If he’s pulling away, DO THIS! #datingadvice #feminineenergy #feminine

[eliciagoguen]

I get the most out of pocket comments on here sometimes 🤣 when I talk about mirroring his behavior, I’m talking stepping BACK into YOURSELF. I’m talking about putting less energy on running towards somebody who is pulling back and more energy into what is more important in your life. If you want to bombard a man and continue asking him why he’s pulling back then be my guest. I’m not saying to never express emotions but in many circumstances and experiences with men, not mirroring his behaviour never works for our OWN peace and sanity.

[alessadolan]

I pull back when he pulls back, i ain’t gonna waste my time on a man who don’t want my time.

[Erica-ecjt]

This is what I have learned. If a man can't communicate well, why do you even want him? Please, please do not send texts or call to find out what happened, etc. When he starts the non-responsive stuff, then leave it where it is. Think...think... that God is shielding you from drama. When he does come back because he will eventually, do not pay him any attention. Do not reply to his texts nor take his calls. It's a wrap. We are beautifully made ladies. Own the goodness in you. Grown men know how to communicate. Boys play games, period. NeXT!!

[Kera]

And please don’t wait around hoping they do come back .Sometimes closure isn’t an option.

[ImKandiegirl]

Damn...I literally couldn't sleep last night cuz I'm going thru this, then this pops up this morning for me. Guess I needed to hear what ur saying right now

[liamfrost]

From a man.. if he is pulling back he is either #1 - not that in to you, #2 - has a few girls on the go and enjoying it until he has to choose, #3 - he is super busy pursuing his goals, #4 - he is gaming you because he knows that girls game. Aware men know women game and so he may use tactics to make him seem more mysterious and rare. Do not wait for him to come back.. men love women who are bubbly and responsive. It makes his life easier

[XTINCTIONation]

If I’m pulling back, it’s because my energy is not being reciprocated

[Erica-ecjt]

Also...this is exactly why it's better to wait to have sexual relations so quickly. Get to know this man...who is he? what are his interests? what's his last name? how does he handle setbacks? nature of his last relationships? what did he learn? what are his hobbies? does he have values...observe...don't ask? what's important to him? Now, I'm not promoting an interview. Get to know him before you step into that arena. Be grown enough to take your time to get to know him. Do you and him gel? Date responsibly. Look at yourselves as beautiful statues so not everyone will have access. My perspective. Use what you wish or not.

[paetonwalton]

I needed to hear this right now. I wanna give you a big ass hug.

[FPSDora]

agreed!! don't let your anxiety make you blow up on him. self-regulate and bring your attention into the fullness of your life❤❤

[rosemarietolentino]

People don’t always feel the way you want them to feel, when you want them to feel that way! And you must except that fact.

[ZazoPink]

Yes! Match his pace. Do not freak out. Cool down and give it a week or so. Two weeks is not a long time in the grand scheme of things. Let him know how you feel without all the dramatics. Be brief and honest: I want to spend more time with you because I love you. After the fact, if he doesn’t seem to offer an explanation or snap out of the funk— accept that the relationship has changed. Reevaluate your desires for a partner and determine if this is what you want in a relationship. If not, baby you’re to valuable to beg! Leave with peace and don’t do anything you’ll regret! Lol 😝

[lisa]

If he's pulling back it could mean that He's just not that into You and maybe into somebody else. Sometimes they want to pull back keep you around until they can find out if someone else is into them and when they find out for sure that that other person is not into them they roll back over to you so you become that fall back person

[joditawhai]

Thos happened to me wen the guy started to pull bk from me. So I didnt chase or pursue him bcz he didnt pursue me, so instead I stood bk & just watched his actions! So fast forward I got to see him for da playa dat he is & I focused on myself...he still tries to get my attention but I neva give him da eye contact lol he tries so hard to lol...but I treat him like a bro now bcz I no longer have any interest in him.

[paigepichon]

Idk girll it like I agree .. because I expierenced the anxiety and wanting to ask questions … but as I matured I realized that that was a trauma response from being hurt in the past.. and it isn’t healthy no .. so I had to figure out ways to be more mature when a man pulls away .. now if you’re dealing with an immature man he’s pulling away for immature reasons ofcourse .. and like if you’re having sex with the man and he’s pulling away that brings a whole new level of anxieties especially when there’s no real commitment and when I say commitment I mean sacrifices and marriage being a thing .. like I know marriage isn’t everybody goals but until you get serious about what you want and your boundaries you’re gonna keep going through those cycles of the whole tug and pull . Find you a man that’s serious about you .. but that don’t mean when he pulls away from you, you draw back . Some people need a little extra love battling with life and that’s how some men cope because they’re use to being isolated in this society that teaches them men don’t cry so when they’re hurting they tend to retreat because they don’t want to be seen as weak .. but allowing a man to feel safe in your presence is a whole different thing .. now this is a very situational thing I would believe . But it’s like I understand all aspects of it … Personally I had to start reading my Bible and getting closer to God and the whole relationship dynamic seems much more sensible to me .. Ik people tend to bash the Bible but I find it very truthful .. I always recommend people to go read it for themselves especially in a translation that is easy to understand .. I use to do the whole feminine, masculine energy thing and the crazy thing is now that I think about it men who believed in that dynamic was very noncommittal .. just dominant in a sense and now that I think about that is very very unattractive .. and no woman deserves to go through that dynamic of relationships … it’s very chaotic and likeee one sided .. God way is the only way .. #prayaboutit .

[gbarr]

I’ve come to a point where it’s hard to watch these shorts/videos because I don’t want to go back and remember everything I did to try to find an answer from him 🙃 I have to remind myself that I’m doing better now ♥️

[ktokie]

This right here! A lot of women don’t understand that men have a pull away need they’re NOT like women. Their world doesn’t revolve around a woman and a relationship. They often put their effort and focus into a lot including their life. They do need to be away from you to miss you.

[superfreakmusic]

Sometimes its literally that they just need some space for a while and its actually nothing to worry about. Just let him know that youre there for him whenever he wants to talk again without pressuring him to talk, and then just get on with your life. Its the balance of letting him know youre still interested without smothering him and being needy

[ladyindigo]

This has been my motto. ❤️Men chase, and he will, provided he wants you. I have a life that is not reliant completely on him. Like she said he'll either explain or not. Then you can make your decision about him.

[silkroad]

It's funny watching the other side of this lol
Guaruntee your man is watching a "what to do when she pulls away" video right now and they're telling him the same thing