10 Feminine Ways to Keep a Man's Interest *game changer*

#feminineenergy #masculinity

I think most of us can agree that modern dating is a mess and modern marriage is pretty much all but dead. Men and women have never been more in the dark regarding how to cultivate & maintain attraction and, more so, how to build a relationship/love that lasts. As women, we’re no longer taught how to properly attract and love a good man and men are not taught how to attract and love a good woman - now like how our grandparents were.

And there are so many reasons for this very sad state of affairs but in this video, rather than focusing on the “why” (I’ll go over the “why” more in another video), I want to equip you with some tools that will help you rise above and succeed in the modern dating scene so you can find & keep love.

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Chapters:
Intro - 0:00-2:09
Preface - 2:10-4:45
I. Give him problems to solve 4:46-6:08
II. Heart vs. accolades 6:09-8:51
III. Don't try to compete with him 8:52-10:18
IV. Be gentle yet firm with boundaries (respect) 10:19-14:03
V. Faux femininity 14:04-15:09
VI. Be wholesome 15:10-17:16
VII. Feminine mystery 17:17-18:42
VIII. Feminine quirks 18:43-19:23
IX. Let yourself grimace 19:24-20:24
X. Chivalry 20:25-22:29
Bonus (mothering) - 22:30-23:08
Outro - 23:09-23:39

Background Music:
Lily's Dance - Million Eyes
There Will Be Rain - Million Eyes
Mercy of the Wind - Million Eyes
Haze - Million Eyes
In your dreams - Million Eyes
Corny Old Love Song - Franz Gordon
Altostratus - Franz Gordon
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Hello everyone, welcome to my channel! I'm Jasmyne Theodora, I'm an Orthodox Christian and I make content about the art of femininity (from a virtuous, Godly perspective), lost female education, and traditionalism. Please do subscribe if you enjoy my content and thank you so much for watching.

FAQ:
Height - 5'9"
Race - Biracial (black & white)
Religion - Orthodox Christian
Background - Bachelor's degree in psychology
Relationship status - Married (& expecting a bebe)
Location - Pacific Northwest
Favorite book about femininity - "Eve in Exile"
Some favorite Bible verses - Proverbs 31, 1 Peter 3:3-4, 1 Timothy 3:11

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(if you see this, please comment an unpopular opinion of yours!)

[toby-jeanne_almy]

Some folks forget that marriage is the STARTING line, not the finish line! Always improving ones self is critical to keeping the other person interested

[leah]

"The best way to influence your man is by praying for him" Agreed!!

[msve]

"What it takes to get a man to bed is not the same as what it takes to get a man to the alter" . Edges snatched 😫

[mybee]

I was on vacation with him and I went down to the pool to get some work done and chill and I couldn't get this wodden folding chair to open cause I wasn't strong enough and I needed it to sit at the table to work comfortably.

So I text him "I need help" expecting him to reply asking what I needed help with.
I kid you not, I put the phone down, turned around and in less than 5 seconds he was standing right behind me after having sprinted downstairs when he read my text😂.

Besides being startled by his sudden appearance I immediately realised how much a man enjoys coming to the rescue when he's genuinely invested in you. I really think I've found my future husband 🥰

[AyuJogaComigo]

I can 100% agree on the "giving peace" part. When I met my husband, he always told me how his work would drain him out, both physically and mentally, and how I was the only person who gave him peace and a sense of calm.

[joyeffiong]

10 ways to keep your man interest
* Give him problem to solve
* He is attracted to your heart not accolades and accomplishment.
* Don't try to compete with him
* Be gentle yet firm with your boundaries
* Don't appear feminine to beg a man
* Be wholesome
* Feminine mystery
* Identify your unique feminine quirks
* Don't make him think that you are more interested in him than you actually are.

[puerry]

On the point of letting men be chivalrous, this reminds me of a quote from Uncle Iroh from ATLA where he says, "there is nothing wrong with letting people who love you help you, " and I think this very much applies to us women in this context.

[empresslove]

I love my man so much. We hold our masculine & feminine polarities so sweetly. We’re so in love & to be submissive to him is an honor.

[izzyborn]

Honestly you’ve been such a game changer for me. I’m a 16 year old christain girl who has two very aggressive and strong willed parents. While I love them their ways of doing things and how a woman should act or a couple should behave never really jibes with me. I started watching your videos and immediately thought “I want to be her friend”. The way you think and act is so much like how I want to be, and following your example has been so heartening for me. I’ve never really had any role models but I’m proud to say your my first one :D

[buyi]

Thank u Jasmyne for educating women on such crucial topics. Our true power is in our femininity as women, sadly most women try to be like men and think men are attracted to what us women are attracted to. If u ask a woman what qualities she has that can keep a man she will name things that are not at all what masculine men want. I love being a traditional woman, being a nurturing and feminine inspiration to my masculine husband makes him give me everything above and beyond what i need cause thats what true femininity does to masculine man.

[melancholicnitefise]

You are so so wise. My mother’s a feminist and I wasn’t raised in a Christian home (I became a Christian two years ago) so I am expected to be constantly chasing academic/career-related success, when in reality, I just want to be laid-back and bask in my femininity, serving my future husband and raising children. You are like the wise big sister I never had

[Melaniegallegos]

there's so much things women have to be aware of or things that we have to think of all the time . i don't want to write here about how women are different from men, how women have harder life than men and all this stuff, i always think of the things that are postitive and bring men and women closer together and both genders feel well together which can bring me to lots of things . i can start with walks and end up with bed experience and there i always telm my friends to use that new spanish fly which kicks you a lot

[faywillowstream]

i need to heal my heart and my hormones — i’m very attracted to feminine men right now. which, would be fine, except being in my masculine is exhausting and hardening. i want to return to the femininity little me so easily expressed. 💗

[realpristine]

I’ve seen the way men reacted when I curse, shocked … almost disgusted lol
I’ve stopped doing that since then 😅
Thank you for the tips💛

[trillavivv]

agree, having sex early does blind you. i’ve done this and it turned out to be one of my most toxic relationships. promise myself i’ll wait next time

[amyj.]

Thanx Kenji💓🐺😏😂 a jawline that slice bread? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 That's a thing? Have I been living under a rock.
1. Give masculine, problems to solve/ask for his help- express gratitude in his efforts and dedication.
2. He is attracted to your heart, not accolades/Build with him- I want to have fun with my masculine, I'm too goofy and playful to be serious all the time.🥰
3. Don't try to compete with him/ he has his friends and job for that- nurturing and peaceful oasis, for his day in the competitive world
4. Be gentle yet firm, with your boundaries- respect yourself, and do not allow something that bothers you by staying silent. Address your standards calmly, with patience, and maturely. Release the anger.
5. Do not appear feminine, to manipulate a man- true colors always come out eventually.
6. Be wholesome - Not the same as nativity, but pure serene kindness while remaining humble in my wisdom w/o being such a know it all. Free spirit innocence, hee hee😸 Don't allow world to dirty me up
7. Feminine mystery- Dressing modestly, and carrying myself like a slow opening gift.
8. Identify my unique, feminine quirks- embrace and express my lightheartedness and prankster quirk
9. Don't make him think, you are more impressed with him than you actually are- authentically express myself when it comes to my individual personality, my likes/dislikes (this I definitely know how to do)
10. Allow him to be chivalrous - let him walk on the outside of you, hold doors open for me, give up their seat for me (my father and mother taught me, the importance of this) as an act of protection and provision.
11. Do not mother him- offering solicited advice instead of interfering

Dumplin' did all of these things for me💙🦁 all the time.

[tymaraaustin]

You are a God sent. Me and my partner are clashing so much because of me still removing some of these modern women traits. Your videos are helping me everyday and staying consistent and checking myself everyday is really helping.

[gbikamakanuchi]

I am seeking to become a much more masculine man, and I’ve gain a new perspective on your side, and this truly feels so important for me to learn this. So I appreciate this Jasmyne

[DevinJamalSims]

As a young Christian man I’ll say this is great content for the young women out there !!!

[matylda]

Recently, my bike broke down (the chain fell off) and my husband was very unhappy and condescending of me when I asked for his help. He said I should be able to do such things by myself, because what if it happens when noone is around. And very often my husband behaves in a disrespectful way towards me when I don't know how to do some "manly stuff" :( I wish I could be feminine in that way, but all I get is contempt :((