Things Narcissists Fear Most and They Don't Want You To Know About /Lisa A Romano

Things narcissists are fear and don't want you to know about include their fear of you seeing who they really are. Narcissists live in fear of their own feelings of unworthiness and shame. They live in fear of you figuring out who they are and what is behind their mask.

The #1 Thing a narcissist fears is you learning to believe you are enough. Narcissists live in fear of having their false self exposed. Narcissists are afraid and don't want you to find your boundaries or honor them. In this video on the things narcissists fear, I share some of the things narcissists don't want you to figure out so you can overcome narcissistic abuse.

When you understand what the narcissist fears the most, you are in a better position to overcome narcissistic abuse. The #1 thing to remember dealing with narcissists who like to dominate and control you, is that your superpower is your ability to step back and see the games the narcissists play. In this new space, you learn to believe that you are #1 in your life again!

Narcissists are afraid of many things and have a myriad of secret fears. A narcissistic personality disorder is rooted in denial, a lack of self-awareness, an inability to have empathy for others and intense shame. Narcissists are afraid of losing control over their narcissistic abuse victims. Narcissists fear criticism, losing your trust, and abandonment.

When we take the time to understand what a narcissist wants, we can then understand the fear that is motivating their behavior. If narcissists want to control you then they also fear losing control over you. If they lie to you, then they fear you learning the truth. If a narcissist lies and appears to be grandiose, then they narcissists are afraid of being seen as ordinary, regular and not special.

Narcissists are afraid of being found out, of public humiliation and of those they have tried to triangulate coming together. A narcissist has a deep fear of having the crowd turn against them. Narcissists are afraid that you will no longer hold up a mirror and reflect back to them their false self. Remember, the narcissist does not want you to know that you know you are enough!

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[hchattaway]

This has taken 200 tons of weight off of my shoulders... I was coming to many of these same realizations but it's pretty gratifying to see it confirmed in this video! A narcissist truly loves to argue! it's so counter intuitive but they do... They are not "happy" unless they fight. It energizes them and rage becomes their fuel... they are addicted to rage like an alcoholic is addicted to alcohol... a "rage-aholic" is how I think of the narcissist I know!
Thank you!

[wanderingfree]

A narcassist biggest fear is to feel insignificant. So no contact makes their worst fear come right up to the surface. You ignoring them makes them feel very very insignificant.

[GoogleIsAPieceOfShit]

“Narcissists cannot make it on their own, they need a partner.” This must be written in gold!!!

[QueanaIvory]

Period!! “If you want someone to be with you, you don’t Put Them Down”! Absolutely the Truth. 💜✨🧘🏾‍♀️

[AskHack]

The narcissistic rage is like none other. The eyes become like something you have never seen before. It's truly scary.

[ellaelle]

RED FLAG: Will NEVER SAY IT'S MY FAULT & I'M SORRY.

[GoogleIsAPieceOfShit]

Don’t suffer in silence. Talk to people. Your silence will only lead to more Narcissistic abuse. Speak up. Hold on to your power.

[jeanpeter]

When you said " if you want someone to be with you you don't put them down" I felt it in my soul... I SCREAMED "YES!!!"

[shirleylincoln]

I left a narcissist for all of these reasons. I am now with a wonderful man who loves me dearly and I too love him. We raise eachother up and have a great life. Thank you Lisa for helping me see what my X was doing to me. I have fully healed and now have a wonderful relationship. Thanks so much!

[richawoman]

Sad to realize that there are so many narcissists around and are almost untreatable.

[loveisallthatmatters]

Narcissists never say I'm sorry. They will say "sorry you feel that way" rather than be reflective in their own skin. It is truly sad & the reason empaths feel sorry for them. We don't get it as we think everyone has a redeeming self. They NEVER change. They will try to change you so they can maintain their own warped sense of self.

[Mike-xtlh]

Yes projection & gaslighting my dad never takes responsibility he's also a very jealous, envious, childish person .

[lovephilosophymeditation]

I can’t believe how true that expression “the gig is up”. Once trust is broken it’s over and they will have a last ditch effort to manipulate.

[wendellignatin]

Narcissists like to gaslight, minimize and rationalize the abuse.They don't like to deal with their emotions.And other people placate them.That is why i don't go so social gatherings.These are the kinds of people i will meet.

[conmms]

When they realize you have a clear photo of who they are, prepare for the show that is coming. You'll see them taking of the mask.

[lynnettejordaan]

I am 60 years old and married 43 years and live with a narc, it is hell on earth. People like him and they polish his apple but they don't see him at home in our bed room.

[lilolmejusayin]

They can’t be responsible. It destroys them. They have to seem perfect inside and out.

[queeniebee]

My ex narcissist actually said I’m sorry a few times! But it was empty. He would just repeat the same behavior he had apologized for over and over! Being in a relationship with a Narcissist is like being in Alice In wonderland on ACID!! 😆
So upside down and all over the place ! It was the single most worst experience ever in dating!
What was most alarming was to know and understand that he’s not been alone as long as he said and that he’s had a source of women all along, including while we were together! Narcissist are Satan! Evil disgusting individuals. Absolutely gross people!

Glad I’m out. But not before I unequivocally chewed him out and let all my anger and frustration I had pent up. This was more for me not him.

[maryrobinson]

OMG He lied to me again, When I confronted him he said "I am getting out of this relationship, you've got two months. I tolld him don't wait two months, get out tomorrow. I would rather struggle financially than put up with this.

[fremabrenyah]

The idea that if they destroy you you won’t leave is what helped me understand just how demented this situation really is.