How To Handle Verbal Abuse From Husband

Everybody in this world deserves respect and nobody deserves abuse of any kind. If you're someone who experiences verbal abuse from your spouse, specifically from your husband, here's something to help you deal. Sharing with you 3 steps on how to handle verbal abuse from your husband.

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Dr. Paul Jenkins

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[beccayoung]

I can't stand being yelled at anymore. It's making me feel physically ill.

[donnagagne]

Unfortunately you can not train them. After 19 yrs. and 5 children, I finally got the courage to leave! Thank God for His protection and provision.

[xy]

I was crying 30 seconds in. "Nobody deserves abuse." I needed to hear that.

[lachikalatina]

I’m a psych nurse. It’s easier Jesus come back to earth than an abuser to change and it’s a fact

[MedusaOblongata]

I've been doing these tactics for 8 years trying to get my husband to stop. Narcissists don't care if they hurt you. They care about the reaction they get from it. Starve the narcissist. Dont react at all.

[Sharper]

My husband follows up his verbal abuse with "I'm just joking"

[rubymorris]

My husband has verbally abused me for 37 years. It will never stop. I hate him.

[marciec]

I did speak up. I dont think you can "train" your spouse to stop abusing you. Not possible. No strategies when it comes to abuse

[koolbuzz]

Victim: "I feel disrespected."
Abuser: "I can careless about your feeling."

[mag]

Found my husband had created a dating profile on a app. And had reached out to other women.

I found out. I Told him. "You being on a dating site made me feel unsafe and unhappy."

He told me. "Your happiness is not my responsibility"

That was when I realized what I was dealing with

[hollywood]

Most people that come from a dysfunctional family dont know how to dwell in a lovable family

[shelchicago]

Good advice but it does not apply to Cluster B disordered people. If they know what hurts you, they’ll do more to hurt you. They’re sadistic and letting them know about your vulnerability only teaches them how to hurt you more next time

[DesGardius-megf]

“It takes one thousand ‘Adda-boys’ to erase one ‘You’re no damn good!’”

—Dr. Phil

[scovyaporsha]

You don't try to reason with an abuser. You show them that you will not tolerate by LEAVING.. Go no contact

[stevestegman]

We are all products of our enviroment, regardless of our behavior to someone.If you truely care or love someone you shouldnt treat them in a bad or disrespectful way.

[georgianasalter]

I can't believe he said that the victim is expected to train the abuser.

[lalatarantula]

I’ve been horribly verbally/emotionally abused for years. I just got out 3 weeks ago. After yet another raging verbal assault on me that ended up with him shoving and threatening to punch me, he threw me out of the home he had bullied me over for years. I just want to say that I disagree with the statement that your partner just “doesn’t know how to treat you”. He treats no one else like he treats me. He just doesn’t do this to anyone but me. Everyone believes he’s a great guy. In fact, what I believe is happening over and over is that he is too cowardly to stand up to any family member, friend, or co-worker who makes him angry and he would come home and project all his negative emotions onto me. I was the scapegoat and the whipping post. He refuses to take any responsibility and blames me. Always. He says my children hate me, my family hates, his family hates me. He tells me I have no friends, says I’m
A liar, nothing I do or say is right or true, says I am worthless, add nothing, contribute nothing and calls me the filthiest names you could imagine. He always bullies me with the house, the dog, you name it. Anything I care about, anything I say is weaponized against me. It could go on for hours. If I’m silent it’s bad. If I defend myself it’s worse. The thing is that everything he says about me is actually what he’s doing to me. He has used me. He has put me down. He has abused me. It’s all lies and manipulations. I’m exhausted and so beaten down. I’ve been afraid. I’m not living like this anymore. It’s not my responsibility to train him. We are both from traumatic childhoods but thank God I developed some compassion and learned not to pay forward the cruelty, neglect, and abuse that I have endured to others. But his story is I always that I have it coming. He is the judge and jury. Then he spends the initial time after his verbal/emotional assault telling me I need help and then asking me to come back without any real apology or willingness to get help or to change. I get that it’s my fault for allowing this for years. I was trained to live like this from an infant. But I’m out. And out I will stay.

[catherinemalloy]

That doesn’t work on my verbally abusive husband, he goes out of his way to attack me every chance he gets.

[rvageorgia]

Oh my god, this guy is delusional.Totally freaking delusional.Women, you need to get away.

[mercury]

I followed the instruction in this video. I said to my spouse, "I don't like what you said. I feel it's disrespectful. Don't say that again." And he started to accuse me a lot as usual, but I just said "OK." and left him. He stopped accusing me with confusion, I noticed he felt a little fear how I reacted with only 1 word "OK".

Thank you.