3 reasons why toxic people wont CHASE AFTER YOU

Some narcissists will let you go and not try to get back with you. Narcissistic people will not chase after you when you break up with them. Some of them will let you go for a few different reasons.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[detroitMC]

The irony is they hate the shame but everything they do is shameful.

[bduodwj]

1. They have other supply (supplies)
2. You figured them out. They don’t want to deal with the troubles.
3. They want you to chase them.

My opinions.

[tranquility]

We have *got* to leave demonic ppl alone. Self love is crucial.

[desertangelfish]

Avoidants don't chase, they immediately replace with the "friend" they were grooming in the shadows.

[darlenemoses]

I don't chase I attract, when I blocked and went no contact I always knew that he wanted me to chase him, The new supply can have that Old BS, I'm good 💯😊 thank you Lee ❤

[gangGreenthumb]

2:12 "narcissists HATE being rejected..." yet they reject their partners over and over and over breadcrumbing and rejecting and breadcrumbing...

[tranquility]

I want peace. They can chase themselves.

[Notbothered]

Its a blessing when they leave you n they never come back..

[ssfcyzq]

I would be crazy to chase him. No way. He underestimated me. He would just give me bread crumbs. Then he couldn't even face me. Cowards.

[Kazzas]

The silence from a narc is a blessing. Be at peace and feel the spirit of true love and positivity run through your soul.

[mermaid]

He keeps quiet, I keep quiet...
He ghosts, I ghost...
If he expects me to chase him, he will be waiting a time as that's not gonna happen!

[meekmeek]

Be grateful that they're not 'chasing' you because they won't change. They have a new supply and they need someone to feed into their games. Take your winnings and keep it moving.

[Wise]

Narcissist don’t want chase because they don’t want put any effort or energy, they scared of rejection. Narcissist don’t love you or care enough to chase you. They want you to chase you.

[starlingswallow]

My ex narc showed up at my parents with roses after I left while he was out of town. RED ROSES. Then he came by to talk to my parents and begged them for info on what he could do to get me back and then BLAMED me all in the same breath! WTF?!? But that was it. After that he didn't chase.
I'm so grateful. ❤

I'm now remarried to an amazing, healthy man who has been lovingly consistent for the past 6 years.
Not ONCE has he yelled at me, raged, lied, manipulated, scared me, road raged, or neglected me. ❤

Good people are out there! My husband is also a victim of narc abuse (his father) so we understand what we have both been through on a level others don't understand. Sometimes fellow survivors make the best spouses/partners! ❤❤❤

[annstar]

If they see you are willing to assert some boundaries, they may feel like it’s not worth the effort, esp. when they have other people who are happily drinking the Kool Aide.

[mistypena]

Reason number four… They think they’re better than you.

[dionburns]

Narcissist or not, if the relationship is over, why would anybody chase? It's over.

[sharongomes]

Chase me to get rejected because he knows I know! He's not that stupid!

[cm]

Be thankful if they don’t come back. Take your time and heal and never be near anyone else who’s toxic. Stay blessed yall

[NatzTalk]

Yeah fuck that. I never had so much drama and toxicity since my childhood; It doesn't come close to that but its toxic none the less. I love peace and I wanna be appreciated and loved for me, not yelled at, not berated, not verbally abused, not second guessing myself. THIS is what I remind myself when I think of breaking no contact. I'm good.💛💪🏾😍 Stay safe y'all. 💪🏾💛