Why 'Nice Girls' Get Ghosted!

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[vf]

"I will rather lose him than myself"... I had to learn this one the hard way, but hopefully never again

[Lachina]

You mean insecure people. By what you are describing. There are nice and not so nice insecure people in this world. A nice woman is not insecure. She knows what she wants. She just chooses to treat people with respect and genuinely care about others feelings. She is not afraid to accommodate sometimes or please another person. That to me is strength. You do it out of the goodness of your heart not because you have to do it. Being nice in this world is a choice. And if someone takes that for granted then the one who has the problem is the taker not the giver.

[moonriver]

I actually want a nice guy who cares about me and my feelings. I don't like selfish, unapologetic men.

[letmesing]

I’m a naturally sweet and loving person. It’s just who I am. The man for me will appreciate and value me for who I am.

[ihay]

I'm a nice girl who gets ghosted. I'm not being nice because I think their happiness is my responsibility, I'm nice because I'm nice. Obviously guys don't want that which I guess means some of us are not meant to be in a relationship.

[artsyhyd]

Guys who ghost good girls/women simply means those guys don’t deserve them and most likely he’s a dusty, player, fkbois and all those shiz and she’s not willing to put up with his bs.

[kqvdmtn]

Men LOVE to dump their responsibility off from their shoulders to the women's. If I don't love you - it's your fault, if I don't want you - it's your fault, and me is an angel.

[Realtalkwithlin]

I have always thought that if I gave so much love to him, and he would have realized that i truly love him. But all wrong, more attention i gave to him, more feelings i shared with him, and more i catering to his needs, less respect he gave to me.

[wilmatambuyat]

I would bend backwards just to make him happy and that made me feel depressed overtime. Left him for good, after having enough of his crap. Now he's begging to come back. Uhuh! No thanks! I am better without him. Thanks for the videos, Geert

[hayleycrawford]

I have always been the polite, sweet, and nice girl. It has rarely served me well in life, especially with men. I have always been passed over for another woman or taken advantage of by narcs and players.
I am tired of being nice all the time and losing.

[pastrybear]

I'm just gonna be myself and that's that, I'm tired to be honest.

[Data_-xwyw]

Good girls and bad girls get ghosted! Everyone is ghosted at some point

[MyBeautifulLord]

I'm kicking myself for allowing a guy to breadcrumb me for almost 2 years. 😭
A young doctor I met while overseas. He got his VISA and promised to come visit me in the states, but has not. Lately he has been saying, "I'll call you tomorrow" but never does. I wasted hours daydreaming what it would be like to live overseas with him, what our kids' names would be, etc... I finally decided about 2 weeks ago, I was DONE. When I reminded myself that every other guy I message responds within 3 hours and he rarely actually ever responds, I really decided I was done with the game.

[ohhkayy]

Kind vs nice. I'm kind, open, honest and emotionally available. Have boundaries is a must. The men that run away have issues within themselves or not emotionally available.

[TheMuse]

My recent ex of 5 years told me today that one of my best qualities is I'm very nice and kind....one of my worst qualities is I'm TOO NICE. 🙄 I'm convinced you have to kind of treat them like shit now.

[spacyaurora]

There is nothing wrong with showing a little humility and discretion especially in our close relationships but he's right, if you find yourself obsessing over his feelings or obligated to make him happy then you're doing it wrong.

[candacesmith]

You have to really study people. There are some bad guys who act like they care. Only to get what they want, and its over. We can't be naive when it comes to matters of the heart.

[DasaScent]

3:15 🤣😂😭 this is so repelling lol 💯 true. If u try to please the other person too much u loose yourself and your self worth, and that's how others will treat u too - second to none

[martycosplay]

As a chronic people pleaser, this feels like the wake-up slap I much needed! Thanks!

[honeygold]

What a Treasure! I am this type of woman when dating who tries to please him instead of being myself. Every word in this video is like a message from God! I greatly appreciate your videos. THANK YOU BRIAN!!