits. In my younger days it stopped me a lot. Especially in the workplace.

[dontforget]

Ironically, what stopped me approaching women was actually approaching (alot) of women. In the last two years, I've been on a bit of a life betterment quest. Dropped from 210 to 160. Running every other day. Hitting the gym. Fixed my facial hair and fashion. Got a nice car. And of course, worked on my approach with women. In 2 years, I've had something like 100 approaches. But zero success. A couple of them went pretty far, only for the women to flake (one of them after literally coming to my place to hook up and others in various ridiculous ways). But that's besides the point. What you wouldn't believe is the absolute disrespect I had to endure during this process; in one case, I was actually banned from a coffee shop for giving a girl I had been talking to for 4 months and who worked there, who was actively inviting me to stay over after work and talk for hours, some get well flowers after she tore her ACL playing soccer. Wild stuff man. The takeaway from all this for me is clear. It doesn't matter how much I improve myself, it'll just never be "enough." Society is broken and women are terrible.

[afcansf]

I like to add that the "the fear of being called a creep" on social media isnt the only possible negative consequences. if your in public and your being called out to be a creep, there is a serious chance you will get into a confrontation with another male(s) or employees of an establishment who think you are harassing her. Even before Third Wave feminism became dominant it was already hard, but they really changed it into a mission impossible.