4 Signs of Immaturity + How to Cultivate Maturity

In this video, I discuss several signs of immaturity, as well as how to change them to foster maturity.

Time Stamps:
0:00 Intro
1:42 Attention-seeking behaviors
5:08 Inability to handle emotions
8:53 Egocentrism
11:51 No filter

The thoughts expressed in this video are my own personal opinion and do not reflect the opinion of any institution I am involved with.

The contents of this video are for educational and entertainment purposes only. They are not meant to substitute seeking professional therapy.

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[edwardzhou]

To everyone: watching this video and attempting to educate or second guess maturity is a VERY mature thing to do :) thank yourself for it

[nimblehuman]

Looking at the mess I made of the last relationship I was in, I have all of these markers of immaturity, and I'm 49 :( Much work to do, but you show the way forward. It's really painful and humbling acknowledging such ugly things about myself, but the truth is the truth. Thank you, for both your content and your presentation.

[mobmadeit]

I'm very proud of all of you for even clicking on this video trying to learn <3

[jaek]

Regarding the crying over the 'scraping of the knee', I don't think that's necessarily always maturity.

I remember in between the ages of 11-13 If I hurt myself I'd think 'okay that isn't too bad' but sometimes would start crying and wasn't able to stop for a little while. I think in some instances it's possible that mentally we've developed to know what isn't serious but our brain will still force us to display childlike responses such as uncontrollable bursts of tears at the beginning of puberty.

[OfficialKoven]

Interesting video and well done! It's funny, I never thought of being blunt/direct/having no filter, as immature, but rather just a cultural thing. I actually like it, because it shows that you are honest and not hitting around the bush. But hey, here I am, a Dutchman. It's kinda normal here.

[smolkitti]

Yes, do make the videos on DBT. Loving the content as well as you. :)

[eonstar]

Pain is weakness leaving the body. Suffering in the present is better than regret.

[volkstrelka]

OMG ANOTHER GREAT VIDEO, you cannot imagine how much I loved this topic cause it helped me out to understand a bit more about what is being immature ❤️ thank you so much for this one, Ana, have a great day!

[jjj_ppp]

I suddenly got recommended 1 short video about immaturity and got curious since then. This is one of the videos it lead me and, I'm so guilty of saying in a job interview that I want the job because of the proximity 😅

[Drawoon]

I don't know if I'm comfortable calling the last one immaturity. A lot of autistic people are naturally pretty blunt, and it can be hurtful to get called immature or childish for it. It just takes us longer to work through it. Especially when supportive environments are hard to find.

[BlackAngel]

Oh, ești româncă 🤩. Foarte mișto canalul! . Și da, suntem oarecum direcți, însă lipsa de tact este un atribut al imaturității în acest caz.

[animeguy-clazzard]

Maturity is like blooming, you can't force it. It must be natural.

[juanberton]

Hey thank you Ana. I can see a lot of these behaviors still lingering in myself but also in the children I help at work. When You mentioned the conflating negative emotions it just rang a bell. The child I work with always describes everything negative or that causes him apprehension/discomfort as being scared. He says he's scared to draw a picture or cut out an image with a scissor despite having done it before countless times.

[andreimoga]

i couldnt tell you were romanian until you mentionned it here
sarut mainile, multumesc frumos. munca ta pe youtube ma ajuta 👍

[GadgetsGearCoffee]

One small note, really don't use ALWAYS, NEVER in your vocabulary when talking to your close ones. It's black and white thinking and it can hurt the other person more and cause them to not listen and get defensive. I'd challenge you to take it further and not use that with yourself with your inner voice! It's a game changer.

[chemistrywithnick]

Learn to accept yourself as you are..It took years to develop your own personality ..just be genuinely and authentically "You"

[qibocreature]

You explain things really well, I get excited for every vid you post lol xx

[samuelbunkly]

I am a rambunctious rapscallion and I'm never going to change.

[CaptainKronk]

The stoics say you should be serious and focus on what you're doing, but they also push away all happiness worth pursuing

[andrew]

found your channel by chance and was enjoying the content but had absolutely no idea we were of the same nationality. In hindsight I should've gotten a hint from your name but your english is so good 🇷🇴 ✌