6 Signs You’re Just An Option To Him

Many women aren't aware of the indicators that they're being considered as an option. 6 Signs to see if he is committed to you and not seeing you as an option.

Many women aren't aware of the indicators that they're being considered as an option. If he makes excuses for not spending enough time with you, he doesn't care about you or your relationship. He should find excuses to meet with you and see you around if he feels committed. If he keeps finding excuses for not spending time with you, he's probably leaving his options open if he meets someone he likes better. If he doesn't think about you when you're not with him, it's an indication that he isn't interested in dating you and seeing you as an option.

If he says he likes you but won't commit totally, so he's asking if you can be friends with benefits. If he merely keeps you around for the sake of having fun, it's likely he only sees you as an option. In the end, if you want to find love and commitment, you must make that person a priority.

Video Timestamps:

00:00:31 6 Signs You’re Just An Option To Him
00:00:49 How much time does he spend with you?
00:01:53 You are just a friend.
00:02:47 Talks about Future.
00:03:43 Think about you.
00:04:21 Does he tries to know you?
00:05:01 Unwilling to commit.

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[foodforthought]

Spot on! I was interested in a man who only had time on his schedule and would back out at the last minute (due to work)…He told me he dealt with depression and somedays just weren’t “good days” for him, etc. I put forth effort to be there for him but decided he was treating me like a pair of warm comfy slippers he’d only use when his feet were cold. So I just stopped and he faded out. Years later I am happily married for the one who pursued me with a passion to know me.

[reesecup]

This is why my heart has turned ice cold towards men. It's unnecessary to play with someone's emotions

[terrytrowbridge]

Totally spot on agree. Except they can even tell you they want a long term committed relationship with you yet treat you like an option. Words mean absolutely nothing. It’s always always in the action ladies, period.

[dianalevy]

1.He doesn’t wanna spend enough time with you.
2.He keeps you in the friend zone.
3.He avoids discussing the future with you.
4. He doesn’t think about you, when you’re not together.
5. He never tries to know more about you.
6. He is unwilling to commit to you.

[lisasingh]

NEVER be anyone's second thought..!!

[shenogood]

Girl, you don’t need this kind of man in your life. You’ll meet a quality man soon 👌🏻🙌🏻

[Starsworld]

Totally agreed....
I was in a relationship for the past 6 years
I broke up with him last year
Because of many red flags today i just saw your video and i count all your points which i saw in him .... anyways I'm satisfied with my decision

[carotari]

So I've been loving the wrong people right always...😔😔😔 I'm done with relationship...I'm done

[louisaklimentos]

If I was single again, I could not be bothered even trying to get into a relationship . I married an abusive type man . Thirty years later he was diagnosed with ADHD and depression . The boyfriend before that was emotionally unavailable and left me 3 times . I now know how to enjoy my own company . So being single again won’t make me feel lonely . So If a guy shows signs that he doesn’t want to commit to you, let his connection go and make room for someone who aligns with you by the universe .

[tintintiglao]

I wish I saw this video 10 yr ago. I wouldn't even wasted my yrs, with my ex. I was only an option or a safety blanket for him, until he finds someone Better and Richier. Of course, parents loves to get involved, too. And he is a Mama's Boy!
If I'm not good enough or Rich enough for mommy, then I'm not good at all.
Thank God, I left him back in 2019, & Evil he's family and parents!
I'm free now and I'm with someone better, who actually loves me for me.

[winnersneeddiscipline]

If I notice am just an option to a man I detach emotionally and physically so I lose interest in him... I better live alone than begging a man... I always have bad luck in relationships twice so I trained myself to be comfortable alone. If he comes well and good if he doesn't I lost nothing 😊😊

[Andrea-wlxz]

he said to me, that he doesn't want me as a friend, but also, considering me as something more, (to be in a relantionship) it's a no.
So... it's confusing, and I don't need someone that is not sure about his feelings for me...

[colletampechi]

Most of the time you become a place holder without knowing ur a place holder, I'm so tired with struggle love, I want someone who loves me for me, just yesterday I was with my boyfriend telling me that he is so busy with his work that's why he doesn't call me or text me, I told him I'm done, I love myself too much to wait for someone to love me, I don't know why some people are so selfish, why do they love to waste other peoples time.

[camuyana]

The other indicator that you are just an option and not a priority is that he makes you the forever girlfriend with benefits and never intends to marry.

[bjale]

So true, we are 2 years already and still I’m in hidden zone… all you said are currently happening to my relationship with my boyfriend😞💔😭 the only thing made me confused is that why he’s helping me financially… I don’t need his money, we meet only once a month and sometimes it takes 2 months before we meet again then when we met he never stayed with me for 24hours however we exchange messages everyday but it won’t give me assurance of his sincerity😞I would like to have him in my life, I would like to have his heart and soul for me, I silently committed my thoughts and soul for him sadly it seems only me is in love😞so tiresome😞 please I need 10 people to tell me “LEAVE HIM” as a sign to stop my foolishness of loving him…I will really do forget him 😞💔

[rjoshi]

So true. I feel the same, except I am married to the man who makes me feel like that. It feel lonely in a marriage like this since it feels like he enjoys having his life without me being a part of it.

[sweetrosehoney]

He committed to me for just relationships but keep options open . because I can meet him in every week .

[goodminion]

And if the video title made you curious and watch, undeniably you’re an option in someone’s 😅

[folasade]

Hi people,
The end is near, we are in the last days. Jesus Christ is knocking on the door🚪 of your heart ❤, blessed is he who let Him in. Jesus Loves you dearly, He laid Himself for your sin, please accept His love today and let Him take control of every situation surrounding your life. Confess and repent from all your sins, lead a life of holiness by the power of the Holy Spirit. Shalom ❤

[chrrig]

I had someone who did and said everything. We were together for 5 years. He Talked about the future.
Talked about marriage.
We moved in together
Talked about having a family. Looking for our forever house. We were going on holidays together. Spent every min together and then he turns around and said he doesn’t want to commit. And gave all the excuses possible and stated calling me everything under the Sun just so he puts blame on me as he can’t commit.
I was told by his ex girlfriend that he will never commit as he did the same to her. I thought she didn’t want me to be with him but she was telling me the truth and I never listened to her..
So someone doing all these thing and still can not commit. He wasted my life and my opportunities of what could have been if he never came into my life. So guys do say all those nice things and then boom no commitment. And to top it off puts the blame on me and said that I don’t want to commit to him which was all Lies lies.