My Partner Lies: Dealing With Lies In A Relationship

My Partner Lies: Dealing With Lies In A Relationship

As a relationship expert I deal with all sorts of situations and this week I coached a few people who are dealing with a partner who lied to them multiple times.

When someone reach out saying my partner lies a lot, I always try to understand the deeper reasons behind the lies... and over time I’ve developed a real radar for this type of behaviors and I now know that dealing with lies in a relationship doesn’t have to be that complicated.

I hope that this video will help, as always, feel free to leave your thoughts and comments in the comment section below.

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Leaving isn't the pain, the pain when someone you care for and who you think would have some or a little respect or care for you doesn't show any to you through their lies.

[itsinriotsjhinetics]

My partner lied about physically and emotionally hurting me right in front of my face and then telling everyone around us how crazy and delusional I was. He flirted with multiple women right in front of me and made it out to be like I was jealous even when his friends were the ones calling it out at first. While I was being punished with silence, he would literally take those moments and create emotional connections with strangers which to me I classed as cheating because he was telling some stranger across the world all about his problems instead of solving them with the person who was actually there for him. I feel so betrayed and like how can any human treat someone with such so much disrespect after all the good things you do for them and all the sacrifices that were made in order to try keep that person happy. What really gets me is why these people end up being happy and yet people like me end up miserable.

[alfredsnyder]

Today I Found Out My Fiance Blatenly Lied To Me, 90% Of It. It Really Crushed My Heart.

[eleksecurityprofessionalas]

My wife lies has cost us financial hardships and she don't have a backbone to admit truth....she continues to lie in my face rather than tell the truth..it's making me sick spiritually....

[pixiedust]

Divorce...its a wonderful thing.
Take it from someone who lived with a procrastinating liar for 20 years....THEY DON'T SEE HOW MUCH THEY HURT YOU...NOR DO THEY CARE. If I had a dollar for every unkept promise, I'd be a billionaire.

[mimimedlife]

Not being truthful sucks for those who are facing it. I have personally a hard time because whenever I am embarrassed I shut down emotionally and I cannot speak the truth or when I want others to see strength or character in me that is not there...I think praying and really let it out when you are ready to say is important. I learned that if confronted and I am embarrassed to speak the truth instead of tell a lie, the best would be "I am not ready for this conversation yet, but I will let you know of what is necessary right now."

[JonWayneTV]

Shes lies to me and does stuff behind my back all the time I think my relationship is screwed for sure I just cant take it any more

[patriciakirk]

I was with a man for 22years.you never know who your with, and after the split I found out it was much worse than I knew.I see people around me hooked up 1 day saying I love you 3 days later, I can't wrap my head around it, they're strangers .It takes years to know someone well enough to begin to even know them a little.

[LisaMichelle]

30 plus years, alcoholic, uninvolved in family unless convenient for him. Four kids together now adults, I know at least of 4-5 years of another relationship as I saw inappropriate pictures on his phone. I have not the courage to come fourth. I feel sad, embarrassed, not of value. I grew up learning those feelings from abuse in my family. I lost any chance of viewing myself worthy to receive love. I feel tricked, he knew this and I was 100%devoted to him in my heart. I started having health problems in my 30’s which continued to worsen due to stress of worrying about him, late late working, I knew then something isn’t right, I ignored. I am making his choices to be my fault because I have health problems ( chronic Lyme disease) i don’t confront because I don’t want my kids to think of what he did to their mother, it would hurt them but I feel devastated to hurt them. I feel like I’m slowly drowning, because his choices to deceive me continue every night, and then comes home late and in morn talks to me with a cheery attitude like all is well. Psychologically, I am tortured… holding onto all this. When he shows up at family things, he is received with such joy, and I secretly feel so broken because of what he has done with no consequences.

[jenni.getstrongxo]

But cheating is a conscious CHOICE. I am failing to understand how being physically intimate with someone outside of your relationship can be considered anything but NOT an act of love and consciously doing so. I just can't agree with that. You can't love someone and still cheat on them. Must not be enough or unselfish love. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[eulachuaylagan]

What if we've been together for almost 5years. But there is a very little progress? He still lie. I'm getting tired 😢 Should I consider moving forward and look for someone trustworthy? 😔

[JoeyXSmith]

These are just excuses. If they lie all the time then you have to leave. They don't love you. It's lack of respect for you.

[RobinTaylorMusic]

Been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We were friends first for 8 months. I didn’t know until I let him move in with me that he was a serious drug addict. Shooting up fentanyl. I drove him to the methadone clinic everyday for almost 6 months and then he relapsed. I have no experience with this as I don’t do drugs and barely drink. I don’t smoke cigarettes. During the 6 months it was great. We work out together, we make music together, we both support each other with our goals. But when he does drugs he’s a completely different person. It’s now been a year since his relapse and he’s facing 5 years and will be on probation for a year because I called 911 from an overdose and he is now facing charges from that. Honestly the probation will help him get clean. But I don’t know if this is salvageable. I have a lot of contempt and resentment towards him from what he put me through while he was addicted. I have PTSD from it. I don’t know if it could work even if we wanted it to because of the emotional damage.

[Ricarica]

He's a liar. Makes promises and breaks it secretly. He thought I wouldn't know.

[nimrahfatima]

I want someone to advice me on my situation my bf lies to me all the time, it's like he tells me something then he says 'oh I was joking' then he said 'no I was not'. For example: he has an exam tomorrow he told me a couple of weeks back that he is not taking it and has not even filled the form . Today, I tried texting and calling him, he didn't respond to any, after a few hours he told he has been studying since morning as he has his exam tomorrow I asked him that he told me he won't be taking it he said he never told me that I showed him the texts he said okay I didn't remember and just tried escaping the conversation
Things like these keep happening all the time for every mere thing he has to lie and then just don't want to talk on it when he is caught. Now, it has grown so much in my 3years of relationship that whatever he tells me I can not believe itYou might see someone smiling all the time, and think their life must be perfect.. But you don't know what they're going through with in themselves. That smile is a symbol of hope and strength.

[bunnygjanekarenbani]

This what I'm dealing now.. he lies alot and breaks my heart over and over. I tried breaking free but he won't let me go

[architachatterjee]

I was in relationship with a person with whom I just felt the click as he also confirm. But things change when I saw him lying about my existence and our relationship with my junior. He always expected me to understand him only and there was no way he would understand me. And another thing was that before such event, while starting our relationship, I asked him about his past relationships, if any. He replied, "how does that matter?" And " I was althrough single". Later it was found from the social media that he was talking rubbish he was actually married to a girl. After some investigations, it was found that he was in relationship with the girl for 3 years and then married her but they had problems with the relationship due to ego and thus was divorced. But his explanation was different, to him, he saves that girl. He was not even in relationship with her for 3 years. The girl faced a break in relationship with whom she was for 3 years. She was broken and proposed him getting drunk but he couldn't deny her proposal because she was elder to him and her father was a respectable person. Furthermore after the wedding, he came in contact with her ego issues, no one in her family accepted him and she had some ovarian tumor issue for which she lost both her ovaries. As a result, both of them departed happily. Now the most important thing is is he wants me in his life, he wants to marry me and only me. When caught with pictures of his marriage, he had a very casual attitude and was not even apologetic. I tried to make him understand that the situation now went out of my hand as it i.e. the enquiry was done by my sister and her fiance and they directly contact with my parents telling this man is a liar and we don't want our sister to get married with him. I loved this person and trusted him. He broke it and he is not even apologetic. He was afraid of telling me as to how will I react. I just told him I can't stay with a person whom is not even understanding his fault but telling me that he loves me after all this and wants to marry me. He wants me to fight for him but he will not be there by my side as he thinks he is a stranger. I said a hundred times, this relationship is not possible not because of my family's involvement but because of he himself and broke off with him very rudely. He told me I am a parasite, spineless creeper who loves to stay in her parents den and all those meaningless "I love you" doesn't suit me. I am not strong so and so. After all this condition, now my situation is I want to get rid of the memories too which are haunting me. I just can't believe I will be betrayed like this. I know the relationship was of only 3months but I don't know I went too far trusting him.. our family planning, financial planning, future planning and were even talking about making joint travel account for our pleasurable tours as we both decided to marry. Now my dilemma lies so what was all this throughout whether he was acting, or he was lying...? I have started going to counseling sessions for my mental condition. This was my first relationship and didn't expect it will come out like this.

[Auntietaevia]

So my boyfriend and I have been together for seven months when we first met, everything was good. But he lied to me about his age and name. It’s really bothering me because I just do not trust him. Like age and name is serious. I feel so crazy even typing this but something guided me here . It low key hurts because I have been completely honest since day one. And I just feel if you lie about your age and name lord knows what else you’ll lie about. And it’s frustrating because I care and love him. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[somyatyagi]

My husband is a habitual liar. I always speak the truth and believe in complete transparency.

I caught him car pooling with a female coworker since three months and he didn't tell me about it.

We have two little daughters. I feel devastated now.

[zymontumamak]

I always caught him lying to me. Once I caught him cheated on me, this is so painful. But I love him so much, why should I do. 😭😭😭😭