How We Keep Our Relationship Fresh After 8 Years Together

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[ceuti]

As soon as I heard you guys mention the time you guys broke up in the live stream yesterday being in the new video I knew you guys were responding to my question 🥰 Thank you so much!

I really think the topic of relationships are so important to talk about because they're not something that is ever really taught, but learned through experience and sometimes it's refreshing to hear from a different point of view.

Also it makes me smile so much watching you two and just being able to see and feel how much you guys love and appreciate each other. Appreciation is definitely a characteristic that can easily be overlooked and forgotten about but is super important to being happy and content. Also I think a second channel would be great, that way not everything always has to be about sign language all the time, but just be careful of burnout! A lot of YouTubers start to feel overworked when they feel like they have to manage too much in a short amount of time but I'm sure Ellen has some great ideas, whether it will just be a vlog channel or something else! Hope you guys have a great weekend 💜

[camgraca]

This is what I want in my next relationship. Something honest and real. Working together as a team but still being respectful of each other as individuals. Constantly helping and doing nice things for one another but not taking anything for granted. Prioritizing having fun and growing together. Minimizing distractions and petty arguments. Above all else loving each other unconditionally and not giving up on one another.

[rachel.O-O]

Ellen should totally start her own channel if she wants to and has time to

[tmww]

“No. I don’t want to move!” Cut to them driving again. Lol.

[vivianleenet]

I love that Ryan mentioned talking to each other about your goals. That has been one of the biggest things that made my current relationship stay fresh even though we've also been together almost 8 years (!!) There's something amazing about sharing your dreams and working towards them together. It's clear that your love for each other is going to support both of you to do great things!!

[RaeWakefield]

5:55 cracked me up 😂
"no no I don't wanna move!"
*next frame*
*driving to new spot*

[montyslush]

"i dont want to move!" *instant cut to him driving*

[thejelloprogram]

It's so sad that we don't see more people treating each other like this.

[Ca_]

Love this! I think a huge thing is to avoid just becoming "roommates" and really making time for the small things even when life is busy just to show someone you care for them.

[kimseymour]

When Ryan was talking about doing little things for one another it reminded me of advice my dad gave me before my wedding day. My dad said it must always be about supporting each other and always thinking if one another even so much as one day one if you brings the other a drink, or offers to cook dinner and the next day you switch roles and the other cooks dinner. Or if either has a bad day you let the other one vent to you. It’s about considering each other and never letting that slide. I have been with my husband ten years now and my parents have been together for 39 so much be good advice :)

[kaitlyngilchrist]

You two are so mature. I love seeing a person reflect on where they may have gone wrong in the past. There are too many people with egos that don’t allow for that kind of growth. I’ve been so happy to witness your success on YouTube and in your relationship. I can’t wait to see what else the future holds for you ❤️

[nicolewang]

I wanted to know because I just started my new relationship with my new boyfriend and he's in the marines, stationed far away from Oregon the majority of the year. So thank you thank you thank you!

[imissmybed]

“I’m never entitled to the things you do for me”
And that’s how these small acts stay as special gestures and not a duty.

[stephensonalec]

It is so interesting to me that the very things that you talk about in a relationship are the very things that make your videos so valuable and fresh...take care of the little things, never take anything for granted, set goals AND have fun! You guys are awesome! I learn something every time I watch!!

[thejelloprogram]

Hi I'm 27 and I am losing my hearing. any advice on what I can expect or any? Ive tried emailing you, but not sure if it ever went through. I am scared. I have been trying you out and not talking to see what I might can expect from my town...and OH BOY! I am truly terrified. How do you deal with people who are mean, or judgemental? Any tips, advice, or anything would be whole heatedly appreciated. also have been learning ASL for months the now. you both have helped so much! thank you for everything you do! Also..has Ellen also signed so quickly and with one hand? For ASL or any sign language...can it be one handed?

[monicarowe]

Ellen’s face is glowing!
Is it just Moisturizer? & make a YouTube channel girl!

[marieclaire]

Yayyy my favourite relationship counsellors!! Hahaha even though I’m the most single person out here LOL still love watching you guys and I do get to learn a lot :)

[andylieu]

I liked how you both kinda made a sign for "routine" at the end. Shows that signing can be diverse between different people.

[HisQueen]

Excellent video. Little different things make a huge difference. Not doing the same thing over and over because that can get boring real fast

[FluoGray]

My new [weird daily routine sign] is watching one of your videos during breakfast and it’s always super refreshing. The interaction and the genuineness really make a viewer feel part of the Sign fam 🤟🏼
this video just speaks the truth. I’ve been in a relationship for 5 years and my partner and I have been living together for 4 of those 5 years. This video is not some “oh if it’s meant to be, you will love each other forever 🖤🖤🖤” bullshit! A successful relationship is an ACTIVE relationship! Do something to improve yourself and make your partner’s life better! Work on yourself and the way you perceive your relationship! I loved that aspects you mentioned. Also, to Ellen: I’d subscribe to your own channel 🖤