Why Men Stopped Dating

In today's video, I will give you the history of dating and why people are giving up on dating. Is being in a relationship worth it?

Timestamps:
0:00 - Why did men stop dating?
0:13 - What is dating?
0:31 - Arranged dating in countries
1:15 - Is it difficult to date now?
1:40 - Why is dating dying?
2:27 - Charity girls
3:18 - Marriage (Class system)
3:50 - True love
4:17 - Matchmakers
5:45 - What happened in 1959?
6:45 - When did online dating start?
7:17 - Why are people giving up on dating?
13:00 - Paradox of choice
16:38 - How does being in a romantic relationship make my life better?
17:39 - How should men be better?
20:54 - How does this equate to marriage?
21:30 - How I met my wife

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[RealMenRealStyle]

Do you think modern dating is still worth it? Comment below!

[Vltron]

It isn't marriage men are avoiding. It's divorce.

[revenant]

There was one girl I went on a date with just before lockdown where we got on the topic of what we were looking for and she wanted to be polyamorous BUT she wanted me to stay mono with her. I was like "....WHAT!?" yeah she wanted to sleep around with her friends but wanted me to sleep ONLY with her....that was a new one for me lol

[BigSneed]

I'm 30 now and one of the harshest lessons I've learned in life is that all those legitimately good and constructive aspirations I had are just not realistic anymore. I want a house? Better work 5AM to 10PM daily for a decade. It's not worth it. Want to get married? Good luck finding a woman who will "settle" for me and surviving the 50/50 dice roll of happiness or losing what little I have in a divorce court. Not worth it.

Past generations call me lazy. I call it a basic cost-risk-benefit analysis, and that's not the way it should be.

[mhw]

When I left the Marine Corps (2008) The Number 1 piece of advice I was given by most of the men I met in the real world was "Don't get married" this from single all the way to divorced and everyone in between...I took that advice.... It didn't take long to see with my own eyes the Hellscape of marriage and dating I could write a book with all the horror stories.. Everytime I saw it I just said to myself "glad it's not me"

[edricdayne]

My dad told me "Son, the number one cause of divorce is marriage. Choose wisely"

[Snake-filledChimp]

I tried my hand at marriage, had an 8-year relationship (4-year marriage) with my now ex-wife, and had 2 kids. We had a good marital home, good jobs, and my parents living nearby who provided no-cost childcare... she ditched me out of the blue one day because she "wasn't happy anymore" and "needed freedom and space" and "wasn't getting what she needed from me". Seriously, she just cut out like I was a f***ing high school boyfriend or something. She refused counseling and every attempt to save our marriage. 4 months later (still married to me) she had a live-in boyfriend and just kinda moved on as if nothing happened for the previous 8 years.

I was completely obliterated and still am in some ways almost 3 years later. Now I'm super black-pilled on marriage, and women in general, frankly. You think you know someone so well that you pledge the rest of your life to them... and they walk away like you are a piece of trash. I don't need that and I won't risk that again. No-fault divorce has destroyed marriage.

[beverlylooper]

My parents and grandparents didn't even define love the same way we do now. We think of it as a passion but they considered it to be the daily devotion you gave to your family and your life together.

[Peleski]

I think the elephant in the room is, why should dating apps want to see you being successful? You'd stop using their service.

[Checkmatemoves]

I've been actively dating for the past 3 years looking for a wife after spending my 20's and early 30's becoming a stable man. I've been on 67 1st dates in that time. The common theme I've noticed nowadays is these 3;
1) They can't cook anymore
2) They're all travelers
3) They want to be in a relationship but act like they're still single

[bobnelson]

The most common phrases that I get are: " I have a boyfriend, so no." or ""Why would I date you, you're not anyone that someone would want to date." among many others. I even had someone tell me this "Men have it easier to get dates." that was one of the biggest lies I have been told about dating.

[DeadCat-]

It's a strange game, the only winning move is not to play.

[pouglwaw]

I brought a box of dollar store toys to an orphanage in Guatemala at Christmas. Kids were hugging and thanking me with tears in their eyes. Some were dancing around holding their $1 toy to their chest. There are so many children in this world who need and respond to even the smallest expression of love and care that nobody needs to be in a toxic relationship to find this feeling of ":family", Those kids cried when I had to leave, but I'm sending a box every month with individual gifts till I can return I'm also sponsoring a fiesta [party] there every month, with food and decorations. Love is showing that you care and that's what saves lives- theirs and mine.

[JAKEBrakeModel]

I am 28 and I never expected dating to be this hard. I am what many would call traditionally attractive, college-educated, fit, over 6 feet and it’s still rough. The part that sucks is you can do everything right, but if the girl has the slightest inkling that there’s another guy better, she will try to seek out that other guy.

Guys don’t even have to be participating in online dating to be affected by it. Instead of competing between friend groups and social circles, you are now competing with other guys across state lines and potentially across the freaking world. It’s cutthroat.

[alpha]

My son met his wife at a food pantry for the homeless. They worked with each other for a year. He went to Europe for an internship after college. She came and volunteered in our daycare. Polite and feminine young lady. Super smart with awkward since of humor. He came home and I grabbed him by his shoulders and said marry this woman Now! He did and I will be a 50 year old PawPaw in February!

[maplemayhem]

Heartbreak sucks and 70% of the time she's willing to put you through it without telling you a thing.

[Cyber-Rain]

I've noticed an increase of "She wanted an open relationship and it didn't end well." stories.

A lot of them worry too much if the grass is greener on the other side. They didn't even bother to work on their own lawn to get it as green as they want. Unchecked hypergamy will be their undoing.

[TheEvoHero]

I’m 29, 6’4, 190lbs, blonde, blue eyed, I make over six figures, I’m conservative Christian, above average mug, and I can’t find a single Christian woman that isn’t either a dog or has an insane level of expectation for their future partner. They expect everything and want to give so little or nothing. Dating is disappointing.

[justinthislife]

I'm single at 30 Statistically I've avoided my first divorce.

[conicEllipse]

I'm in my mid-50s. Was married for nearly 27 years. I thought we were going to go the distance. I thought we were going to be the 1-in-10. Nope. I'm one of the 9-in-10. I recommend against marriage. It's not worth it.