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It would be nice if we had a crystal ball telling us which romantic flings would work out at the very beginning so we didn’t invest precious time in the wrong people.

It can be hard to read someone’s intentions in the early stages.

I can’t make you a foolproof lie detector, and I can’t guarantee you’ll never be ghosted again, but I can make you a competent “detector of intentions” so you have the best possible chance of investing your time into people who are serious about a relationship with you.

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[ichiban]

The reason why ghosting hurts is because it's the realization that you overestimated your importance in this person's life

[doncorleonen]

“The disrespect should be all the closure you need”

[savannahsun]

"You want to come into my life, the door is open. You want to get out of my life, the door is open. Just one request...don't stand at the door, you're blocking the traffic."
- Unknown
Saw this today. Quite fitting. Thanks for another great video, Matthew. 🌸😊

[beccadecker]

I spent 5 years with someone who said all the right things, but the actions didn’t match. My new partner matches his actions to his words. I got my closure when I realised I’d been in love with someone that never really existed.

[TameraJacobs]

The trouble is that a lot of times the person who lied and ghosted you, starts dating someone else that they actuley show-up for. Then your left thinking 'So what the hell is wrong with me?'

[janeofhearts]

📌 Any time someone ghosts you, anytime someone doesn’t show up for you — that is a form of closure. People are always showing you who they are.

[linakamergi]

If someone ghost you it means they think that you are not worth a proper rejection from them. They think that they are superior to you they are a narcissist so stay away.

[aponinodin]

I remember when I watched the movie "He's Just Not That Into You" and so many things clicked for me emotionally. I absolutely realized that any man who isn't gathering me into his life, treating me with respect, talking to me in a loving manner, lighting up when he sees me...isn't into me and HELLO, why would I want someone who isn't into me?? Now, any man who talks rude to me, doesn't call when he says he's going to, treats me like I barely matter- I can look clearly and say "He's not into me. He's either passing time with me while he waits for someone he thinks is better, or is an incredibly immature flake, or is too emotionally wounded and unwell to add goodness and joy to my life and will actually be a drain on my life. AND I DON'T WANT ANY OF THOSE THINGS NEAR ME! I MAY BE IMPERFECT, I MAY NOT BE THE PRETTIEST THING- BUT I AM LOVING AND I AM KIND AND I AM HONEST AND I AM FUN AND I AM WORTH LOVING. I AM WORTH SPENDING TIME WITH. I AM WORTH REMEMBERING ON VALENTINES DAY AND BIRTHDAYS. I AM WORTH MORE THAN CASUAL FLIRTATIONS AND GAMES. People, love yourselves: because you are wonderfully and fearfully made. You are precious. Wait Wait Wait for the people who gather you in and cover you with light.

[Alexis-wugk]

Ghosting, empty promises, flakers all have given me the experience to make this statement true, "believe nothing of what hear & only half of what you see" just be kind & watch how they act. Their actions cannot lie. 😊

[msdemeanour]

Remember talk is cheap. When a man shows you who he is, believe him the first time. Too many clowns around 🤡🤡🤡

[wolfie]

I was ghosted by someone in 2010. It was a HORRIBLE way to end what we had. I kept calling because I wanted to straighten it out and resolve and he ignored my calls. He behaved as a huge coward that day. I deleted him from my mind because I REFUSED to feel all the horrible feelings I was feelings as I knew I didn't deserve it. 7 yrs later he died from a rare blood protein disorder. So he's truly a ghost now.

[akeames]

Yep you should give yourself closure. But ghosters are still cowards. End of story.

[LaPinturaBella]

"Actions speak louder than words."

There's a reason this sentance is so well known the world over.

[markodejanovic]

Pay attention to someone's actions more than their words unless what they telling you is inconvenient for them to say, this is a game changer!

[moonrohaizan]

I gave up. I deleted all the dating apps I have. I booked a movie on weekdays because avoiding all couples. I avoided all dating locations and when am eating out, I just go to the lease crowded joint.

I just gave up. Been ghosted continuously that I can't take it anymore. Today's dating scene is all sex first, hearts and mind later.

[BadmintonBombshell]

The timing of this video is impeccable. I was seeing someone long distance who then all of a sudden got cold feet, saying he didn't want any commitment. He however was still planning to spend alot of time with me and talked about going on dates when he got back to town over Christmas. I officially ended everything last night. Glad I listened to his words to avoid more heartbreak. Thank you Matthew :)

[vaishnaviyadavofficial]

My partner left me 3 months ago after 5 years of relationship over a phone call because of an argument between our families where I stood up for his family. He told me I am a good person but my family isn’t compatible with his and he can’t continue.

I was devastated for 3 months but now I realised a person who gave up so easily and didn’t care about my emotions is out of my life and it is a blessing.

[lizardquinn]

I think the more depressing thing is not the ghosting itself but the fact that ghosting is such a prevalent M.O today. It happens so much that people feel totally justified in doing it - like this is how society is now. I don’t think I’d be too upset if I was ghosted after a date or two because I hadn’t invested a lot of time yet. But I read these stories about people ghosting after years of being someone and I’m like WTF? What happened to having a face to face conversation in that situation? Our society gives people permission to not be accountable and that’s messed up.

[indushree]

He ghosted me feel so betrayed... moreover he was the one who initiated conversation and started to flirt with me where I didn't show much interest but atleast when I really got attached to him....he's gone finally ghosted...now i feel so betrayed and devastated. My trust issues have gone to peak

[szaszathebore]

I understand the message, but if every man you meet ends up doing you like this it’s hard to cope sometimes