3 'Nice Guy' Mistakes That Chase Girls Away

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Why do "nice guys" lose the girl? Usually because they make one of these three "nice guy" mistakes that scare a girl away.

Avoid making these mistakes because they make a man come off clingy, needy, and desperate.

[justaaccount]

Ok is it just me or who else clicked on this just to see how dumb it was?

[Christian-rnur]

No1 nice guy mistake: Listening to this guy

[boobsthechemist]

Best advice is just don’t chase girls at all. Last time I did I ran out of breath & stopped running. She got away 😢😩

[jaxfobbester]

Said "nice guys" lose the person they are pursuing because they do things that are typically labeled as nice to get some sort of gratification in return. If you are yourself around the person you want to be with or pursue then there is a higher chance of being with them. Do not listen to this bullcrap. People are not objects or things you need to chase. Thank you

[plasmaps]

pov: you clicked on this ad just to see the comments flaming this guy

[jakeowen]

I did all three of these “mistakes”, and now I am happily married to her

[aroad]

How to get a girl or woman from a womans perspective:

1. Be honest about everything
2. Love and care for them
3. Be respectful and listen to what that individual person wants or doesn't want in a relationship
4. Pay zero attention to idiots like this
5. Don't think of them as "a girl" or "a woman" they are who they are. No two people are exactly alike.

[jax]

1. Have hobbies
2. Try to increase your confidence
3. Shoot your shots
4. Be kind!

[texasgent]

Honestly one of the main things I've learned throughout the Years is that if something is going to happen between you and a Woman you're interested in just let it happen on it's own, DON'T try to force it, one of the BIGGEST turn-offs for a Woman is feeling like She's being pressured

[ican]

As a REAL girl.. if a guy keeps pushing and pulling or acting hot and cold once she gets into the relationship she will lose interest.. because that was what made him interesting

[flocrow]

Have any of these men actually talked to a women before?

[leeboriack]

So let me get this right, don't be honest about your feelings in the beginning, control your expression of interest level. Trick them into chasing you. That sounds like a very healthy way to start a relationship.

[Ukhaky]

My favourite chat up line is “get in the van, I’ve got a knife “. Works every time.

[maskedproductions]

Girl here, and hot take, but I can kinda see how his advice would work 😗so, I originally clicked this video because I recently met this guy, who I felt had a crush on me, but he came off way too strong and too fast, and at the same time it didn’t feel like he was being completely genuine, like he was trying to say what I wanted to hear. So I felt a little creeped out and subsequently not attracted to him anymore. But I think his main problem wasn’t *just* that he “chased” me too aggressively per se, it’s more so the reasoning behind this chasing. I think there’s a difference between chasing someone because you’re desperate and would do anything to be in a relationship, and talking to someone with less pressure, feeling ok with whatever ends up happening between you. So I think that, by following his advice, it makes it so that, even if you *are* desperate to be in a relationship with the person, you don’t come off that way. It gives the illusion of being someone that is confident and assured enough to handle a rejection or a relationship, having no pressure either way.

So tbh I think better advice would be to just be yourself and do whatever you want to do, but to change your mindset so that you’re not desperate to be in a relationship with this person. Because being obsessed and clingy with someone that you just met is kinda creepy.. unless ur into that I guess lmao

[tpbunghole]

No 1 mistake- thinking all women are some kind of rare pokemon with several steps to catch it

[priMa.Customs]

Nope, should actually be:

Mistake Number 1. Watching this video

[ilovegodandjesusjohn]

Galatians 6:7
Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

[michaelmcdonald]

This guy : “Don’t come on too strong, no one is attracted to that.”

A lot of commenters here : “Nah brah, don’t ever be willing to change, just be you and hope for the best.”

[DoctorOctobussy]

No1 mistake: treating all women like they’re exactly the same

[raveaw]

"Chasing a Girl = Losing Her"
Maybe you just weren't fast enough.