How to be assertive #assertiveness #selfhelp #personaldevelopment #karen #pushover #growthmindset

[stay_gold]

sometimes i wonder what my life would be like, if i’d learned this skill

[ranc]

All three would not work if there is toxic person on the other side.
The only difference is perhaps the third example might feel good about herself - perhaps, for a while.

Currently in Croatia we have great example of this waiting for a doctor issue.
Croatia is heavily corrupted country - so one independent journalist died because doctors - including hospital personnel and 112 medial urgency doctors, were too busy and brushed him off - they literally told him to urinate in pot.
In toxic ambient - if you do not comply to toxic rules: being corrupt, have political party connections, bribe and call someone in charge - you can be assertive as much as you want, nothing will make you priority.

[bsylvy]

Don’t be aggressive. But also don’t be passive. Be assertive

[wowkekejmejjdneejenenhdht]

This is a great example of assertiveness or lack of it! It's like a balance of empathy and confidence, ensuring both parties' needs & feelings are recognised and appreciated.

[loveislifeagain]

So smiling and being nice to them Is the get our needs

[AhmedAli-nqov]

I like your example of assertive strikes the right balance of getting your point across without being rude or emotional. It would be my first move when highlighting an issue.

[The.Journey.to.Freedom]

Woohoo! Love it. That first one is my mom for sure 😂 I'm trying to get away from being passive personally

[queensheem]

Thank you, you are very beautiful and I need to start standing up for myself. I usually just stay to myself but I’ve been in similar situations where I’m gonna start speaking up

[LarryP]

This content is a true masterpiece. A book I recently finished on the topic was a catalyst for change. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn

[SpecialKRNB]

I'm the passive one.😢 Lol.😂 You know me too well. Currently working on assertive communication.

[wendycat]

I love this video. Although as someone who has said the 3 scenario they were just trying to have me come back another day because they’re such slow workers. They didn’t even do their job right after they drew my blood. I had to re do it at a different time.

[maritzachacon]

Thank for this videos, ❤ your advices have changed my life for the better.

[libbyyy]

I feel like I need to practise this as an adult even though I am teaching this to my students.

[lisazavala]

I appreciate your words of wisdom & stellar video content. I will say I sometimes get disappointed that we have to even say these things. I guess everyone can benefit from reinforcement.

[susandobyns]

That sux I was so last in the office that they forgot me in a room and almost left for the night 🤣🤣😢😅😂

[ilonam]

Those girls are also trained and the answer would be: Thank you for your patience, I understand your need to be on time to the next appointment and the doctor will see you as soon as possible!😅

[prachilohani]

Can you please add a captain on every video?your videos so wonderful and awesome 😊

[hulady]

I may start communicating only in writing then we have clarity.

[danfors]

"Just give me the green rubber glove, I'll do it myself!"

[abdulazizhawsah]

Sheeesh
I've been too passive my whole life, and didn't now it.