r/Bestof I Want My Husband to Sleep with My Sister

0:00 Intro
0:10 Husband and my sister
5:33 Falling in the pool

[Nerobyrne]

OP in the first story decided to skip all the steps of grief right to acceptance.

Truly an amazing woman, if that story is any indication. The world will be worse without her.

[emmealsobrook]

That first story is just so tragic. I hope the best for OP’s family.

[DDLAFFEY]

The butterfly effect from not letting the kids push the brother into the pool is wild

[thunderflare]

Imagine allowing your kids to use a cellphone around the pool and not expect it to be dropped in.

[louib]

I never thought a story about a man falling in love with his wife's sister would make me cry happy tears.

[silverflight]

Story 2: Geez, had the kids just NOT try to send OP into the pool, or the kids' parents NOT try to pin the blame entirely on OP and make him pay for the phones that fell in the water, none of this crap would've happened.

And then there's the update. The sister was literally renting out a place she didn't own and pocketing the change, but because she let pride come before reason, now she is in the dirt, and it's all her fault.

If she wants money, she can get a job

[ohnosmoarlulcatz]

That second story is a prime example of a fuck around and find out graph. They kept pushing it more and more and it got worse and worse

[mitchverr]

2nd story: "ruining their OP should have immediately gone scorch earth when he found out they were unlawfully renting out his porperty and reported it. OP is at high risk of tax evasion on the earnings from renting that property out and not declaring its usage pending where they are/live.

[madeline]

Story 2: It honestly surprises me how drunk people let themselves become around their children. Completely irresponsible, unless someone is explicitly designated as the sober one.
edit: wow, being irresponsible was the least of their problems

[sylythryllsixxus]

The galaxy once more speaks to us all, telling us tales from the internet.

[MelodySong]

the update to story 2 is absolutely amazing. I'm willing to bet that OP's Sisters/BILS are just thinking to themselves right now: "Well, if it isn't the consequences to my own actions!" When they found out their vacations to the vacation home are no more once they messed up with OP. Brilliant.

[vintagecameragirl]

My grandmother died young, she was 45 and had 4 children. My grandmother asked her sister to look after her kids, my mum and her siblings.
My nannan (my great aunt) was an incredible women. She had no children of her own, but she was the greatest mother to my mum and us the grandchildren. She was beloved.

She married my grandad just before he died, so she had the same last name as her 'children'.

This on the outside seems weird. But we loved her, and she's been gone over ten years now, she died surrounded by her step children, grand children, loved and cared for by her son in laws.

We miss her every day (it's been 15 years since she left us)

Like I say it's odd on the outside, but her greatest achievement was the love and home she created for her sisters children, and I'm sure her sister was so proud of her for doing it.

[raidernation]

1st story: I completely agree with R/slash. Op isn't trying to force husband & sister together. She's been noticing how close they're getting & doesn't want them felling like they'd be betraying op. She's giving them her blessing.

2nd story: if I were op, I'd make random trips to the cabin to make sure sisters aren't ignoring op's wishes.

[peachymiku]

Story 1: OP is so selfless... I admire her honestly! Coming to terms with her illness and wanting her husband and sister to be happy? Her thoughts are not on herself, but others. Honestly, I can see why people would assume otherwise, but I just find this story heartwarming!

Story 2: Wow, just a simple story at a party with a pool that escalated so quickly! I honestly don't know what to say to all of that.

[Scarlett.Granger]

"When are you paying for my kids phones which they themselves destroyed stupidly AND MALICIOUSLY while I got so drunk i failed my parentsl duty to supervise?!"
Asks the person who would've NEVER paid for OPs phone if the kids had their way.

[lillyvonshtup]

My parents had a vacation home that I’d go to occasionally.. when I left to go home I’d make sure it was clean and locked.. my dad went and the place was a mess and I got bitched at for not cleaning.. this happened a couple times until we found out that a family friend was using it as a “ love nest “ for his latest affair partner .. needless to say we changed the locks after my dad punched him in the mouth and apologized to me

[TFTN_Official]

Why is the first story so depressingly wholesome?

[ryefry]

I'm willing to bet if OP sold the vacation home, they'd just buy another one in the same area so the parents still have a place and the siblings have no idea where it is.

[d.phantomfan]

Story 1: the title made it sound bad but in a weird way it's actually incredibly sweet of OP, it's not about them getting together it's about making sure the husband finds happiness when she's gone. Along with her sister, most people would be upset but not her and that's incredibly strong of her.

[Sanodi]

I was wondering how the second story lasted the rest of the video and turns out it was like falling down stairs, bouncing against a wall, then falling down the next flight, then again and again. I'm just wondering why the sisters chose to have kids or where that A class entitlement came from. I highly doubt it came from the parents.