Core Beliefs: Understanding and Healing Your Wounded Inner Child

[pattyhill]

Thank you. I cry whenever I watch your videos.

[DeepBlue]

I just came across your videos today. I have started to work on reparenting my inner child just recently after decades of not understanding where all my anxiety was coming from. Thank you for these videos. I look forward to watching more!

[sunshine-smnf]

I am worthwhile, others will meet my needs. This feels so good to know. When you grew up with neglectful narcissist parents you dont even know you can have needs. I am now reaching out to people that are healthy and getting my needs met. I was afraid to do this at one time and so it feels wonderful, hard to take risk but worth it.

[justmyopinion]

Extremely educational and personally helpful in a massively clarifying way. Thank you very much for your lesson, it was so enlightening and empowering. ❤

[OGOTFRANCIS]

Thankyou for sharing this video, God bless you so much .

[Mike-dbox]

Thank you Counselor Carl😊❣️❣️God Bless!!

[mindlessthenie]

Very insightful. I am currently receiving psychotherapy for borderline personality disorder and cptsd. I am learning all about what you described in this video. CBT has been helping to "reparent" my wounded inner child and even in the last 6 months I have come a long way in the terms of self-discovery. Your videos have been quite helpful so thank you for this.

[djstatyk]

I don't have the money for therapy. So I come here to videos like this so I can have tools under my belt. I'm super insecure about a lot of things when it comes to love. I have an opportunity to be with an amazing woman, but it is evidently clear that I have too many past traumas to pursue an actual relationship. I'm lucky enough that she understands and wants us to have a healthy connection before we move forward and is willing to wait. I don't want to hold her back and I certainly do not want to waste your time. She said there is no rush. She's 10 years older than I am, so she surely has an understanding that I am grateful for. No lady my age can understand that

[jaehoodrich]

I am currently in therapy for PTSD and major depression my therapist just told me about the inner child and reparenting your inner child she sent me this video after watching it I Now understand how the cycle can continue from oneself to one's child or children I don't want to consistently live through my children I would like to live my life on my terms

[furg]

I've heard a lot about the inner child, and tbh your intro disparaging the other speaker's assertion that there is no inner child now intrigues me more than yet another analysis of my inner child 🤣

I'm sure that these two seemingly-opposite views are actually both necessary stages to healing.
step1: figure out the inner child
step2: integrate it
step3: transcend it

[karenduey]

This one hits the nail on the head! This is me.

[lisatilley]

Excellent video! Thank you! With your story of Bobby you just described my husband to a T! He’s not willing to go to therapy but I gave him the ultimatum. Two months later The separation still hurts somewhat but I started my inner child work years ago so I’m not prepared to stay with him unless he’s going to work on his issues.

[daughteroflight]

Excellent video.
Thanks Counselor Carl.💙💫✨

[camarosunrise]

Thank you, Carl, for your kind help to me. God bless.

[lucylight]

So helpful. Such clarity. Thank you :)

[studenttime]

Thankyou this is VERY helpful. I've been caretaking an elderly and VERY abusive mother. There is no gratification, as I have no worth to her (which she has to constant reminders thru nasty jabs and constant criticisms)and my life has no value ONLY hers has value. We're in a pandemic and it's a problem and she sneezes and coughs everywhere and has no concern for infecting altho if I leave her without my help she will not be able to care for herself, be fed, keep the place clean nor make sure she doesnt fall. My siblings who have POA spend no time w her. Actually despise her for the abuse and offer no help at all. If I leave I am afraid shell hurt herself w another fall.

[God_Leads_My_Way]

I’m trying to find myself and do inner work but I can’t seem to grasp what I need to heal I came from a family of 9 siblings I’m number 8 in the line up we grew up raised in the church both parents in the home my father was a factory worker made great money and my mom was a home maker they both did their best to raise my siblings and myself but I struggle with anger, low self esteem people pleasing, rejection and just overall unhappiness and I don’t know why I feel this way I’m 40 I have 4 sons and the two oldest are doing very well in life and I’m so proud of them both I suffered from depression at one point and I’m trying to get myself back spiritually grounded which I don’t believe I ever really was just went with what others said spiritually should be or look like if there is inner child healing I need I just want to do the work and have a happy relationship and life

[mr.anindyabanerjee]

Amalgamation of CB and Dynamic therapies. Brilliant day for me 😊👍

[melissad.]

are there resources for how our inner child and core beleifs make us vulnerable to relationship violence domestic abuse? I have left 20 years of domestic abuse but am still sent into fight/flight/freeze fear and shame when I even hear his name or see and email from him. the fear and shame a d powerlessness has been with me since childhood but he and others have been "hammering" on it since then. I feel if I can heal and make that child feel safe and worthy and capable the abusers "target" will be removed.

[skankhunt]

So i understand that fear shame hoplessness are the deeprooted problems but how is it possible to win against those programs that are ingrained for many many years? I mean there is a conscious mind that understand this and is mindful of that but there is a subconscious mind that is far more powerful and does everything to protect his false negative beliefs