3 Examples of Narcissists Who Play the Victim

3 Examples of Narcissists Who Play the Victim//Narcissists are masters of manipulation. They will do anything to get their way, and they're often very good at getting people to feel sorry for them. But what happens when you call them out on it? Rebecca Zung, top lawyer and narcissist negotiation expert, gives three examples of narcissists who play the victim, and how we can all learn from these tactics so that we don't fall into their trap!
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About Rebecca Zung:
✅Rebecca Zung is one of the Top 1% of attorneys in the nation, having been recognized by U.S. News & World Report as a “Best Lawyer in America”, as “Legal Elite” by Trend Magazine, and recognized by her peers and the judiciary as AV(c), preeminent rated in family law, the highest possible rating for an attorney by Martindale Hubbell.

✅But her journey wasn’t always easy. She got married at 19, had 3 children and divorced at the age of 23. She was a divorced single mom when she decided to go back to law school. She went from being a single mom, college dropout, to becoming one the most powerful lawyers in the country at the helm of a multi-million dollar practice. She is now committed to sharing her secrets and empowering others to live their lives at their optimum level of success, professionally and personally.

✅She is the author of the bestselling books, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win and Breaking Free: A Step-by-Step Divorce Guide for Achieving Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Freedom, and is a sought after major media contributor.

✅She has been featured in Extra, Forbes, Huffington Post, Newsweek, Time, Dr. Drew, NPR Talk Radio, Good Day New York and CBS Los Angeles among others. She is the host of the popular show Negotiate Your Best Life™ which is available on YouTube and as a Top Podcast. She is also a frequent keynote speaker.

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[Leah-fwkn]

My ex was married 7 times and of course he was "the he has a dark spirit inside himself. I can't stand him.

[kimberlyneblett]

You nailed it right on the head!! I had a friend that when I didn’t do what she wanted, she would text me that I once again disappointed her and would text Goodbye. And then time would go by and she would come back around.

I finally had a enough and drew a line in the sand that I can’t be friends any longer. I deserve to be treated better. But I feel still guilty but that’s my issue that I’m working on.

[suejohnson]

The reason the narcissist played the victim too is due to the narcissist never think they say & do anything wrong, cause they to busy blaming us victims . The narcissist want you to feel sorry for them, due to guilt trip . Thank you for your videos & hoped you have a blessed day .

[yukio_saito]

I think narcissists also use these tactics of playing the victim when they recruit enablers and flying monkeys. Enablers are manipulated easily so you are going to get into more trouble.

[peters.]

This and the previous 2 months of watching your videos have helped me a lot. Thanks.

[RJ-buvz]

Amen. My ex is always the victim. Went to great lengths to fake illness and had multiple hospital visits. Even stints in the ER. Every failed relationship was not her fault. Isn’t it “so unfortunate” for her to always meet up with such “crazy people” at every turn she takes.

For someone looking back at these relationships it’s so hard to believe I stayed for as long as I did. A testament to the toxic bond I formed to this person

Keep the videos coming they have been so helpful to me to understand the patterns of behavior, the bonds which develop and how to heal

[xochitlonsurez]

I deal with this daily.
The reason my husband treats me the way he does is because I’m always doing something that caused him to minimize my person. For example no water in the dog bowl. Why would anyone want to be married to a person who doesn’t put water in the dog bowl. A look that he perceived as dismissive or I’m eating to much. He will literally choose all you can eat buffets so that he can criticize how much I eat and why he won’t touch me.
He is a passive aggressive narcissist. He is a victim of my foul mouth.
I can go on with examples, one of the things that has helped me recognize his behavior are these shorts you’ve posted.
Since he is unable to affect me as much as he used now he is trying to change the way people see me. He twists the truth to make himself a victim of my contentious and hypocrite ways as he so bluntly puts it.

[tlove]

AMEN 🙏🏻💯💯My ex. Now that i am finally taking my ex to Court, he’s playing the victim to anyone who will listen. Ironically, apparently he’s also separated & going through a Divorce with his THIRD wife (@ age 47!) who footed all the bills for him as she was his wealthy “Sugar Momma”. He’s always been a Covert Narc & he’s playing the victim role like crazy! It’s just sickening. We have been HIS victim for 15 years & now suddenly bc things are a little hard for him, he’s sucking up as much sympathy as he can! 🤮🤢🙄

[kristinamcleod]

Amen! My Baby Daddy does all of these! I'm so glad I finally figured out he is a covert narcissist and I got away from him after 4 years! Now I just have to protect my daughter from him! your videos have really helped me!!!

[rossedwardson]

I'm going through a legal challenge with my ex who is a covert narcissist who plays the victim and accuses me of being a narcissist among other things threatening to kill her, criminal etc etc. She blames me for her alcoholism and for stealing her son's who no longer talk to her because of her erratic behaviours and all the crazy stuff that comes with addiction and mental disorders You're first person I've watched talk about the subject that I felt really understood this type of person. I find it therapeutic to gain an understanding from other people's perspectives on this subject and am grateful to know I'm not alone
She has amassed enablers, flying monkeys and new supply
It's so bizarre to watch and at times I question myself if I am crazy and did I make these choices for her somehow
I could go on and on about the situation but will keep it short
In the end rotten fruit will fall from the tree on it's own
I will stay focused on the kids and my loved ones and there is no way to go wrong with that in mind
Thanks for your time

[QueenRawlinsonRawness]

Yes I had one that play the victim all the time

[suejohnson]

You are right, so true on all of it completely . Amen 🙏 it has been completely 8 months this month completely no contact . I moved on & enjoyed my life . Thank you for your videos & every one comments here . Thank you everyone here . Hope you all have a wonderful blessed day .

[GodEternity]

Wow!! You are describing my husband of 26 years now, and I finally got sober & he’s still an alcoholic & since March 4th 2022 when I finally woke up & got sober & tightened up my relationship with God & now I’m seeing so much terrible things about him & the abuse is worse than ever now, verbal, emotional, mental, & psychological. And he’s got me down to literally nothing, but I’m in way too deep & so trapped in all ways that all I’ve done the last 9 months is cry every single day & pray to God 😭♥️Please pray for me, he’s had 26 years to manipulate my son & our daughter & they have him up on a pedestal but since I have woken up, I’ve knocked my husband off the pedestal for myself & replaced it with God. Please pray for me😭♥️

[nishahignojozguzman-ngfv]

Amen... You are a blessing to many 🙏🏻
Thank you, I watch every day 💓

[oregongirl]

My mothers always trying to compete w me as well … really odd :/

[stanleymaestas]

Amen, I witnessed narssisist playing the victim. The narssisist made a death threat and when it got reported to the authorities. Inside the threat it was mentioned of how upset they felt about a funeral and missing the deceased . So the authorities were like " well he's upset" because in jurisdiction the threat happened its not enough to make a death threat, it has to be "credible " .

[kathyk]

This is so true. Have a friend who does this all the time. So my family and I told her to stop. But they need to change

[tracigodfrey]

LOVE LOVE LOVE your new haircut! (Oh....and ALL of your brilliant content!)

[cherylwest]

You're so right, because they keep bringing up stuff from years ago and creating their own image or whatever out talking out loud all in your face trying to be the bully no matter who it is turning people against you, no respect for mother anybody she can bully down and think it's okay