r/Bestof My Husband Is a Serial Cheater

0:00 Intro
0:17 A stupid joke leads to crazy revelations
12:14 They want my dead daughters college money

[grizbear]

Lotion Man is THE true hero. He literally saved OP with a NAT 20 intimidation that made him crack and exposed his butt!

[alexanderhenby]

I need a lotion man series. Lotion Man, exposing cheating husbands, solving murders and having stupid catchphrases. Like Psych meets Assy McGee

[laurenhayes]

I think what’s worse for the first story was that she didn’t realize he contacted a woman to cheat a MONTH after they got married. A SINGLE MONTH.

[Runner]

As soon as he reacted badly to Lotion Man, I knew he was a jerk!
True partners ALWAYS giggle about stupid thing. My husband and I probably would have made a little cape out of a sock and made a theme song!
Keep Lotion Man, dump the jerk.

[jcfreak]

The heck?! Part of the point of marriage is that you wear unflattering clothes and make stupid jokes to your partner and they love you even more for it! I'm only halfway through the story so I am guessing that it gets juicier but dang! I love it when my husband makes stupid jokes and some of my most cherished memories together are of us tickling each other on the floor or having a laughing fit over nothing because it's 1am and we're slap happy! It's like a never-ending sleepover with your best friend!

[RisingRevengeance]

"Immaturity pissed him off" says the man who ran away like a baby

[TetraSky]

Story 1 : hearing the ending, I thought OP was going to just drop the bombshell "so me and Kai passionately hugged that night in an attempt to forget our pain".

[NEPAAlchey]

Worst thing about story 2 is it sounds like the husband was already wealthy, the money wasn't even necessary. That means it was probably a control thing.

[silverflight]

Story 2: Wow, only three months and the ex-husband decided to take OP's $13K that came from her dead daughter. Like, what sort of heartless person would do that?

[silverflight]

Story 1: I don't know if there is a name for it, but there seems to be some sort of effect where something really dumb and minor just leads to everything falling apart as OP winds up uncovering a whole library of secrets. It's crazy that OP making a dumb joke lead to her discovering her husband's secrets

Like, what would make someone a serial cheater?

[jimbob]

Lotion man the hero we didn't know we needed.

[buddyburrows]

With them spreading the ashes and the two daughters knowing each other this would also entail that the bio daughter had RECENTLY recently passed away. That is just pathetic on the now ex husband. Like that truly could be an all time deal breaker to be so rude and immature over a sensitive subject at any year of marriage.

[tempuradraws]

Welp the first story felt like a train wreck. Any spouse or significant other who can’t handle lotion man aren’t worth it.

[nicholassanabria]

Lotion man is the MVP he saved OPs relationship from being a Joke

[alliecourtney]

The whole point of a relationship is that you have someone to be your goofy, immature, unkept self with.
Those moments are supposed to make you love your partner even more

[Can_think_of_a_name]

Story 2: NTA, it's your daughter's money so it makes sense to give the money to something she would support. I'm glad she left him, may her daughter rest in peace

[audreyfranklin]

I've been loving the r/bestofupdates videos!! They are a breath of fresh air from the routine r/entitled parents, and r/malicious compliance. Plus most of the updates are full of fun drama.

[francescaperron]

I always get a little excited when I see a story is almost the length of the entire video. It must be really juicy

[xKCAZxLEADER]

First Story: Um, ok this guy is weird. What OP did seems to be just a harmless joke. Why did he up and leave over something as harmless? Ok...so he somehow got a crush on his friend's fianceé and she, out of nowhere, was suddenly in love with OP's husband and wanted them both to run away together? This story is weird. Woooow, a simple joke reveals months worth of cheating from OP's husband and Marie. I find it hilarious Marie wanted to be "loyal" to Kai since they were engaged but like she broke that loyalty the first time she cheated on him

Second Story, NTA: What OP's step-daughter says makes absolutely no sense. How is marrying her dad considered contribution to the college fund and it makes him have some kind of entitlement to the money? No it doesn’t; that college fund was accumulated by OP, her ex-husband, and her late daughter. That is exactly what I expected. I would’ve thought that the ex-husband would get half of it instead of current husband. Ok, so he tried to control OP financially and it completely backfired. Wait, wait, wait they were married for only 3 months?! The audacity of these two is crazy

[franciscojaviermendezrinco]

First story: He went nuclear over a simple joke. That's sus.

With the update: Well shit. It seems like he's trying to hold back his desire of cheating.

With the update 2: Well, cheaters abound. Time to prepare the rusty castration tools.