A narcissist doesnt care about your feelings. When expressing your feelings turn into an argument

A narcissist doesn't care about your feelings. When expressing your feelings turn into an argument

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

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Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you so much and lets HEAL together

[wdposdk]

It’s funny how we want to talk about our feelings to the narcissist, but we end up apologizing instead.

[thesoulsofourancestors]

Lee I don’t think you know how much your videos help those of us who have suffered at the hands of a narcissist. All I can say is thank you.

[JenVisualsASMR]

Omg when I express my feelings he always said “I ruined it” I killed the vibes and mood. “Let’s start again tomorrow “

[rubiwade]

Phew!! This was how we argued. I never felt safe to talk about my feelings because they always ended in arguments. He’d get so annoyed for me even bringing it up. If it didn’t make sense to him, he’d disregard it so fast, He would intentionally set out to hurt my feelings during arguments. He’d straight up say “I don’t care about your feelings”. This is how our last argument went then he dumped me because I’m a “parasite that’s never full” and “don’t know how to be happy in a relationship”. When all I was trying to do was get him to understand how much he has hurt my feelings. Once the heat died down, he expected to just move on without addressing the issue. So I’d be left with lingering feelings of hurt but never bring it up especially when we were in a “good place”. But I’m his mind buying me things and spending time was enough to move past it.

[elebea]

The truth is that our feelings is no one else’s responsibility. That is for everyone. The difference here is the lack of empathy they show.

[Modestnomad]

I have yet to be able to calmly share my feelings without being yelled at, fought with, told “you’re criticizing me”. Simply for sharing why I’m upset. Full on rage.

[ko]

That skit was so sad; that’s exactly how the conversation goes and it hurts so much 😔😔😔 every single damn time

[demigaines]

Thank You For Sharing..
When TRYING TO COMMUNICATE
WITH THE NARCISSISTS IS BRUTAL..
I CAN’T EXPRESS MY FEELINGS HE WILL START
HORRIBLY BERATING ME CRUELY.
IT IS A WASTE OF TIME TRYING TO REASON TALK...GET AN UNDERSTANDING
WITH A NARCISSISTS LIKE BEATING A DEAD
HORSE ....THEY DON’T CARE.

[darkflower]

Good question! If they treat you like crap, if you feel like a worse person interacting with them, it doesn’t matter if they are or are not a narcissist. What matters is the behavior, the actions. Feel free to let it go. I almost decided to stay after he was nice for like two days. But I reread the list and it reminded me of all the s**t he had done. Leave. Prepare to leave. Let it go!

[kimmiekeene]

They just get worse I just left mine after 20 yrs being married . And it's been over a month no contact ...if ya take them back your giving them permission to do it again.

[MsFoxu]

They really don't care about your feelings no matter how much you try to explain it to them. I had to just harden my heart towards mine and show him I didn't care anymore. If he'd ask me if I cared, I'd say, No. If he'd say something about what he was/wasn't going to do, I'll say, Whatever! I just had to show him that I no longer cared about him or the relationship. I realized he wasn't going to ever change and was going to continue doing the things he was doing and continue disrespecting me. I just got to the point of where I was just tired of being tired.

[amandaaa]

thank you for saving me through what I’ve been going through with a narcissist. I didnt know much about narcissism until watched you. you validated everything I’ve been going through. It’s made me stronger in the end, thank you so much for everything. 💗

[daniellemorse]

What a great skit, Lee. I so don't miss those one-way conversations that completely stressed me out because they never went anywhere. I should have just beaten my head against the wall because that is how it felt talking to my ex-narc. Horrible communicators. They'll just shut down every time when you need to talk.

[LM-htsd]

"Love them til the end of you" whooo...that hit home!!! Nope nope nope... No More✌️

[winnieamar]

I can attest to the fact that that is just the way it goes, every darn time. It's beyond frustrating. Eventually I stopped expressing my feelings, stopped sharing my opinions and whatever was happening in my life also. It's so painful. Lonely as hell.

[neydigarcia]

It’s really a breath of fresh air for somebody that understands they are a narcissist and recognizes the stuff they do to post these videos and help us victims realize we are not crazy . Thank you sir! You are really a big help, I honestly am very grateful for your videos!

[Violexie-wbop]

👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 BUT HOW ARE THEY TREATING YOU? 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 Lee that was a word.

[penelopemayblm]

Omg!!! This is my baby's dad 100%. Scary how much some of your content rings true. Thank you for helping make us more aware and teaching us self respect. You're amazing for using your personal experiences and knowledge to help the rest of us. I have so much respect for you for working on yourself to better your life and your family's life. ❤

[kalifornia]

Holy shit. This was like a script out of my relationship. Wow…. Wow…. Had to LOL at “Love ‘em till the end of you.” Sad but true for some.

[aidanoliver]

This is totally my life and watching this video has really given me hope that I’m not alone. The skit felt like something I have lived through so many times.

I am always giving space for my partner to feel a certain way and express her stresses / issues and I am not able to express my own or the things pressuring me in my life on a minor level without being severely attacked on merely mentioning an issue and struggling to move past it.

I cannot express how I feel to my partner without her trying to fight and insult my character. Even being super calm and patient doesn’t help because I just keep being attacked on a random part of my character that I have worked on and demonstrated consistently and isn’t relevant to the conversation. It’s like when I directly say “I’d like to talk about how that made me feel with what you said - not trying to change your mind about your path or what your doing but I’d like to share how I feel?” The response just turns into “Am I with a first grader, why do I need to listen to you repeat yourself”.
“I need to understand it because I am confused about what you said can we please talk about it”.
“…”

Also, I have had hands put on me…