How to Stop Being the 'Nice Guy' - 11 HUGE Mistakes Nice Guys Make

Gentlemen, today we are showing you the top 11 mistakes that “nice guys” make when trying to get with a girl

And because we don’t want you to wind up in the nice guy trap

we’re also showing you the 1 thing that will keep you from ever being the “nice guy” in the first place.

So...to make sure you don’t get painted as the nice guy, here are the top 11 nice guy mistakes + the number 1 thing you can do to avoid if from happening to you.

0:30 They’re nothing but “Yes” Men
1:03 They fail to flirt
1:28 They don’t set boundaries
1:55 They don’t tell girls when they like them
2:24 They Feel Entitled
2:45 They Throw Shade
3:34 They Mistake Niceness for Goodness
3:58 They Trust in the Friend Zone
4:20 They Practice Transactional Niceness
4:45 They misunderstand How to Respect Women
5:10 They’re Not Playful

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Episode #29

[hortn]

Advise: *Never EVER* take advise from women about women.

[DoctorKhullar]

Srsly .... never ask a fish to know how to catch a fish .... ask the fisherman

[iDateAdviceiDateAdvice]

Women come up to nice guys when they've hit the wall.

[joepearson]

Never take advice from a fish on how to be a fisherman.... which is exactly what this video is!

[drewfast]

Okay, guys, there's nothing wrong with being nice. There's a time when you should be assertive and aggressive, but trying to win over a girl shouldn't be that time. There's nothing wrong with you, guys. It's the girls! You should be yourself under all circumstances, but, especially, don't change to win over some narcissistic female. These women share one meaningless, surface encounter with you and, from that, assume they know what life would be like with you. It's completely irrational and unrealistic. You try and change yourself to impress these losers and you're playing a game you can't win. If she likes assholes, LET HER HAVE HIM. Think for a sec-how many women do you know of who have settled down with a "bad boy" and lived happily ever after? None? Exactly! Because those relationships are doomed from the start. They're fueled by cheap thrills and misguided, childish notions. Don't change for these women. There's nothing wrong with you. Never was.

[clv]

For number 8, never tell women you like them unless it is obvious they like you. Women interpret "I like you" as "you are no longer a challenge". Don't ever tell a girl you like her until you're dating, and she is putting in effort to "capturing" you. I know it sounds silly, but in my experience the best way to turn off a beautiful woman is to tell her that you like her. It might work for women who have low self-confidence, but beautiful women are told they are beautiful and liked all the time. Telling a girl you like her doesn't do shit for you, whether you are a nice guy or not. -From a "not nice" guy.

[mbuuuu]

was going to subscribe . but tht would make me a nice guy

[miguelsantos]

From now on I will only care about one person, me, I'm sick and tired being the nice guy to people who doesn't deserve my attention, like someone advised me this week, travel more and doing something I really like.

[CheGuevara]

After watching this video, I've reached the following conclusion: be nice, but have a strong and determined character at the same time. In fact, this video teaches us to avoid being a doormat, which is often confused with being nice.

[ImportanJoe]

I'm really enjoying how these generic "how to live your life" channels are being totally destroyed in the comments. Which means people never gonna fit these black and white situations.

[rdwilliams]

Being a nice guy is not a is the character of an innocent there is any flaw it's with admit you like bad does that say about your have no morals and expect a man to lower his to your have a double are allowed to be innocent but men are guys don't have to play your games and play by your not try playing by his rules and see what might like you don't back you your bad boys and live in the You want to be treated nice but you don't want a nice stupid is that.

[onlyfromadistance]

This is 2018. If you tell a girl you like her and she doesnt like you, it is NOW sexual harassment. Why take the chance??? Its not even PC to tell her she looks nice or pretty...

[thelouisjohnson]

- They’re nothing but the “yes” man.
- They fail to flirt.
- They don’t set boundaries.
- They don’t tell girls when they like them.
- They feel entitled.
- They throw shade.
- They mistake niceness for goodness.
- They trust in the friend zone.
- They practice transactionary niceness.
- They misunderstand how to respect women (Whamen).
- They’re not playful.

Answer - Always speak the truth.

[christoskettenis]

Integrity is the key gentlemen (and ladies also!). Behaving nicely while not being nice in real life, is just hypocritical and sooner or later, the lady you are interested in will find out and just hate you. The point I agree the most because that's who I am is being open and honest about your intentions. In summary, honesty and integrity are the way forward!

[adamrobinette]

If you meet a woman that requires you to essentially follow this list to get them to date you, find another woman.

Honestly the best way to find a good woman is to not try so damn hard. I think women are attracted to effortless, friendly, I can take you or leave you, confidence in someone they are meeting for the first time.

[thatonebrokeguy]

Tell the girl that she look cute... and the girl automatically think I'm a creep LOL

[gearoidmason]

Thats why so many women end up in violent relationships. A nice guy never beats a woman or disrespect's her. And what makes girls /women so perfect in the first place.

[unknownfromkashmir]

Too much Hardwork. I'll just pass.

[nathandunlap]

One big mistake a bad or good girls make....missing out on a good guy ....

[nigelhart]

More like a lot of hard work for a lot of heartache. Leave them be and enjoy doing what you do. They will only screw you over in the end.