The problem with getting divorced - Jordan Peterson

The problem with getting divorced - Jordan Peterson
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- - About Jordan Peterson - -
Jordan B. Peterson (born 12 June 1962) is a Canadian professor of psychology, clinical psychologist, YouTube personality, and author. He began to receive widespread attention in the late 2010s for his views on cultural and political issues, often described as conservative.

Born and raised in Alberta, Peterson obtained bachelor's degrees in political science and psychology from the University of Alberta and a PhD in clinical psychology from McGill University. After teaching and research at Harvard University, he returned to Canada in 1998 to permanently join the faculty of psychology at the University of Toronto. In 1999, he published his first book, Maps of Meaning: The Architecture of Belief, which became the basis for many of his subsequent lectures. The book combined information from psychology, mythology, religion, literature, philosophy, and neuroscience to analyze systems of belief and meaning.

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[sheheryarkhan]

The importance of a well functioning family is so underrated nowadays

[hijodelaisla]

Some people are so terrified to be alone, they will enter a relationship at any cost. Later they find out how high that cost is.

[Yukajoseph]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

[anastasiamcgilvra]

My mom divorced my dad and left us with him all 6kids and we were poor. But I have Jesus and we are all fighters now.
The process of getting over everything was very rough and a lot of us suffered psychotic episodes and near suicides.

[gilesj]

The initial affects from divorce lasted 4 full years for me !! like terrible stress, emotion over load, getting used to handing the kids back then completely alone again, the monetary cost is crazy, the toll it takes on you is nothing you’ll think it will be ! Obviously things can always be difficult from now on but I’m just saying the really Terrible bit is over ! Everyone can have different experience sure but anyone thinking about it just try think a bit longer ! It’s pretty awful and will affect you for most probably the rest of your precious life !

[dwalk]

A man that hasn't gone through it. Spittin spot on facts all about it. That's how you know he's never full of shit.

[FATHERTiME-jozj]

I walked this, and still walking. This is true believe it!

[zachhorl]

Success in divorce comes thru constant effort from both to put kids above personal feelings.
After the dust settles get to birthdays together and dinners shared because it will not only change the lives of your kids but it will possibly save yours too.

[tjm]

Yeah I’m a woman and never understood the laws for bleeding men dry when you leave. I only had one daughter but I was happy to have her father help with school excursions and shoes and glasses and stuff she needed. But I didn’t need him to pay my rent and bills. I would’ve had to pay those things even if I didn’t have my kid so why then should he be on the hook for it.

[timothybelgard-wiley]

...he's so right, I payed child support for 19 and a half years, it was a struggle sometimes but it had a huge impact on my 2nd wife and 2 kids...we stayed friends and pooled our resources to by him big things, like a bike or a Walkman or Air Jordan's when he played basketball in junior high and high school, 160 bucks 30 years ago, but it was necessary, his step dad bought him a cheap knock off that hurt his feet, no arch support, then he was pissed because my ex putting 80 bucks towards a pair of shoes, me the other half of the price, my 2nd wife didn't like it either...😆 lol, but it is a hard job....

[annaburns]

My parents had a horrible divorce when I was in college. It was awful. It was a decade ago and still affects us to this day. Not as bad as in cases when children are young like my nieces and nephews but still. I do think that this is one of the reasons that my husband and I are afraid to have kids.

[marie-ray]

I'm glad my Patents Had a divorce. Everytime they der each Other they Go for the throat. Wouldn't Want to live with that.

[taliahblack]

I am extremely fortunate.
(I) seprated from my ex partner of almost 10 years, 5 years ago.
He and I had been together from 16 & 19. Up until our mid late 20s, sharing two boys. Though we were not married, everything we had was tied up together.

(Long story short)

5 years later I have twins with my now partner, we share a happy healthy home, and co exist, co parent with my ex without any animosities.

It took time, understanding and an acknowledgement of history.

A heart broken is a heart hurt, hell bent on hatred, and revenge.
Patients understanding and the will to put one In another's shoes, being able to understand the loss, no matter the cause, not matter the reason, ( I understand with some its last choice or nothing, in these cases i eat my words). In mine it was love loss and years of built up resentments.

It's hard, but I took the time to compartmentalise, and It has benefited our family greatly.

[cyndijohnson]

“Demolish your life” in terms of money money money

Money doesn’t buy happiness, and staying with someone who hates you is WORSE THAN HAVING NO MONEY

[jessehudgins]

Jokes on you Jordan! I was poor when I got married. Still poor though....

[MaxBeecher]

Had to file for bankruptcy after my ex-wife divorced me. Had nothing, sleeping on an air mattress at my moms and had to rebuild my life from the ground up again. He's not wrong.

[norahal]

When I was growing up, we use to hear about celebrities getting divorced and finding new partners and moving on very quickly. It normalised it for me, however as I grew older I found that the divorced people I knew were unhappier and often lonely. This is anecdotal so it might be different elsewhere but unless there’s infidelity I’m holding onto my family no matter what.

[ramit]

I separated and divorced in a peaceful way at an older age. My children were adults at the time. What kept the bond of peace with my adult children was the way I continued to respect and speak kindly of their mother. The way we divided our assets calmly and intelligently lent itself to the amicable process. Yes there was initial emotional pain but as my children saw the respectful way we separated and divorced won the day. I still think highly of my ex-wife because she’s the mother of my children. In all my married years I never yelled at nor spoke unkindly to her. She’s moved on remarried and content as I too have remarried. My family remains in tact and are the most important ppl in my life.

[IolcanPK]

Staying together as a couple with kids when your marriage is dysfunctional is an absolutely horrendous idea and should be thrown down the drainage

[carksnell]

Truth it happened to me, and I will tell you it is FRICKING horrible. For my kid her mom and me. :(