What is BPD or Borderline Personality Disorder? More on my page! #bpd #shorts #mentalhealth

So let's talk all about the definition of BPD and also talk about what BPD or borderline personality disorder really is. This short explained video talks through what it is the symptoms treatment and more of BPD but I have plenty more on borderline personality disorder on my page so check it out! #therapy #bpd #mentalhealth #shorts #health MY BOOKS (in stores now)

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[VinesThroughTime]

I wish there were more stories of personal causes and stories of overcoming borderline. My autism and Ehlers Danlos was completely ignored unless to exasperate it. (I wasnt diagnosed with either until age 42.) Public school, toxic parents, my literal thinking in religious institutions equaled my internalizing every mean thing anyone ever said... I stayed in meltdown breakdown shutdown and reactive.... there was so much abuse that I had t keep to myself bc I heard how the adults talked about survivors and used goods and spoiled and asking for it. I became a drunk. but now I haven't drank in... April will be 8 years. I love dialectical therapy. I love the 12 steps. i love the ACA book. But I don't do groups. I'm still an easy target. I'm practicing boundaries instead of the path of least resistance... and that growth spills over...so I now even love things like physical therapy... and I love my teenage daughter who actually loves me, too. (she use to hate me, but I roared back against the generation cycle!!!!) WE CAN OVERCOME ... the secret: it is an inside job. move a muscle to change a thought! I am not perfect, I have a long way, but I AM NOT WHERE I WAS

[amandasidebottom]

I was wrongly diagnosed with BPD but therapy didn't help... until I was correctly diagnosed with Autism. I was able to find causes for my behaviors and coping mechanisms that helped, and now show no signs of BPD any longer. If I have a meltdown, it's home, alone, and controlled where it doesn't hurt anyone. I also can correctly determine the causes of my meltdowns to avoid triggering future ones. Too many girls are diagnosed with BPD when it is potentially Autism.

[justmeliving]

I think my mom has NPD and my dad has BPD. It’s so hard to tell the difference when they are so much alike. But I’ve watched their fights my whole life and seen how they do each other and other people. I think I have developed some BPD tendencies related to the trauma I’ve endured. But it is hard to tell for me because I have been diagnosed with PTSD. Also my whole family just about is on the spectrum. It’s hard to tell if you don’t know someone what’s really going on. That’s why I don’t like therapy because therapists will never have the full unfiltered picture. My life has been rough. I am now 26 in a frozen state of learned helplessness and a complete inability to get free from my mom. Everything I try and do she’s right there to sabotage me either with emotions and words or actually doing something to stop me. Then my dad is blowing our phones up just wanting so bad to still be with my mom after like 20 years of being separated. Unless I have significant help I will be a fully grown person with no worldly experience and terrified to move incorrectly at all. I’m in a rough spot. And some of it’s my fault for choosing a relationship that was just a cycle repeat and has me with two kids and a tpo against their father because he threatens my life. I was so desperate for love and freedom I ignored every red flag. I feel the most stuck.

[katee]

Broke our family being around one. So traumatised. She goaded my son to take his own life.

[beautifulday]

can you put a link to your full explanation video?

[betsybarnicle]

Where do ethics and self-will enter into this diagnosis? I work with I.D.D. individuals with mental illnesses, and I understand disabilities. But I feel that many bi-polar and BPD individuals have more ability to choose behavior than is given to them (though I know they struggle).

[jessicaspeas]

I just got diagnosed with this confuses me with my depression and anixety I get my moods change alot

[nicktaber]

I think it’s a really bad idea to label victims of abuse as “mentally ill”. How about, they are victims of abuse and this is what the result looks like?

[indigobunting]

People with BPD suffer. Your description is not helpful in getting well.

[marianneforestgirl]

Why is this so bad?
Why should this be considered as not normal?
I have spent pretty much 40 years in finding the answer
Why I am perfectly happy being on my own. There is nothing wrong with that. There are MANY MANY people experiencing this, being on their own and perfectly happy.

Why is there this fantasy that every single human being HAS to be with a partner..just because someone experiences moods, and wanting to be alone, it has NO bearing on oner being experiencing borderline personnel disorder!!!!

[mary-bethminton]

Turns out im not bpd. Audhd wuth cptsd

[hobolove]

Hope you’re doing well girl💕💕 praying for you in Jesus’s name❤️‍🔥🙏🏼❤️‍🔥

[ytuser]

You clearly forgot to add that people with BPD destroy other people's lives. Usually, one person with BPD affects negatively lives of dozens of other people, by cheating, lying, gaslighting, etc.

If you have BPD, withdraw from relationships. You are a horrible partner and you should get some help before engaging in any relationship.