When He Pulls Away, Do This Immediately and Get His Attention Back - Dating Advice

When a man starts pulling away and you start chasing after him, he’s gone, you’ve lost him and you’re just pushing him further away.  If you had a man who was into you, wanting to see you all the time, texting you throughout the day, talking about a future together, and then in a blink of an eye something changes and he’s distant, he’s unavailable, he’s barely responding to your messages,  well, chances are you’ve made at least one of the four biggest mistakes that 99% of women make when a man is pulling away. But, you Don't have to let these mistakes wipe out his attraction and push him away for good. I’m psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Antonio Borrello, and in this video I will reveal these mistakes and give you the tools to bring him back and have him pursuing you like he did before!

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[fvoconnor]

My boyfriend pulled away for the first time towards the end of a vacation. I remembered Dr John Gray say when men get really filled up on love, their testosterone drops and they need space to rebuild their testosterone. It's not a conscious thing for them, they just naturally pull away. Then when they come back, they'll be even more loving. Well it sucked while he was distant, but it's true that he started chasing me again a few days later. Those few days made me question everything, but I stayed strong! This video aligns with that for sure

[jackiemm]

Relationship reset
Be fun and confident
Stop initiating communication with him
Prioritize your life and start saying no.
Independence is key
Be unavailable sometimes

[propheticintuitiondiscernm]

I wrote him a poem when he pulled away 🤦‍♀️😂 Lord help us Jesus!

[mariacastellucci]

It's so difficult to not feel like I've done something wrong or that he's not interested anymore.

[gloriatactac]

Gone are the days when men dated with good intentions!

[MideaMusic]

Now, when I am 41, I know what I do when a man pulls way - I cut him off and tell him not to contact me again. And I really don't want to see him anymore.
Why? Because if he is not sure about me then he is not a guy I want to spend my life with. In my eyes he becomes an unsure rabbit and I don't date nor mate with rabbits.
I am not gonna entertain him and create good time for him, I do not live my life to be his entertainment.
If a guy pulls away, I'll lock thr door into my life and won't let him in.
All I know is that when a man is in love with a woman - he sees her as the one and he treasures her and doesn't pull away. If he pulls away, means that he doesn't see you as the one, doesn't tressure you and in such case he should go to hell.

[kauigirl]

Guys love the chase. Once he has you, he's bored. Just stay single.

[jenniferwilliams]

He chased me hard and I finally let him in. Slowly he has become comfortable and don’t seem to feel the same he did at first. Will try your advice. I just don’t want him to think I’m not interested anymore. I also have insecurities because of past relationship where that person cheated. Ugh. We will see!

[ivyagu]

When he pulled away I asked if it was cuz of someone else and he pulled further away so I let him be . I didn’t break up though I stopped calling.

[maielim]

i been watching your videos for so long, your advice really works like magic, but i decided to leave that person because i need to take care of my health i been sick and so much worrying before and now im fine thank God now i love myself .

[Screenrecordingmaniac]

Relationship advises are good. But I know if someone loves you you wouldn't have to beg for attention. Sometimes it's good to check the hints and move on. If he finds you along the way and you fall in love again fine if not you will find a good person. But concealing your hurt just to keep someone is destructive to yourself. Anyways, my opinion. Am sure he is the expert and hope the steps work for you guys

[amijoshi]

So true... don't push be thank you for your video...

[musicnotes]

My "fatal" mistake was asking "What's wrong"? From there a rapid plummeting and it all ended.

[childadvocate]

I love this video and I can use advice you’ve already given Anthony to help people in the comments lol first thing check yourself. They may be your wish fulfillment but ask yourself, am I theirs? make sure you’re not codependent on that person and make sure you’re not relying on them for your own internal happiness. Set boundaries and Be OK to lose them if they don’t honor yr boundaries. be OK to be single until u meet yr mate. Be genuine. Focus on yourself and your love ones and the people who are willing to pour into you and if it’s meant to be it’ll happen.❤️🙏🏾

[yaceemnaomee]

The guy I am in love with is actually my best friend or should I say HE USED TK BE MY BEST FRIEND. we dated for awhile, things were going really smooth. We had our ups and downs though but for the past months, he just gets angry with me or he sees every little misunderstanding be it joke or anything, as something irritating to him. Each time I ask him about what his plans are about us, he tells me plainly that he won't answer my questions and he always refuse to tell me why. I have actually made up my mind to let him go because it looks like I have lost both my best friend and a guy I love cos it's as if I am the only one trying my best

[Afternoon]

5:22 spot on. He broke up w me because I always brought up little things and had conflicts with him for no reason when I had the chance. I regretted it. He’s a good and loving man but you can lose him if you keep being on his nerves

[Linda-uohh]

If a man pulls away once he will do it again. Leave the buster behind and find a real man.

[veronicabass]

No call no coming around just living life stress free forever

[beatricesarpomaaosei]

It only works if he had an interest to begin with

[skvp]

Just had this pulling away conundrum happened to me this past weekend. Everything was great until I started to run my mouth and complained about things. I stayed at his parents place and I felt uncomfortable there but he didn't care about it so I had to say something. I then decided to tell him that I wanted out. He convinced me to stay. Stupid me, I stayed. That same night, I couldn't sleep because he was snoring really bad. The next morning I decided to keep quiet. I worked from home with him. He asked what the issue was or if there was any. I ignored him. He asked for the 3rd time, and was still ignored. After which he stopped asking and focused on work all morning until lunch. I got upset because of his reaction. I then decided to pack my luggage and told him I was leaving. He was shocked but didn't stop me. Long story short, he convinced for the 2nd time to stay. I stayed. That night, he told me he is confused and doesn't know what to do and he felt like he wants to end things. Apparently, he decided to call it quits. Now, we're no longer talking. It hurts but I have to let him go. I sort of begged for him to stay but he didn't want to go on. He wanted his freedom. Now, we're broken up. I want him back but I feel like I screwed it all up. What do you suggest?