stop dating men who hate you + male loneliness + divine feminine

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In this episode, we dive into the crucial topic of recognizing and avoiding men who harbor deep-seated hatred towards women, including yourself. Elle emphasizes the importance of developing discernment to identify such men and highlights a recent viral Twitter thread that exposes their true colors. Elle acknowledges that not all men fall into this category and expresses her appreciation for good men. However, she points out that the widespread resonance of the tweet proves that many women have experienced this kind of mistreatment. She shares her own experiences of being criticized for calling out men's behavior and urges women to stop making excuses for grown men. Throughout the episode, Elle encourages listeners to prioritize their own happiness and well-being. She reminds them that loving oneself is essential and warns against accepting relationships with men who hold disdain for them. Elle describes the characteristics of a good man who values and respects his partner, emphasizing the importance of setting high standards. The discussion also delves into the issue of male loneliness. Elle challenges the notion that it is solely women's fault, highlighting how women's increased education and financial stability have shifted the dynamics of relationships. She emphasizes that men must do more than simply provide financially and must also be emotionally available and socially aware. Elle courageously addresses the threats of violence that women often face when discussing male loneliness. She refutes the blame placed on women and brings attention to the long-standing danger that men pose to women due to biological differences. Elle emphasizes the need to prioritize personal safety and rejects the notion that women should accept mistreatment for fear of retribution. In conclusion, Elle urges listeners to stop dating men who hate them and to recognize their own worth. She emphasizes the importance of practicing self-love, surrounding oneself with supportive individuals, and trusting one's intuition. Elle empowers her audience by explaining that their absence in men's lives has a profound impact, and that women possess immense power and influence. She signs off by encouraging listeners to go out and seize their dreams.

[wk]

men say women don’t take it well when they get rejected but one gender has a history and multiple terrifying cases of going batshit crazy after getting rejected while the other doesn’t so…

[sarahmaswadeh]

If y’all ever really wanna know if the guy you’re seeing is misogynistic just outright say something misogynistic & see if he agrees with u. Works every time

[catcat]

Such leadership. Waiting for a girlfriend to break up with you. Such masculine courage and integrity.

[SoniaBonia]

I’m going to correct one thing: do not take men at their word. Words aren’t tangible. Actions are. The follow through on his word is what matters.

[ComfortASMRalice]

That was basically my parents relationship. My dad was a bum ass with addiction and mental illness. My mom provided and took care of everything and he HAAAATED her! He told her daily that she’s the ugliest woman, that she’s stupid, and he hit her and humiliated her. My mom barely admitted this and divorced him FINALLY!!!

[__Liza__]

Men are literally working on creating realistic sex bots and incubators instead of just being good, decent people.

[valpereira]

In this thread there was a comment that said "Men feel emotionally attracted to their friends and sexually attracted to women" and it makes a lot of sense when you think how, they prefer cheating on their SO before pissing their homies off, even at the expense of their S.O

[OGfromQueens]

I'm so proud that the younger generation of women have come to these realizations early. Big up yaself young lady!

[Priitreatment]

“When you provide for a man, he will always find someone else to provide FOR” I screamed. Wish someone told me this before. I’m going to put this up on a WALL somewhere

[kiterafrey]

Women: Don't be a dick.
"Lonely" Men: The bar is unrealistically high standards.

[Ducky]

im not sure if you saw the podcast clip where the woman said she has such deep rich caring friendships with women that it makes dating men hard (she said she's straight) and some guys gave her shit for it but it's so true. the way my friends and i care for each other is not something most of us have had from a man. it definitely sets a standard that im proud we give each other. knowing how great a connection to a person can be makes a lot of the bare minimum men seem so worthless to date.

[catcat]

They don't like rejecting women because we raise their status even if they don't personally like us.

[Erinba]

If you hate your girlfriend it’s because you are ABUSIVE. End of. My husband is abusive and before I realised this I used to always wonder why he hates me so much. One quick google and I realised I was in an abusive relationship.

[schizotakes]

if my boyfriend ever goes through the i hate you phase, i am going to go through im dumping you arc.

[Pink_prncess]

Some men deserve loneliness, there I said it.

[maryy.angell]

being single is looking better and better every single freaking day seriously i swear and you can not change my mind, im thanking the gods every night for it.

[noonereally]

Men don’t reject people or leave people because it doesn’t benefit them to do so, they basically want everyone, that’s why they cheat rather than leave, it’s because you are still of benefit, so why leave? They have a very have your cake and eat it too mentality, there is no limit to the amount of kids they can have, and it doesn’t cost them their body to have them, so why would they reject anyone or leave a unhappy relationship?

[__Liza__]

Before getting into a relationship I said "The only thing I want from you is to promise to BREAK UP with me instead of cheating if you're not feeling it anymore ". Nope, he couldn't do that. Too much effort.

[alyssamichaela]

Remember ladies, if he gets off on violent porn/can only get off if hes hitting or choking you, RUN. run very far and never come back.

[dabbythehashelf]

My take as a gay man: many women are forcefully infantilized, and many men are grown infants.