Boundaries

[ArmygirlChrist]

Your work is literally life saving and life changing! My life has been so blessed to learn about boundaries! Thank you and God Bless You

[gedguin]

Hello I am from Istanbul and I just would like to thank you millon of times. And I always keep saying your book should be a course book in the high schools of Turkey. Thank you :)

[runnerGOD]

Oh I so wish I had this teaching and knowledge before... This little video is so full of richness! I can't express enough! From experiencing the lack of has been devastating to my person! I am praying I can fully recover from the abuse of others I allowed!

[larrahjaycapuras]

I super need this.. it really confirms God’s word for me last week about guarding my heart. Thanks so much Dr. Cloud

[MCL]

These LPD's helped save my life... mental health wise. Thank you Dr. Cloud

[davidbrogan]

About 20 years ago a therapist put BOUNDARIES in my hand and it changed my life! BOUNDARIES completely revamped how I view myself and relationships. I have given away many copies and recommended this video. Thank you so much.

[erinrischer]

Loved your analolgy! I think if others understood the idea of taking care of whats in your yard (life) and keeping what shouldn't be in your yard (life), we would be so much happier and content with our lives and relationships!!

[CamperEra]

Lol Dr. Cloud!
I watch your videos everyday and
I love how you give such great examples. Your visualization is spot on, except for one small detail. Having worms in your yard is actually a good thing. It’s the termites in that rotting tree that are so destructive 😉

[April]

I appreciate you reminding me in a simple way. Thanks

[jtalladino]

Love all of the LPV's! Great ways to engage in practical, yet highly effective methods of becoming all God intended us to be that others may see His love!

[michelleparker]

I was in a toxic relationship. I became toxic. Things are going to be different. I went through a mini meltdown today, reached out where I shouldn’t have, just me being desperate. I have a lot of past hurt that I caused myself, dumped onto others instead of leaving the situation. I have healing and growing to do, but on my time. I haven’t been in control of myself, just raw reactions, no filter, wounded, that’s not anyone’s fault, just me reacting. Moving forward. I’m here for me. There won’t be any more triggers.. Healing, growing, learning. I’ve been hurt and out of control for a while, feeling defensive and ready to attack. I lost people I love because I stayed with my ex too long. There won’t be any more issues. I won’t have any more distractions. I’m stepping out of my own way. I became toxic with my reactions. Thank you, good mirror, just raw pain. I knew it was wrong to reach out to a stranger for comfort, just the shock of everything. On me know, distractions have been removed. Healing and learning. My relationship with Jason ended because I couldn’t deal with his family. I ended it, not him.

[laurapaul]

Thank You nice work, pray for connections in body of Christ self esteem is who we are in Christ family of God realizing this and building the Body is in need, pray for the trauma and those in isolation family Of God mended and brought together. from the beginning from the fall mending and connection restoration is in need and I have been praying. Thank you..

[marthaVKH]

I am from the Netherlands and preparing a presentation for a student group based on your boundaries teachings and book. Thank you

[ashayaloveji]

Yes, very clear, concise and very pleasant approach... Thank You.

[caleuxx]

Hello doctor Cloud, over the past 2-3 years I've realized with the help of therapy just how dysfunctional my family of origin is. My mother has been schizofrenic since I was about 10. My father is very narcissistic, so much so, that I believe he has NPD. My brother who was 8, when our mom got sick, seems to be passive-aggressive as does his wife. I've even discovered that my 93 year old demented grandmother is willing to be my father's "flying-monkey". I have read your boundry book 3 times. It has helped me very much in general. Setting boundries with so many dysfunctional boundryless people is very time consuming and exhausting.

[MCL]

I'd like to teach this for kids... Hard when their guardians are the ones violating their boundaries

[lil_Miss_Undrstood]

So simplified, it's great. I understood boundaries, common sense. Well, I ended up with someone so controlling, who wouldn't compromise, and went against all reasonable common sense, I lost control of my own life and was forced to live his. Now, after 2 years apart with a perm p/o in place, all his garbage is in my head and his flying monkeys make sure that I know he's still in control of my life. My civil rights are gone and so too my dignity. Everyone hates me, though I'm the only one who doesn't have a clue. I was always there for him and all he wanted/wants is my suffering. It sucks. I just want it over and my life and privacy back. He's made sure that I don't recover and that I cannot ever trust him again. I'm in constant survival mode because of the mockers/baiters/posers. There's no escape. Yet, I hate no one. I should, but I don't. I hate what he's done and doing, but he's more messed up than me and I pray for him and hope he gets help. What else can I do?

[jferiyani]

Love it, helpful to understand about ownership.

[andreabartakova]

Thank you very much for your helpful video! You are saving many people's lives ♥️

[carolynmiddleton]

I'm reading your Bounties book right now. Excellent book. I'm highlighting parts and will read and reread the book .