stop dating broke guys [Keke Palmer update]

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In this podcast episode, Elle advises listeners to avoid dating financially unstable men, associating their financial insecurity with potential negative behavior towards women. She cites the example of Keke Palmer and the experiences she had with a financially unstable boyfriend as a cautionary tale. Elle encourages her listeners to seek relationships with men who are successful, respectful, and have a clear purpose, mission, and vision in life. She emphasizes the importance of a reciprocal relationship where both partners contribute and respect each other.

[Logical_magic]

"No good man will ever complain about a woman being treated well"

[cosmiccrush]

"When women hate men they avoid them, when men hate women they seek out women, they access them and hurt them"
What a beauty of a quote, after they are done crying on incel forums, they seek out the very people they claim to hate and try to destroy them or take something from them, it's crazy to me how they can hate women yet still bed them, even do pillow talk but when we hate a man he's blocked😂

[HashtagAPI]

Ladies also remember broke doesn’t have to mean that he doesn’t have money. Broke can also be a mentality. I dated a guy who had money but he was extremely cheap in all ways possible - his time, emotions, thoughts, generosity etc. A broke mentality is almost worse

[AmandySue]

Also, be aware of stingy men! Just because they have money, doesn't mean they are generous.

[angelamazakas]

Broke guys in a relationship basically want to be treated as women....without doing anything women do (like having periods or having children). So, long term, do you really want to work full time to support some guy WHILE ALSO having children?

[cutienerdgirl]

"Being in a relationship of any kind with someone who doesn’t work on themselves means you'll always be catching the strays of their inner war." *This is 100% true and why I chose to be single until I get my sh!t together!* 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[MissDoffy]

Those men who are scared of "gold diggers" are the same men trying to flaunt every amount of money they have to impress women and get mad when women who wants their money (because they have nothing else to offer 🙄) are approaching them. They made money their entire personality and get mad like the hell??

[JasmineWuRealEstate]

Yesss! They know they cannot compete with other men and a lot of times, take that frustration and anger on their wife and children. Never date down even for safety reasons!

[CassieTranthesuperfitbabe]

I remember being with a man who got in my face and said “If you care about women, you’d want to be empowered and do things yourself, right? Paying included.” The disgust I felt after he said that was indescribable.

[dg]

“Getting mad makes you miserable and it’s not good for your skin”. Love it Sista

[LammyHowl]

It's also important to avoid men with a poverty/broke mindset as well. A good man with an abundance mindset will find a way to provide financial security even if life knocks him around a bit, but a man in his poverty mindset will sabotage every opportunity for success that comes his way.

[vitaminka]

Male competition with their friends is very important. If you bf doesn’t have friends to compete, he will compete with you and its exhausting for women.

[ForTheDivine_]

This also includes narcissists with money. They have a poverty of the soul
If he has money but does nothing to improve your life with it, RUN. He's just as bad as a brokie. You're better off on your own taking care of yourself

[pvinixje]

This!! I have dated a broke guy, gave him a chance and it was my biggest regret. (My first relationship actually)

Men hate when women especially us that have plans in life and are in college- don’t want a broke man. Then try to pull the “I want a traditional woman” card “Modern women” when they can’t even be a traditional man 😂.

[AI-zpwx]

Yeah. The problem with men is also next: if you try to help them with their struggles, they won't be grateful for your help, they'll only see you as a matter to achieve the goal, and then they will discard you and go live a better life freely, ALONE. A life, that YOU gave them.
I've experienced a fair variety of broken men: broke, struggling with mental health and addictions. Let me tell you -- none of them were worth it at the end. I've spent countless sleepless night trying to figure out how I can aid them in achieving success, and the second they got what they wanted -- they left. And they also did it in the most disrespectful way possible. Not even "Oh hey, thank you for everything you did for me, but I feel like we need to go separate ways", but rather a "You know what? You don't deserve me anymore. I'm better than ever now! I want a girl of a higher caliber. So go fuck yourself. I'm ghosting you/breaking up with you in a worst way possible/cheating on you!"
So no. Not a single man will ever get such a compassionate treatment from me again. Go figure on your own, darling

[jasmynelliott]

I have survived dating broke(n) men on more occasions than I am proud of. It’s all true: instead of trying to reach a higher level, they will do damn near anything to drag you beneath the basement floor upon which they stand. Elle, you are doing the Lord’s work. May every young woman who sees this never have to go through the hell of being with a broke(n) man.

[leamubiu]

Stephanie Soo recently told the story of Lee Boo-jin, heiress to Samsung.
That QUEEN could’ve married ANYONE, but she went for her quiet, plain, kinda-dumb, commoner bodyguard. The man came from nothing, dropped out of school, and only had got this job through a friend’s reference. His one virtue was that he did not engage in gossip around her, and he seemed kind. He was suddenly propelled to being part of the richest family in South Korea, given some duties but also elite opportunities. She married him despite her father’s disapproval, she gave him a baby, she supported him through and through.

Well I’ll cut it short here, I encourage you to find this story in Soo’s videos, she’s very entertaining—but you can guess it all turned into a dumpster fire within a few years, because that man’s ego was inversely correlated to his smarts.
Some say that he ruined it for all the commoners: now there’s no way the rich ones will let another Cinderella story happen 😅

[xoxosisihere]

Not just broke men but BROKEN men. Because there are well-off men that would do the exact same thing. There’s inexperienced young women watching this thinking having a man with money will prevent them from DV which is not true. Interact with healthy and wealthy men. Vet them well.

[peachluck]

Amen! all my sisters! A broke man will break you. He will break your spirit to get you to carry his burden of inabilities. Don’t fall for the fog he creates to get you enslaved. Do what it takes to attract men on your level, and stay in that lane.

[purpleflows]

16:42

“When women hate men, women avoid men. But when men hate women, they seek out women, they access them…”

When I’ve talked to men about why this is, they have flat out told me that it’s about power.

When we women hate a man, they scare us and safety is the priority.

When men hate us, it’s often because we remind them of their weakness and mediocrity.

This is why poor, powerless, and/or low self-esteem men are so dangerous, especially if the woman is successful or has her stuff together. She will be a reminder of his inferiority and he will resent and hate her for it.

When men hate us, they will try to regain power in the dynamic, even if it is passive-aggressively (ex. Going to bed with women and degrading her during the act or ignoring her afterward the act so she feels emotionally stressed or physically imposing upon her, etc etc). They also get aggressive-aggressive (ex. Stalking, un aliving, DV, etc).

It’s all about power.