How to get a man to open up to you emotionally | Establishing trust and communication

If you want to know how to get a man to open up to you emotionally you need to establish trust in your ability to properly handle the thi1ngs he shares. Men open up to women they trust, so to get him to open up to you and share his feelings. It’s hard to get guys to be vulnerable but getting a msn to open up and share his feelings is worth the trouble.

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[chelsieromero]

My man tells me everything that's bothering him and is not afraid to tell me. Establish a friendship early on in the relationship. Let him know that real men do cry and it's ok to cry and have emotions. The more comfortable you make him feel the more vulnerable he will likely be with you. The truth is men do cry, men are emotional just as us women.

[miya]

I'm tired of jumping through hoops for ppl who refuse to communicate. Some men and probably women, use that mess as an excuse like, "I've been hurt and I'm not ready to discuss." or "I don't think you can handle or hear my feelings." Next thing, you're with this "emotionally shut-down" man for years and you still don't know the things you need to know. Guys will use excuses like these to keep you dangling and wasting your time. If you run across someone like this, please run! Don't waste your time waiting to get info. It's not worth the wasted time. If a person doesn't know how to share their feelings or feel like you can be trusted with them, then they need to get help with their trust issues or like Kev Hicks said, you're not the one they WANT to trust info with. Either Find someone who is emotionally mature enough to want to share their feelings and emotions with, because that is what a relationship is truly built on. It isn't built on secrets and shut doors. You'll spend years with an individual like this and truly not know who they are and how they function and that's just sad.

[h.patriciablackshire]

You are gifted in how you present information. Your words are well thought out. This video was educational. You get the woman to look at herself before she starts pushing for intimate details about a potential significant other.

[Shodanza]

Just a side note, if a woman says "this is what I'm hearing" it's for clarification, in order to cut down on misinterpreting meaning, it's not a signal that she's not listening. Sometimes we need extra information in order to understand what's being said.

[CeeceeH]

Ladies, let's not confuse vulnerability with weakness. Vulnerability is a strength.

[shanellpittman]

For the man that will come by this comment remember that there are manipulative people on both sides of the spectrum however there are some females who are honestly for care you and genuinely concerned about you like Myself. Please know you don’t have to go through issues by yourself we are willing to help you

[TheLocoMariposa]

Good message.
Takes people a while to learn to communicate.

Some people have never had a person that they felt comfortable with to be open with.
❤️thank you.

[jalex]

😩 I don't think I was ready for this one. Lawd. Ouch

[brendapenn]

This is so true we don't know what a person is dealing with sometime if they trust you, just listen your ears are very important to them..

[unapologetic]

🤔🤔🤔Hmmm...how to get a man to open up???...

...Quit nagging so much and when he reveals his TRUE feelings DON'T make him feel like he's a crybaby for feeling some type of way about it!!!

Some of y'all tell men that he's too guarded when the REAL reason he's closed off is because YOU are too hard and makes him feel like he isn't SAFE ENOUGH with you to reveal his feelings!

Men are Not completely void of emotions, they just have LEARNED to mask them.

[galinaioffe]

I don't know about another woman but I'm not worrying about a mans past. My problem is with them hiding their present.

[arlenepayne]

Kevin, this is more than likely your best video. I hope you're a millionaire for these gems of knowledge that nobody else will even touch. Thank you! For helping us, thank you.

[TheFeliciakelley]

Can you handle his truth??

That’s the important part!!

[lisabradford]

i know a guy that's so evasive that he got a little testy when i asked what his middle initial stood for! really? maybe i'm wrong but i didn't think that was a terribly personal question, just conversation. if i can't ask something as simple as that, forget it..🙄

[ebonyessence]

Kev I needed to hear this. I'm currently working on my listening skills. He had been saying exactly what you're saying as far as me listening to reply with a come back. You made me see my fault better than he was able to expose to me. I just love your delivery! Thank you. This will help us so much!

[muonlyteYoloBeautyConsulting]

This video helped me realize the time and effort wasn't worth it. If he wasn't with so many women or keeps in touch with every single ex like he's some type of collection plate, maybe he would have some emotions available. This helped me decide to leave him alone. Thanks Kev! :)

[julianasoldacci]

Kevin, you keep getting better and better! This is gold!!✨🌟

[streetglamtv]

You told no lies. I don’t know how but I always go for the introverted types and it takes foreverrrr to get them to trust that they can share things with you.

[paulineplunket]

Love the multiple scripts provided, namely how to actively listen and not to make it about us, actively listening, and the response script "what do you want me to do with this information". Great video addressing a very core relationship concern.

[butterflyangel]

"They don't listen to UNDERSTAND they listen to REPLY" THAT PART OK THANK YOU 💯💯💯